If you had the choice of being in a relationship, would you?
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No I probably wouldn't. I'm generally bad with people as a whole and the scenario would just be a monotonous day to day thing of me saying to myself, "so, how am I going to fuck this up today?"
Way too stressful for me.
Way too stressful for me.
I will say that I have never been in a relationship. I would look at the OP's question as hypothetical in that I choose what the relationship is like. Of course I am dreaming, but I would want a relationship that is easy going and the girl would be kind and understanding about how I live my life and be there for me if I have problems. Since I am the type of person that is looking to get married and have a family, she would have to want that too. It would be the biggest kind of bonus if she was into the same things that I'm into, and not be repulsed by my strange and dark-side.
Realistically if I did get a chance at a relationship tomorrow, not knowing what it was going to be like, I would have to say I would want to try it.
I will be 25 in October. Time seems to be ticking away fast. If something doesn't happen soon, it looks like I will become that crazy old guy that has tons of political signs in his front yard. It doesn't matter if my political beliefs are correct, I will still be crazy. In that situation I would like my wife at my side to share in the craziness.
Realistically if I did get a chance at a relationship tomorrow, not knowing what it was going to be like, I would have to say I would want to try it.
I will be 25 in October. Time seems to be ticking away fast. If something doesn't happen soon, it looks like I will become that crazy old guy that has tons of political signs in his front yard. It doesn't matter if my political beliefs are correct, I will still be crazy. In that situation I would like my wife at my side to share in the craziness.
If I meet someone worth my time. I'd like to be in a relationship. Those were some fun times when I was in one. Though I wouldn't be in one just for the sake of it. I'm picky with good reason.
Same here, I'm always the nice and good friend who listens. Then as it has always turned out the same, every girl I have ever pursued was already in a relationship, of course I don't know it until about 2 or 3 weeks into becoming well acquainted with a girl. It is at that point I find out when she interjects that something or some story I have told her relates to something that reminds her about her current boyfriend. Example: I decide to wear my Full Tilt Poker hat to class, and one of the girls I was interested in says, "Oh wow, you play poker online, so does my boyfriend."Sir John the Net Knight said:
If only I could have played the guy in a poker game, where the prize was that if I win, I get his girlfriend. Mmmwaaa haahahaha!
Lord_Panzer said:
Yeah now that i think about it i probably should have gone with something else lol. my point still stands (im not an emo btw i just use that emoticon for self-deprecating situations)
Out of high school the situation is just as bad if not worse. People just want to have some fun and move on. The realms of companionship and marriage are slowly dieing. This is impart that more and more people are believing it is better to just have quick fun flings in life and not work at a companionship. They don't want to have to deal with the hard times that can come with a great companionship or marriage.kikon9 said:
It is sad because really, in this economy, it would be best to have a companionship or marriage, because it is always better to have someone to ride out the storm with. Two incomes are better than one, if they both have jobs.
Haha, that's wonderful. I've not seen one of those before; I think I'll have to steal it for future use.Faladorian said:
I'm currently putting some time into a relationship right now, though I believe the hour or two long talk on a balcony staring at the stars may have pushed me into the friendzone.
I use to be "Rawr no relationships for me they all end terribly and I'm quite happy alone" Then I met my current girl. We like a lot of the same things. Geek out over the same things. And we both loath stupidity and self inflicted drama. We've been together for a year and a half and it's been a wonderfully fulfilling and entirely drama free relationship. Because... we both hate drama and we don't let it happen if we can help it. A lot of people CLAIM they hate drama. But then they run towards drama with their arms wide open likes moths to a flame. Why? Boredom and a narcissistic need for attention that drama brings them.
I've never. NEVER had a happy, healthy relationship before this one. They've all been chaotic, short, and miserable. It took me months to open up to this girl because of my previous experiences. Thankfully she understood and was patient with me. Now we don't know what we'd ever do without each other.
Getting married in the Spring.
I've never. NEVER had a happy, healthy relationship before this one. They've all been chaotic, short, and miserable. It took me months to open up to this girl because of my previous experiences. Thankfully she understood and was patient with me. Now we don't know what we'd ever do without each other.
Getting married in the Spring.