tippy2k2 said:
Could you explain why you liked it? There is a big difference between indifference and liking (which your last sentence makes you sound indifferent to the ending; I apologize in advance if I'm presuming too much here).
I liked the ending for reasons that I'm getting sick of explaining

so I would like to hear what you have to say.
I liked the ending because it worked. Shepard died, I'm fine with that. In fact I think I would have liked the ending a little bit less if Shepard made his decision, hopped on the Normandy, and flew away in the sunset, because it would make the choice he made feel less significant. The fact that Shepard gave his life intentionally for the greater good just speaks more about him as a character. It exemplifies his selflessness and willingness to do absolutely anything if it means a better life for someone else.
I like the idea that (in the case of the Control ending) Shepard isn't truly dead, though. He lives on through the embodiment of the Reapers, on an eternal mission to ensure peace in the whole galaxy.
And I loved the ending scene, with the Stargazer and the kid. I can't remember who said this but there is a famous quote that goes something like this. "There are two deaths in this life, one when your body dies, and the other is the last time anybody mentions your name."
This is my favorite part about the ending, because Shepard dies physically, making his decision seem more significant, but the memory of him and what he did will live on forever.