I don't understand; why so much man-hate?

[LewsTherin]

Alrighty, questions.

What is the most sexist thing you ever heard?
Mostly locker room talk, nothing I care to repeat.
As a woman, what do you love about any man in particular in your life?
N/A
Why are so many women so quick to jump on the sexism-wagon?
I'd imagine because it's empowering to put someone below you, or that they've had bad experiences with the opposite sex in the past.
And men, do you ever really get appreciated by women for being nice?
Usually, but I tend to hang around with girls who aren't pricks.

A word to the women out there: Sometimes guys can miss hints, please use words and state your intentions, I know it would make this one hell of a lot less awkward and uncertain, especially with guys as shy as myself.

 

[Bulletinmybrain]

Locker room talk is when you really hear what someone thinks of something, and not a facade they put up for women.

That said I agree with lews.

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Oggling breasts is being disrespectful?

Do you feel shame whenever you turn your head to check out an attractive male?

Great, someone else who sees what I see. There is this whole whine about objectification of women, the whole physically unrealistic image portrayed in media. Has it not occured that men feel the same way when we see male models or far more attractive celebrities? How do you think someone like me feels when all the girls are with the athletic douchebags? The same way the average or less than average woman feels when the pretty girls gets all the attention at the bars, school, or whereever the hell these things are taking place and all you can do is sit there. Besides, the media ruins everything, they are ruinin my generation, and they will ruin the next generation. Fucking MTV. Oh well, basically it happens to everyone so deal.[/quote]

Only the strong survive the media.

That said, women going out with the athletic guys? And then complaining that they move onto something better?

Date a guy a little bit under-leveled, they can't cheat on you and break your heart so to speak if they don't have anybody else waiting in the wings. (Unless they just hate you.)

 

[CertifiedWaffle]

I really hate feminists, and to me it seems like they're making women look even more stupid. One thing I would look for a guy is his overall personality, that he would be caring and nice. It sounds corny but hey thats me.

 

[thefrizzlefry]

I can't land a date to save my life. And I'm one of the nicer guys in my school. And yet, for whatever reason, the assholes who make fun of me have their pick of the litter.

 

[Sindaine]

Does he approach her, ever? Seriously, nice guys, grow a pair and approach us! It makes us feel special and wanted and all gooey inside.

 

[Sindaine]

As a man, I have been falsely accused of sexual assult many time by women. And because they are female I am automatically guilty untill the few people who actually know me manage to convince people otherwise.
And lets just say that I KNOW that women can sexually assult men as well, but nobody cares about "reverse rape" or would believe you.

That's because men are supposedly thinking about sex every ten seconds, literally--how can someone so hormone-driven ever NOT want sex? And also that most women are smaller and physically weaker than men, and thus unable to force themselves on men even if they wanted to. Unless he was passed-out drunk or drugged or the like.

 

[Do4600]

"Now, if the comment was "Wow, as a man I have every right to exert my authority over you and your attractively large breasts, how about we marry and I, as your husband, refuse to let you work and have independence?"
Had a good laugh at that one.

Oh yeah, it's actually a myth that men think of sex every 10(7,6,4) seconds, there is no rate at which a person thinks of sex. I also think that men and women are much more similar in the way they think and the way they process needs than you're giving credit.

I felt that I was appreciated by my friends who are women for being tremendously caring and empathetic to their problems with their guyfriends and their other plights, however they always went back to people who just didn't care about them. The biggest problem is illusions that people carry from grade school and high school into their twenties, both sexes do it, they don't fall in love with a person, they fall in love with an idea based on a person which takes much less time. Some of the women I'm friends with now that are 21 to 23, they go to bars, pick up random guys, sleep with them and then they cry on my shoulder when three weeks later the guy cheats on them with another totally random woman.

I was often put into the "Friends Category" in High School. Then one of my "friends" who was a girl used me to get back to her boyfriend, hasn't talked to me since. That hurt and it started a mellowing process.

Nice guys don't have to be jerks to get dates, they just need confidence and a willingness to show attraction and affection earlier, be readable!

Sometimes, I swear women are deathly afraid of grand affection; I was dating this girl once for 4 months, she invited me to her cousin's wedding, so I got a haircut and showed up at the library where she worked and had visited her many times before. It was four days before the wedding, I was wearing a three piece suit to ask her what she thought of it, I brought her roses. She looked mortified! She actually kicked me out of the library, dumped me a month later. No, the suit was not pastel green with pink highlights! Nor am I 500 lbs and 5-feet-naught! It was a BLACK suit with a red tie! white box shirt and a RED false-silk and I'll be DAMNED if I didn't look good in it!!.....what was I talking about?! Hm,
sorry, never mind.