How many sexual partners have you had?
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Judging from this thread, an obscene number. But then, Sweden is considerably more sexually liberal than much of the world, and I am uncommonly sexually open-minded and liberal even among ye old norse.
As for the purpose of this thread, I think it might actually be possible that the OP simply is curious about the sexual activity of others, regardless of bragging opportunities. His or her 15-20 figure is a rather common number of sexual partners among my younger friends, so I don't consider it a boast.
As for the purpose of this thread, I think it might actually be possible that the OP simply is curious about the sexual activity of others, regardless of bragging opportunities. His or her 15-20 figure is a rather common number of sexual partners among my younger friends, so I don't consider it a boast.
and you kids today dont get that. it doesnt make you a "man" to sleep with as many things as you can. that's an asinine way of thinking, and its just down right moronic.AccursedTheory said:
also, saying you have a "high libido" is like the drunk girl who keeps saying that she was taken advantage of when she was drunk. after she sipped on a single beer for the entire night. excuses, excuses. it makes you a slut. it makes you a whore. good luck with your std's buddy.
That's a lot better than having to question whether or not you might be walking around with an STD because you can't remember whether you had sex with 5 out of 20 girls you hung out with at parties (referring to OPs figures here).RAKtheUndead said:
OT: Enough to know I don't enjoy one night stands and would much rather be in a relationship. Whether or not you think I came to this conclusion quickly or not I leave up to you.
On the one hand, I'd like to ignore this thread, since the OP is clearly just trying to brag; plus, I'd be really surprised if he weren't lying.
On the other hand, I actually like talking about this kind of thing, since I get the impression that I function counter to the mainstream (or, at least, stereotypical) guy, and as such, feel like I'd be adding something to the conversation. :B
I'm 26 and have been with 5 women.
Two of those were one-time things. And, while I was fairly certain I'd feel the way I did, those two confirmed for me that sex with someone I have no attachment to is, at best, unsatisfying (the other one, plain unenjoyable). This is in spite of the fact that both were, objectively, quite pretty.
One was a friend with benefits. Was fun, but something about the situation left me feeling kind of...uneasy. May have been the specific circumstances more than the arrangement; probably won't know until I find myself with another fwb.
The other two were girlfriends. By far, the best overall. Of course, we had more time to figure each other out -- I mean, one was my first time, and I was way too nervous to actually enjoy it, but it only got better from there.
I've got two hypotheses concerning this: first, closer/stronger relationship = better sex. Not even suggesting that a friend can't be closer than a girlfriend; that just hasn't been the case in my experience. Comfort around a given partner is probably a large factor here.
Second, based on what would seem to be a rather uncommon trait in guys, the less I know someone, the less attracted to them I am. I mean, I can appreciate beauty, but personality is a much bigger turn-on/off for me. Even my occasional celebrity crushes rarely cross the line into sexual fantasy -- I'm simply unable to think of them that way. The "stranger barrier" is insurmountable for my imagination.
On the other hand, I actually like talking about this kind of thing, since I get the impression that I function counter to the mainstream (or, at least, stereotypical) guy, and as such, feel like I'd be adding something to the conversation. :B
I'm 26 and have been with 5 women.
Two of those were one-time things. And, while I was fairly certain I'd feel the way I did, those two confirmed for me that sex with someone I have no attachment to is, at best, unsatisfying (the other one, plain unenjoyable). This is in spite of the fact that both were, objectively, quite pretty.
One was a friend with benefits. Was fun, but something about the situation left me feeling kind of...uneasy. May have been the specific circumstances more than the arrangement; probably won't know until I find myself with another fwb.
The other two were girlfriends. By far, the best overall. Of course, we had more time to figure each other out -- I mean, one was my first time, and I was way too nervous to actually enjoy it, but it only got better from there.
I've got two hypotheses concerning this: first, closer/stronger relationship = better sex. Not even suggesting that a friend can't be closer than a girlfriend; that just hasn't been the case in my experience. Comfort around a given partner is probably a large factor here.
Second, based on what would seem to be a rather uncommon trait in guys, the less I know someone, the less attracted to them I am. I mean, I can appreciate beauty, but personality is a much bigger turn-on/off for me. Even my occasional celebrity crushes rarely cross the line into sexual fantasy -- I'm simply unable to think of them that way. The "stranger barrier" is insurmountable for my imagination.
None, zero. And I am happy with my life as it is. I'm just not interested in woman or pursueing a relationship with them eventhough I'm a heterosexual.
I just like to be with myself if I'm not at school/work. Lets me do the things I enjoy. Gaming, writing, drawing, talking with friends, watching a movie.
I just like to be with myself if I'm not at school/work. Lets me do the things I enjoy. Gaming, writing, drawing, talking with friends, watching a movie.
well i'm 19 and i've had 4 sexual partners, which is probably a few too many for what i'm comfortable with.
seriously bragging about your epeen is as about as stupid as bragging about if your apples are better than my oranges.
seriously bragging about your epeen is as about as stupid as bragging about if your apples are better than my oranges.
highly agree to this, that's why i also semi regret/didn't enjoy my couple of one night stands, the connection is just not there, your body might be there, but that's about it.AmzRigh said:
Lying is a sin! Let's not lie and admit 9 out of 10 of us have prob not even had a girlfriend (myself included). Some people have some serious problems not lying when it comes to sex-life. And the main-poster - sex when you were 13? That is also kinda messed up.
