How many sexual partners have you had?

[linkvegeta]

22 and 1 partner yeah haha, oh well its mainly due to my inability to flirt or understand flirting. women get so mad at me and I usually miss out because I end up pissing them off and not realising they wanted to get down and dirty till after I blew it.

 

[Realitycrash]

Judging from this thread, an obscene number. But then, Sweden is considerably more sexually liberal than much of the world, and I am uncommonly sexually open-minded and liberal even among ye old norse.

As for the purpose of this thread, I think it might actually be possible that the OP simply is curious about the sexual activity of others, regardless of bragging opportunities. His or her 15-20 figure is a rather common number of sexual partners among my younger friends, so I don't consider it a boast.

x2.
I'm from Sweden, and while I won't add my number (because it's none of your goddamn business), I can tell you that 15-20 is nowhere near "manwhore" where I come from. In fact, all of my male friends, and female friends, have at least fifteen, and their age range from between 17 to 30.
But then again, we are a bit more...Erhm.."Open", but honestly, it's probably the fact that we start drinking early.

 

[DesiPrinceX09]

I am 18 and as for how many partners...well I lost count after 0, and since then I've had 0 more; does that make me a bad person?

But seriously I am very much against sleeping around with multiple partners just for the sake of sex. I want to have one partner to befriend, fall in love with, marry, and have sex with (in that order). Call me old fashioned, call me a religious nutjob; whatever you want I don't care. I don't want to have sex with a girl I don't love, and so far I haven't found any girl that comes even close.

 

[Realitycrash]

Ok so this is a simple question how old are you and how many sexual partners have you had no need to share experiences bit if you want to you can.
So for me I am 18 years old and have had between 15-20 sexual partners I don't know why but maybe it is because I have a high libido and started having sex when I was 13. So let your fellow escapists know.

Not to be offensive, but being 18, having more then 5 sexual partners, and, the big one, not being able to know EXACTLY how many people you've slept with (15-20?), qualifies you for whore status.

and you kids today dont get that. it doesnt make you a "man" to sleep with as many things as you can. that's an asinine way of thinking, and its just down right moronic.
also, saying you have a "high libido" is like the drunk girl who keeps saying that she was taken advantage of when she was drunk. after she sipped on a single beer for the entire night. excuses, excuses. it makes you a slut. it makes you a whore. good luck with your std's buddy.

And you "grown-ups" these days still use the word "slut"? Seriously? It's wrong to have sex with someone because you want to have sex?
Welcome to the 21th century, gramps.

 

[eljawa]

i am gunna theorize that OP is a liar. 15-20? thats a lot. I mean, maybe its easy to get one night stands in your town, but

well how sexual are we talking. Is oral sex sexual, or do you literally mean vaginal intercourse...sorrym the fact you presented a range concerns me

 

[Anadinolin]

On the one hand, I'd like to ignore this thread, since the OP is clearly just trying to brag; plus, I'd be really surprised if he weren't lying.

On the other hand, I actually like talking about this kind of thing, since I get the impression that I function counter to the mainstream (or, at least, stereotypical) guy, and as such, feel like I'd be adding something to the conversation. :B

I'm 26 and have been with 5 women.

Two of those were one-time things. And, while I was fairly certain I'd feel the way I did, those two confirmed for me that sex with someone I have no attachment to is, at best, unsatisfying (the other one, plain unenjoyable). This is in spite of the fact that both were, objectively, quite pretty.

One was a friend with benefits. Was fun, but something about the situation left me feeling kind of...uneasy. May have been the specific circumstances more than the arrangement; probably won't know until I find myself with another fwb.

The other two were girlfriends. By far, the best overall. Of course, we had more time to figure each other out -- I mean, one was my first time, and I was way too nervous to actually enjoy it, but it only got better from there.

I've got two hypotheses concerning this: first, closer/stronger relationship = better sex. Not even suggesting that a friend can't be closer than a girlfriend; that just hasn't been the case in my experience. Comfort around a given partner is probably a large factor here.

