I dont know who to beleive.

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Give both of them one good punch to the face angly tell them that your relationships are over and you want to never see them again then turn and walk away dramatically.
 

CloakedOne

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"forced cheating" would be called rape. Sorry, but she's full of shit. Even if she was blackmailed, she still had a choice in the matter.
 

Brad Shepard

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He forced her to? sounds like rape to me, by webster's rule anyway, if you get what i mean.

but no, she wasent "Forced" or anything, she did it willingley, and its up to you what to do, but if you really want to give her another chance, tell her its the last one, and hold off with anything.
 

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Call the cops on the "friend" who forced her. If not, then kick him in the balls repeatedly, for starters. Then, slam his head against the pavement. Dislocate his elbows and knees with well placed kicks, then hang him over a bridge by his wrists and ankles.

But don't kill him yet. The girl might be lying just to get out of trouble.
 

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Killercheesepuff said:
Hey first topic here but I need some advice. well today has been a really bad day for me today... I found out that my girlfreind who I have been dating for 8 months cheated on me with my freind. She says he forced her to do it but I dont know if I can trust her. On one hand if she cheated on me willingly than I would break up with her. But If its not her fault, how can I punish her for what she didn't do? My best freind (not the guy who cheated) says shes lying.

Im just really confused and I need an outsiders opinion. Should I trust my freind or my Girlfreind?
I have mixed opinions.

On one hand what she's saying is BS. If what she's saying is true and he forced her, that's rape, and from the way your describing this it doesn't seem like a rape-type situation. This much should be obvious.

On the other hand if she's even bothering to try and justify it to you, then obviously she still wants to be with you, as opposed to breaking up with you. Things happen, and it is possible for relationships to survive cheating, though it can be hard.

It's really up to you, and what you want. I'm not there, I can't get a good feel for the situation.
 

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I'm surprised nobody mentioned the fact that, rape or no your friend did your girlfriend knowingly. No matter what, that kind of friend is not a friend you want to have.

Also, when talking to your (possibly ex)girlfriend play up the fact that she didn't feel she could tell you about it. That will either conjure up a lot of defensive speak (Lying Whore) or a simple I'm sorry (She's probably telling the truth, give her a second chance).

Either way you Will be losing a friend. Sorry.
 

MegaManOfNumbers

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their both dipshits. dump the girl and ditch the friend. OR as Pirates would say:

make the lass walk ye plank and mutiny the buddy, ar.

yeah, I know, I has terrible pirate talk.
 

Blindswordmaster

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My Bullshit sense is tingling! Both of them(the girlfriend and the cheating friend) are lying. Drop them like they're hot.
 

Necator15

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Dump her ass man. She pulled you off the guy who supposedly raped her? That doesn't add up at all.

(Little other unrelated advice: i before e except after c, or if sounding like "ay" as in neighbor or weigh.)
 

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Killercheesepuff said:
Hey first topic here but I need some advice. well today has been a really bad day for me today... I found out that my girlfreind who I have been dating for 8 months cheated on me with my freind. She says he forced her to do it but I dont know if I can trust her. On one hand if she cheated on me willingly than I would break up with her. But If its not her fault, how can I punish her for what she didn't do? My best freind (not the guy who cheated) says shes lying.

Im just really confused and I need an outsiders opinion. Should I trust my freind or my Girlfreind?
She wasnt forced into it. She just feels somewhat guilty.
(unless she was raped when she was blacked out, in which case your friend sucks and needs to go to jail)
 

thegreatsage

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That easily takes 2nd place for the biggest lie I've ever heard (not including the crap government incumbents spew), apart from the one about the moon not existing (and that was a troll).

My guess is that your friend seduced her and she got 'carried away' although I've never had any of those girlfriend things so the transverse could just as easily be true. Judging by which course you choose, you should probably ditch the one responsible.(It also helps to discern the atate affairs through the circumstances you heard about it)
 

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minarri said:
Just believe the person who tells you that "believe" is not to be spelled "beleive"
Bastard! Stealing my words and going back in time!
(I know I should look at these threads in entirety before posting - but sometimes it's so painful...)
 

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Killercheesepuff said:
Hey first topic here but I need some advice. well today has been a really bad day for me today... I found out that my girlfreind who I have been dating for 8 months cheated on me with my freind. She says he forced her to do it but I dont know if I can trust her. On one hand if she cheated on me willingly than I would break up with her. But If its not her fault, how can I punish her for what she didn't do? My best freind (not the guy who cheated) says shes lying.

Im just really confused and I need an outsiders opinion. Should I trust my freind or my Girlfreind?
Answered in the Relationship Problem thread, at the following link: ----> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161-Relationship-problem-thread?page=36#6402814