I Need a Friend... Oh, Wait...

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Estocavio

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jultub said:
xI Kinshasa Ix said:
jultub said:
xI Kinshasa Ix said:
I have no real friends, and ive never felt the need to talk to anyone really.
I find myself thoroughly amused with this forum.
Unlike many though i intentionally made it this way and i keep it this way.
Or maybe you're just living in complete and utter denial? :p
Thats what everyone seems to think.
And my response will always be "Im sure".
Kinda funny, because I have intentionally made it the same way, and I'm currently striving very hard to break it. Though I must admit that I was happy with it for very long :p Not that I'm saying that the same will happen to you. But if it does, good luck... It's not an easy pattern to break :/
I doubt ill ever change; However, Good Luck improving your lifestyle to suit how you want it to be!
Deep routed habits are best broken by sheer perseverance and a stubborn refusal to fail.
 

BehattedWanderer

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I rather make a point of not pissing off all my friends at once. Unless it's over a girl. In which case, bets are off. But I don't abandon friends for said girl.
 

JLML

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Never have the problem of not having someone to "talk" to (if you consider chatting with someone "talking" that is) but sometimes I wish I had someone to do stuff with, like travel somewhere, climb a mountain, you name it! (I'm a pretty adventurous person :D)

Most of my "friends" here are boring, and the most fun you can have with them is to play some games together or something. Besides, all but a few are idiots (think it's fully realistic to non-scope with a sniper rifle like in CS? he wouldn't hit a car 50 meters away with scope!)

But yea, I understand that feeling. It wasn't that long ago that I had no one to talk to.
 

blankedboy

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ethaninja said:
I have mates. But none I can connect with on an emotional level. And my family I can barley talk to at all. Yeah I know the feeling.
Epic this. I'm in a circle of 5 (sometimes 6, 7, 8) gamers, and I also have an assortment of friends from various groups, however they tend to hang out with people that hate me. The instant they get about 15 metres away from the haters, they're my friend again all of a sudden.

Man, society is fucked up.
 

Kurokami

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FourEyedPandora said:
Have you ever had a day where you just needed someone to talk to and you realize either:
a] You have no real friends.
b] You are fighting with your friends, and there's no one else to talk to.

I realized today that I have no real friends, at all. I mean, I'm close to my family, but I don't like talking to them about anything. I'm not really dating anyone either, so that's out of the question.

What about you?
Social Anxiety is a *****, not to the point of so much of an ailment, but I always feel like my presence is a hinderence, hence I let people contact me but never the other way around. But yes, I know what you mean.
 

snide_cake

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Luckily for me I have a few close friends who will always make time for me. I'm past high school & university and university is where I made my real friends who will be there til the end. We might not see each other often or talk often but I know they will make time for me if I need them, and would even take me into their homes if I needed it. Hell, they already have.

Plus I live with my very best friend, so I always have someone to talk to. If we're fighting then we blow up at each other and rectify it pretty quick, so I've probably only ever gone to bed angry at her twice in the whole two years we've lived together so far.

My family is good, I can rely on them to get me through things coz they love me, and my little sister is like a best friend now too so if I need to then I can always turn to her as well.

And I have a couple of very good friends on the internet who I have known for 5 years, so I know I'm solid with them.

It's not always been like this for me, but just hang in there mate. Be sure to surround yourself with good people who constantly push you forward, helping to challenge you and willing to support you through thick and thin.
 

Crash 9000

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FourEyedPandora said:
Have you ever had a day where you just needed someone to talk to and you realize either:
a] You have no real friends.
b] You are fighting with your friends, and there's no one else to talk to.

I realized today that I have no real friends, at all. I mean, I'm close to my family, but I don't like talking to them about anything. I'm not really dating anyone either, so that's out of the question.

What about you?
Nnnope, never really felt I needed someone to talk to when there is no supply of people to talk to.
I guess because I've never had any friends and being detached from my family has caused me to simply adapt to my own company. I talk to myself a lot as I crave Human interaction but simply have no one to talk to other than myself.

Not that I have entire conversations with myself. Just I 'think aloud'.
 

