Well, like i said, if she gets pissy like that because you aren't giving her everything she wants, she's just using you. I've known a few girls like that, hell I was the "other guy" in a 3 person relationship, if you want to call it that, for a good 5-6 months. She strung me along saying she was gonna break it off with the dude, but in the end you realize no matter how many problems she might have with him, if she hasn't done it already she isn't going to. She has the best of both worlds, the comfort of a relationship that has existed for long enough to be cozy, but the excitement of something external that is either not similarly cozy, or just has more passion/riskyness to it. And you let her do it to you. I know it ain't easy, especially if you think she's a genuinely good person under it all.lilmisspotatoes said:
In regard to what happened to me, I eventually did get sick of it, and left her out of my life. Next thing I know its like a year later and I bump into her, she apologizes for everything (very maturely, I was happy), and said that after I left her she realized how wrong she was and that the end result was she finally left that guy that was treating her so bad and got everything straightened out in her life. Got the job she wanted, found a person that genuinely cared about her, even was considering engagement (ended up marrying and having kids with the guy). Who knows, maybe putting your foot down will set that girl free or get her head straight, even if she doesn't end up with you. I was happy to know that girl I cared so much about had things going well for her finally, even if she did f*ck up with me. lol.
