You know, with every message-board comes the inevitable gender war/sexist thread stating how men are evil because of how women are portrayed in games.
I don't know about you, but that argument seems ridiculous to me.
So, I started this thread to state the fact, and ask some hard questions.
Facts
I think men are wonderful. As a woman, there is no-one I feel more secure around than my boyfriend, and I KNOW FOR A FACT that though he does love his large breasts, me; being decidedly small in that area, does not affect him. He would never, EVER expect me to suddenly grow into a double D and would never even want it.
Because he loves me for me. Not breasts, or booty. Sure he likes them, but there is much more to him than just his erotic fantasises.
And that goes for all men. Sure, you guys may like your big whatevers or your small whatevers, but every single man I know doesn't immediatly go for it. The men I know love their women because they can talk to them, be supported by them, sit down and have a laugh and play games and just relax with them.
Men treasure women, given the right circumstances. And nothing makes a woman feel more special than her man (or any man in particular).
The most sexist thing my boyfriend ever said to me was "I would hate it if you earned more than me". That pissed me right off, but really, I know he said that because he doesn't want to feel like a bum scabbing off my wages. He cares about me, and wants to support me. You would be surprised how many men actually WANT to support their lovers.
Obviously, abuse does exist, and yes women do get killed or beaten or emotionally abused by their spouse, but that all stems from the circumstances of the individual, be in their past or in their present, and these people need alot of help. But it exists in women too, men have emotion regardless of what either gender may think, and if you put a man down or kick him even after he's failed, he's gonna hurt.
Abuse exists, I do not deny that. But it isn't only men.
It may be sexist of me, but as a woman, I expect my lover to protect me from harm, I expect him to support me when I'm at my most depressed.
And he will, without question. Regardless if I have big boobs or a size zero waist or not.
The point is, men are capable of love, despite what the thoughts of many are. I guess this thread is to point out their good aspects :3. You poor babes have been recieving so much bile as of late.
Questions
What is the most sexist thing you ever heard?
As a woman, what do you love about any man in particular in your life?
Why are so many women so quick to jump on the sexism-wagon?
And men, do you ever really get appreciated by women for being nice?
I don't know about you, but that argument seems ridiculous to me.
So, I started this thread to state the fact, and ask some hard questions.
Facts
I think men are wonderful. As a woman, there is no-one I feel more secure around than my boyfriend, and I KNOW FOR A FACT that though he does love his large breasts, me; being decidedly small in that area, does not affect him. He would never, EVER expect me to suddenly grow into a double D and would never even want it.
Because he loves me for me. Not breasts, or booty. Sure he likes them, but there is much more to him than just his erotic fantasises.
And that goes for all men. Sure, you guys may like your big whatevers or your small whatevers, but every single man I know doesn't immediatly go for it. The men I know love their women because they can talk to them, be supported by them, sit down and have a laugh and play games and just relax with them.
Men treasure women, given the right circumstances. And nothing makes a woman feel more special than her man (or any man in particular).
The most sexist thing my boyfriend ever said to me was "I would hate it if you earned more than me". That pissed me right off, but really, I know he said that because he doesn't want to feel like a bum scabbing off my wages. He cares about me, and wants to support me. You would be surprised how many men actually WANT to support their lovers.
Obviously, abuse does exist, and yes women do get killed or beaten or emotionally abused by their spouse, but that all stems from the circumstances of the individual, be in their past or in their present, and these people need alot of help. But it exists in women too, men have emotion regardless of what either gender may think, and if you put a man down or kick him even after he's failed, he's gonna hurt.
Abuse exists, I do not deny that. But it isn't only men.
It may be sexist of me, but as a woman, I expect my lover to protect me from harm, I expect him to support me when I'm at my most depressed.
And he will, without question. Regardless if I have big boobs or a size zero waist or not.
The point is, men are capable of love, despite what the thoughts of many are. I guess this thread is to point out their good aspects :3. You poor babes have been recieving so much bile as of late.
Questions
What is the most sexist thing you ever heard?
As a woman, what do you love about any man in particular in your life?
Why are so many women so quick to jump on the sexism-wagon?
And men, do you ever really get appreciated by women for being nice?
