Kingsman said:
Can I ask what the point of posting in this topic is if you're just going to say the exact same thing as everyone else? Just look at all the answers on the first page. Good grief. You'd think that one guy had ten accounts or something.
Might as well drop the controversy bomb here and make a different post:
You ask what gay marriage being legalized would do to affect my life.
Can I ask what eliminating the drinking age would do to affect your life if you were over 21?
Can I ask what eliminating all the drug bans would do if you don't take any of them?
Can I ask what legalizing abuse of females would do if you're a male?
Can I ask what abolishing the speed limit would do if you had no license, or walked/biked/etc. to work instead?
Can I ask what making meat illegal would do if you were already a vegetarian?
Can I ask what legalizing pedophilia and child abuse would do to you if you were an adult?
If you say "nothing" to all of the above but STILL found the concepts more than objectionable, you now know that just because homosexuality does NOT affect heterosexuals, does not mean they cannot find it against their own ethics/morals/opinions/whatever.
So if I were to say that I am not straight, and find the idea of heterosexuals morally reprehensible, would that mean that it would be all right for me to pass legislation banning heterosexual marriage? No. I'm sure there would be an uproar over that idea.
The drinking age (In the United States at least) is supposedly based off of the science of brain develpment. So there might be an uproar there.
I don't do drugs, but if you're going to make them legal, I want to know where the money is going, from growers to sellers.
What would legalizing the abuse of males do if your female? Better yet, what would the legalizing of abuse all around do? Its abuse. It's not about morals/ethics/opinions... well, maybe opinions, but still. You can't walk around popping people in the jaw just because you want to.
Speed limits are based (in theory at least) off of safety. I don't always agree with them, but if I were trying to cross the street by my house in a residential zone and you were doing 120, it would probably end badly for the two of us, you in jail and I would be dead.
If child abuse were legal, I know of someone who would not have to check in with local law enforcement were he to move in the next ten years, and some one else that would be out of jail. But, there would still be the point of the damage done to the child involved with the abuse. And yes, taking sexually lewd pictures usually does screw the child up when they get older.
On the point of being a vegetarian, this is probably the closest you come to actually making your point, but only because its a choice. All of the others at least have the potential for harming someone else, wither it be on purpose or accident. Where is the potential for me harming someone else with marriage? You tell me how it would result in the loss of your job, ability to freely move about your house/city/state/country? Where would the potential health risks be? There are none.
I am bisexual, and it has not stopped, nor slowed down your life. Not in the slightest. But if I were to meet a man that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and have benefits, like being able to see him in the hospital were he to be injured, I presently do not have them. Allowing gay marriage would simply allow me the same rights that all hetero couples currently have.
The question, How would gay marriage affect your life?, is not asked because others do not have opinions about gay marriage. It is not asked because others do not feel a moral outrage towards it. It is because the most used answer, in regards to legalizing gay marriage is based upon religion.
*Edited to make less combative. I felt it got a bit to personal for me at the end