i think my freind likes me, erm...wtf do i do?
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Let it blow over... if you say anything, it'll kill the friendship (she'll feel either embarassed or stupid and avoid you)... in time she'll find a new fix and you won't have to worry about it...
If you are too young to spell correctly you are too young to worry about such topics. Period. Sorry, but that should be simplistic nature. If your educational system is inadiquete with helping you with education and grammar you have no business canoodling with the other gender. focus on stuides until you can better understand and grasp the native language in which this was spoken.
Here's the things I need to know:
1: Are you already in a relationship?
2: Is the girl attractive?
3: Is she a nice person
4: Is she a little clingy or weird, anything like that?
5: Are you uncomfortable with relationships?
Without knowing these things, it's hard to come to a conclusion.
If you have to tell her you don't want to be in a relationship, speak softly, look directly into her eyes, tell her as gently as you can that you don't want to be in a relationship, but you still want to be friends.
1: Are you already in a relationship?
2: Is the girl attractive?
3: Is she a nice person
4: Is she a little clingy or weird, anything like that?
5: Are you uncomfortable with relationships?
Without knowing these things, it's hard to come to a conclusion.
If you have to tell her you don't want to be in a relationship, speak softly, look directly into her eyes, tell her as gently as you can that you don't want to be in a relationship, but you still want to be friends.
I say just let it blow over. I mean if you don't like her then you don't like her, just stay good friends. Don't bring it up becausee she will think YOU like her, that's why you asked. If she says she likes you then let her down easy...follow my example
How do I know: I was in about the same situation, fairly good looking girl that was fun to talk to. We had a history class together and hung out once or twice, a few months ago she said she liked me and I told her I didn't see us that way but I still want to be friends. Worked well for me, I hope it works well for you. Good luck!
How do I know: I was in about the same situation, fairly good looking girl that was fun to talk to. We had a history class together and hung out once or twice, a few months ago she said she liked me and I told her I didn't see us that way but I still want to be friends. Worked well for me, I hope it works well for you. Good luck!
I am 19 and in college hanging out with some friends I went back to a bar to have one of my friends close out their tab (she is 21). Well one of her friends who was still there and drunk asked me flat out if I wanted to fuck her and that he thought she was cute. My response was no she reminds me of my sister. And she actually does remind me a lot of my sister so saying you arent attracted to someone does not necessarily make it bad.mike1234 said:
OT: Do what you think is right. If tings become awkward between you ask her straight out. If things don't get awkward then just leave them as is and your feelings for her could change you never know.
Make it clear to her that you just want to be friends - it's probably the best thing to do, though I must admit from personal experience I've never been able to keep a female friend once I know she likes me. Either she can't let go of her feelings, or it fucks with my head too much.
"Is she undressing me with her eyes?? Can I make sex jokes around her without getting the wrong idea?? Am I going to get a facebook message professing her undying love for me, despite the fact that we haven't seen each other in a year??"
That last one actually happened to me a few weeks ago, so yeah, whatever you decide, I hope it works out.
"Is she undressing me with her eyes?? Can I make sex jokes around her without getting the wrong idea?? Am I going to get a facebook message professing her undying love for me, despite the fact that we haven't seen each other in a year??"
That last one actually happened to me a few weeks ago, so yeah, whatever you decide, I hope it works out.
mike1234 said:
Wouldn't want to give you up or let you down, so I've answered the problem in the Relationship Problem thread, at the following link: ----> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161-Relationship-problem-thread?page=43#7458413SODAssault said:
Flawless Victory hahaha!Imp Erection said:
I think if a girl likes a guy then the end result is inevitable. We are so weak when it comes to girls. You might find yourself a little down one night, maybe a little vulnerable... and then Bang! Shes got you naked and shit is getting real. Don't fight it.
Well because nobody else seems to be mentioning it, another approach would be to actualy take more of an interest in her- I'm sure there's a good reason you're friends and plenty of things you don't know about her too. If you really don't like her 'in that way' maybe you need to be more honest with yourself why that is.
That makes more sense, but I still generally disagree. I don't really care if someone is hot. Sure, there are a couple of people that I know who are hot that I would be with, but only because they are cool. For each one of them there's a dozen more hot people that I think are dumb tossers.PayJ567 said:
Instead, the people I like to be with are people who I find interesting. Furthermore, I think the standard of "hot" is over rated. I'll take an average girl over Megan Fox any day, because average people don't look like they're made out of plastic.
I realize that I most likely will have to deal with a lot of emotional instability and such, like you said, trying to go for emotion rather than physical attraction, but I'd rather have my heart broken than train myself to be shallow.
And then there's cases like my brother, who started going out with a girl in sophmore year because of emotional attraction, and has now, 10 years later, has been married to her 5 years.