My parents are split up, so when my mum started talking to the family (thats my 2 half brothers and my stepdad) about moving to America (as in, thinking about it, not actually saying we were definately going)
This worried me, as I didnt want to live in America (btw, its nothing to do with America itself, its just that I would miss everyone here, and Im incredibly bad at making friends at school, it was bad enough for me as it was, let alone going to a new country where I would probably be picked on for being the 'new kid') so after talking with my dad, I said to my mum (calmly) that I didnt want to live in America, and that If she did go then I would go live with my dad.
Instead of having a civil discussion with me, she flipped, say something about blasphemy or something and grounded me for a month, as well as tried to stop my dad seeing me.
This was about 2 years ago, which made me 14, which is old enough to know who I wanted to live with, so it was my choice, and I only set out to talk to her about it. I thought it a little harsh?
Ironic thing is, I live with my dad now, even though she didnt go, and when I go to visit her, she always ends up making a comment about my dad. Though I do ignore them, I was stressed once and ended up shouting at her. She tried to ground me. To which my reply was 'I dont live here, remember?'