Is Hitting A Girl All That Bad?

[tjcross]

As the saying goes "never hit a lady, a lady never hits" so if you are attacked DEFEND YOURSELF until you feel your opponent is no longer a threat. if you are not being physically attacked then attempt to find a passive solution

 

[ks1234]

Girls love to be hit.

I smack dat ass whenever I get a chance.

You all should try it.

PS. You're welcome.

I lol'd so fucking hard at this.
Anyway, me being 6'3 and ranging anywhere between 240-270lbs (depending on whether i'm cut up or not) The only circumstances I would be able to justify hitting a woman is if she was physically assaulting me and I gave her a fair warning..
Idk, in my head, once I warn you that I'm about to kick your ass... you better stop doing whatever it is your doing or you deserve it.

 

[DarthScorpio11]

First of all... 112 pounds? Really? How does that work?

Anyway, being siblings changes the whole "okay to hit?" thing.

Lot's of people saying it's okay to hit people as long as they hit first. That doesn't work when you are kids, and it doesn't work once you've grown up either. Or I guess that attitude means you haven't grown up yet. If you have it in your ability, you should subdue the person. If you could wreck the person hitting you, congratulations, it's in your ability.

what's so hard to understand about me being 112 pounds?

 

[DarthScorpio11]

Well, I GET TO DO MY HISTORY BUFF THING AGAIN! That was a warning, the rest of this post is going to involve WHY hitting a girl is bad if your a gentlemen, why it really ISN'T bad, and what makes a gentlemen, so you were FAR warned.

Spoiler

All right, around the time of the mid-evil era and before, woman were looked on as fragile flowers, and their only role or purpose during those times were to make babies and to make the men happy. This continued FAR into a large percent of history. Woman weren't exactly TREATED the best back then either, getting punched, kicked, abused or tortured if they did not fit the evil role society locked into them.
Around renascence and to the American revolution, people started to become more sophisticated, so a NEW role were placed on woman to be house wives and live the atomic family dream. Less atomic during the renascence but it was starting to progress more into a house wife setting instead of a sex slave setting. This was basically offering them a little bit more freedom, then, the WOMAN'S RIGHTS REVOLUTION!
This was basically to where woman EVERYWHERE wanted more rights that were originally dedicated to men, such as voting, or jobs, and better education. You can see how this turned out by turning to your local news station or visiting any fine retailer. Woman were more free then EVER before, but there is, of course, a snag.
You see, gentlemen are honorable men, and since woman were looked on as the most fragile gender, they were never to do anything unjust to a woman, such as hitting. Now back to current date, they were more free, but societies view of them didn't exactly change too quickly. Sure they were getting what they wanted, but men still thought them to be delicate, so men didn't exactly treat them as they would their male buddies.

That is the gist of why society looks down on hitting woman, of course, hitting is still a very, very bad thing to begin with, but if you ever wondered where society started to think it as bad, YOU NOW KNOW! I'm not saying go punch every woman in the face, but treat them like you would like, if you don't want to be punched when their angry, don't punch them while your angry, its just that simple.

Unless if its a truly threatening situation.....then yeah, It's really REALLY bad to hit a girl. Yeah, some women may aggravate us to the point of insanity, but hitting a women, I don't care if the male and female are around the same size, it's insane to think "oh hey, we're the same size, its a fair fight". Not only is it sickening, its also the most ungentlemanly thing someone can do.

same size, same weight, same muscle proportion. How is that not a fair fight? You sound sexist

Aren't woman more dexterious then the average male? They can endure child birth, after all. Hitting a person is not a bad thing, but if you don't want a fight, then don't DO it.

again we aren't talking about the average male. We are talking about a smaller weak man trying to hold his ground after being attacked....

 

[the December King]

Physical fighting isn't cool. It's barbaric, no matter who the combatants.



But if a strange woman all- out attacks you with little- to- no provocation...

Better punch clear through her skull, I say, as fast as you can.

After all, she could be Columbiana. Or Buffy. Or Angelina Jolie. Or any character ever played by Mila Jovovich.

Like a super- thin and small ninja- model full of cat- like rage.

or something.

 

[LHZA]

In your case I don't think it's so bad,you're siblings after all, plus you make a good point about physicality. If you are noticably stronger then a woman or man who is trying to get you into a physical altercation, then I think the responsible higher road thing to do is not hit them back and try and stop the attack, disarm them, whatever. If all else fails, then yeah, hit em, but only if you have exhausted all other options. Generally speaking a man hitting a woman is not cool because of the physical disparities, but I see it as no different as a stronger man hitting a weaker man.

 

[funguy2121]

I mean, I'm 21, and my sister is 19. Growing up we used to hit each other all of the time. Hit, punch, bite (well she used to bite me sometimes), pinch, push, and a few times slap. Mostly as a kid, however we did it every now and then as teenagers. We don't really fight anymore except verbally. The last physical altercation was about a few months ago, when my sister was pissed about something and blocked me in the hallway, and started yelling at me and shoving me. At first i just stood there waiting for her to move out of my way, and then she did it again, so i shoved her out of the way far enough for me to get through.

I dunno, i'm not even that big. I'm about 5'7'' and 112 pounds, and she's about 5'4'' and 115 pounds. So, i think it's fair. She's bigger than me...

As a 112 pound guy, i legitimately think a lot of girls could potentially be a threat against my safety if they were to attack me. I hate how everyone assumes just because im a guy im automatically much stronger, and a girl couldn't possibly be a threat, and i have no reason defending myself. Whatever happened to equality?