Eggsnham

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I have friends, but I don't really enjoy a lot of their company to be honest, all they want to do is mess with other people and make their sexuality well known, while in the process of doing such, are revealing their own sexual insecurities.

I do have one or two good friends though.
 

Zhukov

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FourEyedPandora said:
I realized today that I have no real friends, at all. I mean, I'm close to my family, but I don't like talking to them about anything. I'm not really dating anyone either, so that's out of the question.

What about you?
Yup, been there. 'Tis really no fun at all.

So... um, yeah.. for what little it's worth, you have the sympathies of a random stranger on the internet.
 

Aerodyamic

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ethaninja said:
I have mates. But none I can connect with on an emotional level. And my family I can barley talk to at all. Yeah I know the feeling.
I haven't had a barley talk with my old man in ages; largely because he doesn't drink anymore. My brothers, however, both drink shite beer, but I can have barley talks with them, if need be.
 

Optimus Hagrid

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I have adequate friends. Not that many (I have 41 Facebook friends. I think it is too many), but enough to stave off THE CRUSHING VOID OF DEPRESSION.

I'm kidding, there is no crushing depression void, but I am slightly worried about what will happen after Year 13.
 

RanD00M

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I have no real friends in real life.And I feel like I need to talk to someone almost everyday.
But that's what's the internet is for.Here I have better friends then outside of the internet.

*points at Julianking93 as example*
 

PurpleSky

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FourEyedPandora said:
Have you ever had a day where you just needed someone to talk to and you realize either:
a] You have no real friends.
b] You are fighting with your friends, and there's no one else to talk to.

I realized today that I have no real friends, at all. I mean, I'm close to my family, but I don't like talking to them about anything. I'm not really dating anyone either, so that's out of the question.

What about you?
YOU LIE! YOU HAVE EXACTLY 1 FRIEND AND HE'S ONLINE AS I AM TYPING THIS


OT: I know alot of people.People I like.People I care for.People I call my friends(not many at all).I even told someone they're my best friend,but I don't believe it now,if i think about it. Haven't met anyone I could open fully with,don't think I ever will,and that's ok in my book. As long as I have around good people,I don't want them to see me as they're friend,just as long as they stay around.
 

Nothankyou

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If you feel like you have no friends or just..friends you can't really talk to please find others or let them know somehow, try to become closer.
I lived like that for over 5 years and it drove me insane!

I'm alright now I guess :D
 

ClunkiestTurtle

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FourEyedPandora said:
Have you ever had a day where you just needed someone to talk to and you realize either:
a] You have no real friends.
b] You are fighting with your friends, and there's no one else to talk to.

I realized today that I have no real friends, at all. I mean, I'm close to my family, but I don't like talking to them about anything. I'm not really dating anyone either, so that's out of the question.

What about you?
When i went to College all of my friends stayed back in the same school we had been in for 5 years because they were afraid of growing up and change so i pretty much lost contact/ fell out with everyone i had ever known from school as they held it against me for going away and i held it against them for being cowards and shit friends.

Then at college i was a bit wary of people as i had just been totally screwed over by people i had known for like over 5 years and my very best friends who i had done so much for and got them out of so much shit had just shut me out for no good reason. So i was very careful at college with who i became close to and made a few good friends but then two years later they went off to various other parts of the country to go to university so for the past year i pretty much haven't had any proper friends in the same city as me just work colleagues and people that i just know but don't really like.

Luckily though i have been with my girlfriend for the last 3 years and she has kind of taken over the stuff i did with my guy friends and i know all her friends now pretty well so that makes things a whole lot better as i don't talk to any of my family so without her i would probably have no one....

Lets be friends lol
 

Jedoro

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Never happened to me, I have a few very good friends who I doubt I could piss off all at once.
 

Galad

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Yeah, those moments happen to me too sometimes, but they're fixed by hanging at various fun internet spots (no, not 4chan, I've never been there, nor do I ever want to). If it doesn't help, a beer helps.

And yet, those are not the worst moments of my life. The worst are when studying manages to catch up with the lazy fuck I am.