i think my freind likes me, erm...wtf do i do?

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RebootBlue

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Put her in the friend zone. Girls do it to us all the time, it's only natural one of us gets payback.
 

Mr. Google

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in all seriousness you should wait but if its seriously bothering you and you dont mind hurting her feelings by pretending to be ignorant you could tell her that you like some one and really it depends on so many different factors
 

The_Healer

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Just keep acting like friends.

She'll get the hint eventually. And you will still be friends.

No loss?

PS. Same thing happened to me and it turned out well so take note.
 

Crimson King

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First off, you invented the word "freind," hurrah!
Secondly, if you aren't interested in her then slowly put up subtle flags of passiveness, she'll get the picture.
 

Haunted Serenity

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Just fly under the radar. Then when something hapens you can get out without being noticed or do something quickly because you already were in position.

War metaphors make sense when it comes to love and the like. Think about it.
 

kickyourass

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I've got a nice plan for you
Step 1: Find out if she likes you
Step 2: Take the proper action based on her answer
Step 3: ..............
Step 4: Profit

Think you can remember all that slick?
 

Rarhnor

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Act passive and don't play on her turf. Soon you'll be out of the trenches and you can breath freely.
 

Disaster Button

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PayJ567 said:
A) How old are you?
B) How hot is this girl?

Answer me those shall ye?
Robots don't say ye.

OT: I wouldn't do anything until you know for sure as asking her would be weird pretty uncomfortable if she doesn't feel the way you think. Once you know, or get close to knowing as you think you can, then ask if you have to.

Dictionary dictionary dictionary
 

Colossus_PT

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RebootBlue said:
Put her in the friend zone. Girls do it to us all the time, it's only natural one of us gets payback.
Yeah do this. Really liked a girl, confesed my feeling after about 6 months, she left me for what could happen with an ex-boyfriend, been stuck in the friend zone since. So yeah, Friend Zone her ass
 

Gabriel Xollan

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Speaking as one who shares the same fate I would simply say having explored both angles I've learned that it is best to never give the other any ideas that you are interested and when the time comes where she asks the question your best option is to be straight forward.

If you choose to date her when she asks not wanting to make her feel bad only to later break it off you may do more damage than rejection up front.

If you do a half-assed rejection with the old "we'll see maybe one day" to try to cover it up you'll still have her trying desperatly to impress you and then its almost as if you gave her the green light to date.

At the same time we never want to be mean about it because rejection comes to us all and its never easy being on that opposite foot. In conclusion, say no if she asks and if she doesn't then say nothing of it.
 

Mr. Gency

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manaman said:
PayJ567 said:
A) How old are you?
B) How hot is this girl?

Answer me those shall ye?
Those don't seem to be the right questions.

I have a better one, why did this guy join a gaming forum just to ask for relationship help?
He- I- Uh- Just roll with it!
 

quiet_samurai

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What do you want to do?

Ok.... good. Now go do it.

Really there's no sense stringing someone along or leaving it up to mystery. Because doing either of these will possibly lead to her feelings becoming even stronger.
 

Alexboo

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Oh man, wow. Allow me to give my opinion because I am a girl and, more importantly, because my friend pool is composed almost entirely of guys.

Do -not- just outright tell her "I'm not into you." This can create an awkward situation for a variety of reasons, but mainly because if she does have a thing for you and you respond by saying, "Oh yeah, and you know how you have a crush on me? Yeah...not feeling it your way..." you will probably end up -1 friend.

However, if she doesn't like you and you tell her you don't dream of rolling in the hay with her every night, you'll end up looking like an awkward, pig-headed moron in front of everyone (because eventually the entire community WILL find out about that).

Also, you obviously don't know for certain that she has a crush on you (unless she's constantly trying to get into your pants by any means possible and you're keeping this from us) so if she DOESN'T, bringing it up will at first make it look like YOU have the crush and then that you're kind of a jerk; "Um, do you have a crush on me? Cuz I don't like you like that and I just wanted you to know you probably should look elsewhere for a boyfriend...not here. Not happening."

This leaves you with one option. Well, two if you count hiding in your basement and telling everyone you have Scabies (which will probably drive her away). Just play it cool. If she tells you she has a crush, KEEP playing it cool and say you value the friendship and don't want to ruin it. c;
 

SextusMaximus

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You don't find her attractive? Until she asks you, you have nothing to worry about. When she does, tell her you're not interested.
 

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jarredtheawesome said:
RebootBlue said:
Put her in the friend zone. Girls do it to us all the time, it's only natural one of us gets payback.
Wow i couldnt agree with that any more
Seconded!

Just make it clear that you enjoy having her as a friend and enjoy hanging out with her.
 

peduncle

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tell her "shes a really good freind so i would really hate to hurt her", and see for her responce