How many sexual partners is too many?

[Kielgasten]

There is no such thing as too many, no matter what gender you happen to be.

 

[Julianking93]

I don't know. I guess it depends on age, but I have this weird thing where I think anyone who's about my age range (16-20) and has slept with more than 2 people is automatically a whore. Man or woman. Especially when these people just sleep around just to fuck something with no real emotions attached.

I don't care what gender you are, sleeping around is gross to me.

If you're 30 and have had 8 partners, that's somewhat understandable, but when you're my age and have done the nasty with multiple partners, that's just...well to put it bluntly, nasty.

But that's all my opinion.

 

[Zersy]

I once new this girl. She was perfect. We were like best friends. Turned out she was a total whore. Thing's arn't the same.

A story most of us can relate to in someway.

 

[twaddle]

Oh, and the sex has to be vaginal to count.

Wow, lots of stuff on this thread that I disagree with, but that takes the cake. Since when does anal not count? I reckon that would count as double.

Would you believe me if I didn't think of anal?

DIDN'T THINK OF ANAL?! HOW DARE YOU! YOU MUST ALWAYS THINK OF ANAL! Seriously though, aside from anal, all other seckzez are not seckzez, for example, Oral sex, doesn't count as sex to me.

well if your female partner is a virgin (and i mean straight virgin. no action at all down below besides you having given her the jollies...(i just realized that u might not know what jollies means so...U Pleasuring her)) and i u done anal with her and not vaginal, then i don't think it really counts. not untill after 1st time vaginal...What?!

 

[BringBackBuck]

I don't know. I guess it depends on age, but I have this weird thing where I think anyone who's about my age range (16-20) and has slept with more than 2 people is automatically a whore. Man or woman.

I don't care what gender you are, sleeping around is gross to me.

If you're 30 and have had 8 partners, that's somewhat understandable, but when you're my age and have done the nasty with multiple partners, that's just...well to put it bluntly, nasty.

But that's all my opinion.

So there's this girl right, she slept with her boyfriend at 16, turns out he was a complete douchebag and lied to her to get into her pants so she dumps his arse then goes out with a guy for a couple of years who then move to Australia. Boyfriend number 3 she dates for about a year but then he cheats on her so they break up.

I'd say if I was in your shoes and met a girl like this I would think she was a pretty reasonable girl who'd had 3 partners at 19. You'd think she was a whore?

 

[Aerodyamic]

Lots of irrelevance.

I just want to say, your avatar is at such total odds with your post.

Irrelevance? It was nice of you to make a moral and contextual judgment based on what you read.

Anyways, I've said it before, and I guess I have to say it again: my avatar is ironic. Alway has been, always will be. What, precisely, is it about irony that you people don't grasp, anyways?

 

[Recneps]

It doesn't bother me unless the answer is basically, "Everyone I've dated and/or met." That would tell me they aren't looking for a relationship or even love, they're just looking for sex.

Joke answer to the thread title: If some of them are falling off the bed, that's too many. ^_^

 

[Julianking93]

I don't know. I guess it depends on age, but I have this weird thing where I think anyone who's about my age range (16-20) and has slept with more than 2 people is automatically a whore. Man or woman. Especially when these people just sleep around just to fuck something with no real emotions attached.

I don't care what gender you are, sleeping around is gross to me.

If you're 30 and have had 8 partners, that's somewhat understandable, but when you're my age and have done the nasty with multiple partners, that's just...well to put it bluntly, nasty

But that's all my opinion.

So there's this girl right, she slept with her boyfriend at 16, turns out he was a complete douchebag and lied to her to get into her pants so she dumps his arse then goes out with a guy for a couple of years who then move to Australia. Boyfriend number 3 she dates for about a year but then he cheats on her so they break up.

I'd say if I was in your shoes and met a girl like this I would think she was a pretty reasonable girl who'd had 3 partners at 19. You'd think she was a whore?

Did I say anything about justified sleeping around or 3 guys in particular? No. I said when you sleep around for the sake of being "cool" or some other bullshit, then you're a ho.

 

[Ben Legend]

Double digits is too many for me... thank god i'm not in double digits. ;P

 

[Stasisesque]

Did I say anything about justified sleeping around or 3 guys in particular? No. I said when you sleep around for the sake of being "cool" or some other bullshit, then you're a ho.

If you sleep around for the sake of being cool, in my opinion, there's a lot more "wrong" with you than simply having a lot of sex. To me, that would infer massive self esteem issues which (not always, granted) would creep into the relationship and destroy it more-so than being the Nth person she's slept with.

There's only one reason I will accept for sleeping around, and that is the enjoyment of sex.

 

[DTWolfwood]

(Number of 'partners')/(your age)<= 1 is ok in my book.

> 1 than your a whore Slut.

edit: Sorry to the professionals.

 

[BringBackBuck]

Did I say anything about justified sleeping around or 3 guys in particular? No.

Yeah, that's pretty much exactly what you said.

I think anyone who's about my age range (16-20) and has slept with more than 2 people is automatically a whore

 

[MiracleOfSound]

When they're filling a void instead of having mutual fun, you've reached too many.

Went through a very promiscuous spell there a few years back between relationships... it was good at first to get the confidence back but ended up becoming addictive and pointless.

 

[Julianking93]

Did I say anything about justified sleeping around or 3 guys in particular? No.

Yeah, that's pretty much exactly what you said.

I think anyone who's about my age range (16-20) and has slept with more than 2 people is automatically a whore

I guess I did say that, but I said later if it's unjustified, then I consider it wrong.

So go with that one.

 

[FreelancerADP]

(Number of 'partners')/(your age)<= 1 is ok in my book.

> 1 than your a whore Slut.

edit: Sorry to the professionals.

12@12 is ALARMINGLY high and 30@30 for the never married is pretty low.

 

[bobknowsall]

I think I'd judge people based on the way they conducted themselves in sexual matters (Whether or not they used protection, if they took risks, stuff like that), rather than the amount of partners they've had. Mind you, that's because it'd be hypocritical of me to judge people based on how many partners they've had.

Two.

Yeah, I'm one of those freaks who actually believes in virginity until marriage. Don't try to convince me otherwise, people have already tried (and failed).

Normally I'm very accepting and all that, but I just fail to understand the whole "saving it" thing. You're basically wasting your best years of sexual experience while waiting to get married. I won't try to convince you otherwise, but I'll just tell you this: Unless you marry some sort of god in human form, it's not going to be worth the wait.

 

[De Ronneman]

I completely support your last rule. I don't really want to know how many men scaled mount Olympos before me...
As to the first rule, what happens in a bar, ends in bed, so hell, everyone slips sometimes.
As to the second rule, as long as it isn't annoying... Sure, a talk about them, or where you came from, or when you see eachother by dumb luck when walking downtown, but hey, doesn't matter.

As to a number... Well, a number is just a number, not a goal, not a minimum, nor a maximum.

I personally like 29200. That's one girl per day, 80 years long, not counting extra days in february, cause they mess up my easy-peasy calcultions.

 

[AmayaOnnaOtaku]

*quote* 12@12 is ALARMINGLY high and 30@30 is pretty low.

Considering I turn 30 in 2 weeks I better get to work *just kidding*

 

[Bane_Star]

as a bro, take the number of years you're sexually active (age -16), then divide it by 3, and there's a good number, unless its more than 6, in which case you say 6. that's your story if asked. really, so long as they appear ready for the relationship you want with them, its just a number.
to go to the OP, the really only question is if THEY know what they are doing, IE if they are not a virgin.

Divide by 6?? Man,.. Between serious girlfriends, I would usually have 2-3 sexual partners to jump between, According to your rule.. I've gone over by 6317%.. EEeep.

My rule is thus: Your Age, but play it like golf, the more under par you are, the more your winning, but if you do go over par by a bit far, may as well go for the highest score ever.... This means at the Age you should be starting.. your 18 partners under par, If you can get it in 1, Great, but don't stress if you strike out a few relationships, you still have a few strokes left to go.

Equality in the sexes,, no rule for me and another for her.. If I meet a woman who's had 10-20 previous partners and she's 24 years old, I figure she's had a bit of fun, and is ready to settle down.. If she's coming in at 1-2... I gotta understand that this chick is likely to want to get married before sex, and that means I need to concentrate on her traits alot faster, than just a few fun dates.. If she's scoring over the age limit.. Then I'm going to insist on condoms.