In my experience, I didn't try to find the person but rather that said person(my boyfriend) found me. Sometimes in life you don't really pick or choose who you're interested in. It just happens. Sometime it's also the timing. Perhaps one isn't ready for a relationship. Emotional, financial or otherwise. So really in the end it's up to the individual where they want to have a relationship or not.
So my answer "whatever be will be" and if so yes.
So my answer "whatever be will be" and if so yes.