How to ask a girl out (Operation 7)

[spartan1077]

Sooo... This girl I have liked for a really, really long time is single again... and well, I need advice on how to ask a girl out. I have been receving way to much advice from my friends about what to do, each one controdicts the other. I NEED HELP FROM SMART PEOPLE!

There's your first problem

Ever sense last week, a bunch of shit has been going through my head on what to do, and why things have happened in the past. I still have to work with my shitty highschool, writing a book, and dealing with... you know... girls. I have attempted 6 times in the past to ask her, 5 of which I couldn't even get the question out! (mostly because she already had a boyfriend and I figured it out before I asked) So now it is attempt 7! Lucky number 7, amirite bungi?????? So I am seeking your advice, I plan to ask her next week, but I wanted to know more steps to it, some of my friends say I should try to hang out with her first, others say I should just come clean and ask her... God my head hurts from this. I have more important things to deal with, but this is distracting me. (God ADD is a curse...) So, sense this forums full of intelegent people, I hope one of you has advice on the oposite gender! So yeah... please help!

OHH I forgot another thing, I have to prepair for a Left 4 Dead 2 tournement at my school, HOW AM I SUPPOSE TO CONCENTRATE ON A HORDE OF ZOMBIES WITH ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRLS ON THE FACE OF THE PLANET ON MY MIND?

BTW. Just ask her out. Don't try to even come close to the friend zone. You will be stuck there FOREVER!

 

[SnipErlite]

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Don't make a massively detailed plan laying out exactly what you're going to say and how the conversation will run. It won't work.

Seriously. Nothing, I repeat nothing, will ever go quite as you plan it. Trust me.

Anyway, just ask her. Calm down. It isn't a life or death situation. She may say yes, she may say no. But there's only one way to find out.

go for dinner or coffee, not a movie. Calm down some more. You can do this....

 

[Canid117]

The Escapist is where its at for relationship advice on the web... for some reason...

I look at it this way---why mentor teens in a formal setting where some asswipe will say I'm being "inappropriate" telling it like it is? I'm like that cool uncle who comes over and tells you and your friends what's what---y'know, the one your mom hates and wonders "how could a guy like my husband have such an awful brother?"

Is this something you have experienced first hand?

 

[RocksW]

Im sure somebody has mentioned it already but whatever you're going to do do it as fast as possible because if shes as pretty as you say someone else will snap her up. Im sure theres dozens of guys who have similar plans to you.

What is it, 5 o clock is the US? if you have her number you could call her now. And do let us know how it goes...

good luck mate anyway