Now, im not for some big buy beating up his wife just because he's a douche. However, i think people should stop thinking in black and white about everything.

Pushing isn't hitting. If she won't get out of your way, you do what you have to do. If you're in any kind of relationship with someone where it continually gets physical, though, even a blood tie, you need to do the snip snip on her. You could give her an ultimatum first. If she tells you to "lighten up," let her know you mean business. Cut her off and stop taking her calls.

 

[Harlief]

Hitting anyone is bad, regardless of their gender. The only exception I can think of is sparring (as in boxing, karate, etc.) because both parties are consenting, of roughly equal proficiency and often wearing some form of protective gear.

 

[Aprilgold]

again we aren't talking about the average male. We are talking about a smaller weak man trying to hold his ground after being attacked....

So their just a smaller, weaker man.. Do you know anything about basic anatomy or the birth of a child? I'll sum it up like this, a woman can punch me as or HARDER then I can punch her, its something depending on person, size and weight aren't that big of factors as some think, its the force. A 7 foot male could very well get his ass kicked by a 4 foot female, it just depends on person. When I said average male, that applies to woman can give BIRTH to a human, their systems adjust in such a way, moving several bones or organs up a bit for 9 months, along with their body being able to push the child out. Woman are WAY more dexterous then the average male. Males have more muscle gain, however, that doesn't make them more dexterous, just more powerful. Muscles don't make a person, its the amount of pressure that they can take. You are pretty god damn sexist, though, saying woman are a smaller, weaker male, thats not only sexist, but in a way can be classed as racism.
So, in conclusion, those are basic facts, your statements so far have been sexist, and you should learn in the future to not say those things, because a woman, if said too, would be provoked to punching your nose cavity in.
VIOLENCE IS BAD!

 

[Harlief]

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[funguy2121]

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I've been asked what I would do if I were in the same situation again (ex used to get really physical - leaving claw marks that would last for months, throwing fists, trying and occasionally succeeding in pulling hair out of my head). If it happened again, I'd apologize, try to share blame but, failing that, accept all of it, wait for her to go to work, then either change the locks and notify the landlord or grab all of my shit and move, depending on how dangerous/stalkerish she and her friends are. No exceptions.

Where you live is also important. I was sharing the above with a co-worker, and she said that she had a drinking problem and had recently assaulted her fiance's friend at a golf tournament, and that the police had had to pull her off of him (he didn't touch her once; remember, this is all HER point of view); that he was placed on charges of assault, that SHE tried to reverse while trying to turn herself in, and that the police and the courts both told her that she was the victim. I live in Texas; if your province/state is anything like mine, you don't ever want to be in a physical fight with a woman for any reason, ever.

 

[DarthScorpio11]

again we aren't talking about the average male. We are talking about a smaller weak man trying to hold his ground after being attacked....

So their just a smaller, weaker man.. Do you know anything about basic anatomy or the birth of a child? I'll sum it up like this, a woman can punch me as or HARDER then I can punch her, its something depending on person, size and weight aren't that big of factors as some think, its the force. A 7 foot male could very well get his ass kicked by a 4 foot female, it just depends on person. When I said average male, that applies to woman can give BIRTH to a human, their systems adjust in such a way, moving several bones or organs up a bit for 9 months, along with their body being able to push the child out. Woman are WAY more dexterous then the average male. Males have more muscle gain, however, that doesn't make them more dexterous, just more powerful. Muscles don't make a person, its the amount of pressure that they can take. You are pretty god damn sexist, though, saying woman are a smaller, weaker male, thats not only sexist, but in a way can be classed as racism.
So, in conclusion, those are basic facts, your statements so far have been sexist, and you should learn in the future to not say those things, because a woman, if said too, would be provoked to punching your nose cavity in.
VIOLENCE IS BAD!

how am i sexist? the person who i responded to was talking about how guys were bigger than women, and i responded that not all guys were. I'm the one arguing against that old sexist idea. Also, i didn't mention race once. So, not sure where you are going with that...

 

[Slaanesh]

My personal belief is, if shes just annoying you/being a *****, that doesn't justify hitting her. Hell, under most circumstances that should be applied to guys too.

But if ANYONE, including girls, the elderly, and clowns, ever assaulted me, they'll be on the receiving end of a smack that will be heard around the world.

 

[Sansha]

No.

Sexism is about equality, right? If a girl starts a fight with me, I'll finish it as I would with any man.
Most, if not all, the girls I know could hold her own or best me in a fight anyway - it's not like they're fragile.

In fact my then-girlfriend and I got into a brutal fight a few months back and we ended up kicking the shit out of each other with no clear 'winner'.

 

[Jak23]

I always make a point to shove/push feminists around like I do my buddies, then when they get mad I just say "I'm just treating you like I would a guy..."

 

[DarkWolf901]

Well in a life or death situation it would be different. I mean it's wrong to just go up to a woman and beat the shit out of them for no reason.

I was not aware that it is acceptable for a man to go up to another man and beat the shit out of him for no reason...

 

[Rednog]

Girl or guy retaliation/self defense it doesn't matter you knock em' out. Seriously while not all girls may have the muscle power to punch you as hard as a guy they sure as hell won't hesitate to scar you with their nails in an altercation. People try to act as if all girls are innocent and guys should take everything they dish out with a smile. