If you had the choice of being in a relationship, would you?

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Mordekaien

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I would, and currently, I am :) And i'm quite happy, because I can play and have a dinner ready when it's not my turn to cook :D
 

Sargey

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For a while I didn't want to be in a relationship as my previous one ended quite badly (was cheated on, yay!), and I enjoyed having time all to myself and caring for myself.

That isn't of course to say I don't still care for myself (been dating a girl now for 3 months), but I felt the need to share myself with someone I could trust and be close to.

We're doing great, and I'm happy I made the choice I did!
 

Engarde

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I would. As much hassle as it is. I have some....issues, I am not the best at intimate relationships. And in other respects, amazing at them. I am in one right now, and I think it is worth it.
 

yoyo13rom

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nunqual said:
So, as the title states, if you had the choice of being in a relationship, would you?
totally depends on the person.
But yeah I like relationships(although I haven't had too many of them, they were more romantic and sentimental than sexual and lustful).

Anyway I like someone to how I can give a massage, take care of, someone to spend time with(considering that all my best friends have left to different places), someone to have an emotional bound with(I'm not sure I'd mind a sexual attachment, but call me picky because this is not the kind of thing I look forward in a relationship; or at least not in one that would last).
And as a whole I would love to get married someday so I can have kids and raise a small army of "mini-me"s!
 

Betancore

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Maybe. I'd say yes if, even if I didn't have a choice, I still wanted to be in a relationship with that person. I wouldn't be in a relationship just for the sake of it. It is really quite straining and not worth it otherwise.
 

EeveeElectro

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Embz said:
EmileeElectro said:
I'm happily in one now and can't imagine life without him. I don't want him to die! I know, I'm soppy.!
I feel exactly the same way about my bf. I'm glad I'm not the only one :) but I wouldn't have it any other way
Ahhh, that's great to hear. I was thinking of this when I said it xP
 

Pegghead

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I am an absolutely hopeless romantic, so of course I'd want to be in one.

Now I'm going to go watch Roman Holiday while eating a big bowl of ice-cream (jk).
 

thom_cat_

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ShadowsofHope said:
Fluffles said:
Yes. Only if I liked the person.
I shall echo this good sir.

Also, there must be delicious cookies involved. I will not take no for an answer!

That is all.
Well my Ex has promised me 'super epic cake, or multiple super epic cakes' and I'd still trade all the cakes in the world to have made it last. But no, she didn't want a bf, and still doesn't. Why would you not want to be in a relationship? Unless you don't like anyone, I have no clue.
 

rabidmidget

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Yes I would, I have yet to have had my hollywood born ideas of romance curb stomped out of me by real life.
 

Mistermixmaster

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Crispee said:
Depends on the person, if it was the right person then absolutely yes.

Otherwise no, just being lonely doesn't mean I'm not picky.
Wait, what? How the hell did you manage to ninja me on a topic like this? I don't even... huh? Darn it...

But yeah, what Crispee said.
 

Racistman3d

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Of course, I'm in one right now, and It's brilliant. Although being single definitely has it's perks, I definitely feel a lot more happier and fulfilled with someone I love.
 

barkingbug

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Absolutely.
I spent a few years when I was younger experimenting with a lot of different types of relationships and sexual lifestyles to find out which one felt right for me. I had a lot of fun, and a lot of fantastic experiences, but I'm definitely a person who is happiest with the companionship that comes with being in a good old one-on-one relationship.

I've had my share of world-shaking, embittering, I'm-never-doing-that-again breakups, and while many relationships do end badly, I find the experience of having someone to love, laugh with, play with, share my space and my bed with, and enjoy life with to be worth the inherent risk. For me, there's no sense in passing up a chance to be with someone I like and am compatible with on the off chance that it might end horribly.