Second, based on what would seem to be a rather uncommon trait in guys, the less I know someone, the less attracted to them I am. I mean, I can appreciate beauty, but personality is a much bigger turn-on/off for me. Even my occasional celebrity crushes rarely cross the line into sexual fantasy -- I'm simply unable to think of them that way. The "stranger barrier" is insurmountable for my imagination.

highly agree to this, that's why i also semi regret/didn't enjoy my couple of one night stands, the connection is just not there, your body might be there, but that's about it.

this - had 4 girls since my first time at 21 , 2 was a threesome during a one night stand, one of wich later became my gf, another was my first timer and another was a rebound girl who i knew for about 3 months then went back to the ex for 3 months then found myself single lol

either way i have to agree with the quoted comment from my findings im 23 by the way

 

[DYin01]

You think that's much? When I was your age I already nailed twentyfour girls, two guys and a housecat.

 

[Sebenko]

20, and a few. You're not getting an exact number.

But I will share that none of them have been women. They're still on my to-do list (pun not intended).

 

[Frozengale]

I'm 21 and 0

yay me?

 

[Tarlane]

I've never been the one night stand sort so I am not going to reduce people I've been in relationships with to just numbers.

I did want to chime in though that all of you who are saying things like 18 and 0, or 20 and 1 would be awesome if this was sports and a win/loss record. Always look on the bright side!

 

[Realitycrash]

i am gunna theorize that OP is a liar. 15-20? thats a lot. I mean, maybe its easy to get one night stands in your town, but

well how sexual are we talking. Is oral sex sexual, or do you literally mean vaginal intercourse...sorrym the fact you presented a range concerns me

Alcohol causes blackouts, which causes lapses in memory (and judgment), probably the reason for the high number.

 

[loc978]

if my age = x
the number of sexual partners I've had is somewhere between x/3 and x/1.5... I'm not certain of the exact number. I spent a number of years as a drunken man-slut.

 

[DarkSeraphim02]

I was going to ignore this thread, but I figured what the hoo haa.

25 and none. If she's not special to me, it ain't happening.

 

[natster43]

I'm 17 and have had 0, also 0 girlfirends. I am kinda a loser.

 

[00slash00]

im a guy and i find sex to be just as much an emotional experience, as it is a physical one. for that reason, i would never have a one night stand or sleep with someone with whom i am not in a deep and meaningful relationship. holds no appeal to me whatsoever. someone who goes out and tries to pick up some random girl to fuck, is just pathetic to me. ill be 26 in april, and i have had sex with 4 people

 

[eljawa]

i am gunna theorize that OP is a liar. 15-20? thats a lot. I mean, maybe its easy to get one night stands in your town, but

well how sexual are we talking. Is oral sex sexual, or do you literally mean vaginal intercourse...sorrym the fact you presented a range concerns me

Alcohol causes blackouts, which causes lapses in memory (and judgment), probably the reason for the high number.

True...idk I personally didnt have much access to either women or alcolhol until i got to college.which is 19...

 

[Shadowfaze]

I have had three- one at college, one goth (big mistake, don't ask) , and the the current one who i met while waiting for a train. She seems nice enough so far

 

[Cat of Doom]

I have had a modest 4 sexual partners. my first was my long-time GF at 17, then three one night stands. Now back with my girlfriend you may be happy to know :3

EDIT: well strictly speaking one of those one night stands were actually a many night stands. TBH I had zero feelings for her she was just well very wild in the sack. Though she was extremely extrovert and seemed to brag about our sex more that me, the guy :?. Didn?t have any feelings for her so I don?t like to count her as a proper sexual partner, but hey. The other 2 were just girls I met clubbing.

So I like to say I have had sex with 4 different girls, but only 1 of them was a Partner.

18 BTW

 

[Auxiliary]

To the person who quoted me!

I expected most people to mention a number above ten at the least. Because frankly said, virtually everyone I know is most certainly above ten sexual partners. I find it quite hard to believe that everyone here supports the idea of having very few partners and sticking to those.

Not that I am much different in that perspective. But I am not going to say I am trying to keep the number as low as possible. Most probably my next visit to Asia or South America is going to double my number... again.

 

[Realitycrash]

i am gunna theorize that OP is a liar. 15-20? thats a lot. I mean, maybe its easy to get one night stands in your town, but

well how sexual are we talking. Is oral sex sexual, or do you literally mean vaginal intercourse...sorrym the fact you presented a range concerns me

Alcohol causes blackouts, which causes lapses in memory (and judgment), probably the reason for the high number.

True...idk I personally didnt have much access to either women or alcolhol until i got to college.which is 19...

Well, who says he's from the US? In Sweden, you can pretty much start drinking at the age of 14. In Denmark, it's even legal from 15. UK it's not legal, but not very hard to get ahold of (Spent some time there when I was 17).