I second that. It's the best way to ask someone out, is seems nice, respectful and to the point.Deef said:Ask her if she wants to get some coffee or something after her shift. Introduce yourself like that.
I second that. It's the best way to ask someone out, is seems nice, respectful and to the point.Deef said:Ask her if she wants to get some coffee or something after her shift. Introduce yourself like that.
This is probably your best bet; it's quite difficult to screw this up. On the other hand, for the love of God, do NOT do this:Clashero said:"What time do you get off work today?"
"7:30"
"Would you like to go have some coffee after that?"
"Sure, why not?"
She'll think you're a stalker.Shrubery said:i'm no expert on this but maybe you could wait outside of the supermarket and try to casualy walk in to her when her shift is over and then ask her out .
ThisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisthisGreever said:I say wait outside the supermarket for a couple of weeks and learn her routines. Then, at the end of her shift on a weekday when she least suspects it throw her into a large oversized sleeping bag, stuff her in your trunk, and take her home to mother.
Same here with Oracle, as being a hateful Dalek all I can say is pretty much go with what Clashero and Bonsaik said.The_Oracle said:Looks like someone's been twitterpated! And no, I'm not talking about Twitter. But that would be hilarious.
Sadly, being a nihilistic otaku with no life, I can't provide you with anything any more concrete then, "I agree with Clashero and BonsaiK."
Nothing was ever sacred, my friend. Nothing.Chris B Chikin said:Oh god, the internet has even given stupid meanings to Bambi! Is nothing sacred?The_Oracle said:Looks like someone's been twitterpated! And no, I'm not talking about Twitter. But that would be hilarious.
Yeah I was more thinking of asking her to the movies or something. Then I can figure out what movies she likes and dislikes wich is always good conversation material.lykopis783 said:My sister and her husband met in basically this exact situation, (only she worked at Claire's so I'm not sure why his biker guy looking self was in there) so it's not unheard of for relationships to come out of these sort of things. But yeah, make small talk, find common interests, and don't be cheesy or a dick. Beyond that, if you're going to ask her out to do something, I would use something more like a concert or special event than just coffee. Start things off with something interesting that will no doubt get some talk going, rather than coffee or dinner, which in my experience at least, often ends in awkwardness if the guy isn't someone I already knew.
Chris B Chikin said:It could be a culture thing, because I noticed multiple people saying I should ask her to get coffee somewhere while I must admit its something I honestly havent heard much over here. I don't think we wont be talking during a movie (softly) and besides, theres good lounging to do before (for as much as I know about THAT) and we can always get a drink or something after.Biek said:Personally, I'd suggest coffee, or something more interesting before movies. You get to know a person better if you're sitting and talking to them or doing something involved rather than watching a movie in silence. Films can still come up in the conversation, and then at the end of the coffee date you can ask if she wants to go and see [insert film here] sometime this/next week.lykopis783 said:text/quote]
Yeah I was more thinking of asking her to the movies or something. Then I can figure out what movies she likes and dislikes wich is always good conversation material.
For best results, use a small stringed instrument, and sing an Italian love song. You know the kind, all drawn out words and stereotypical Italian musical sound.Wasder said:Serenade her. In the middle of the supermarket.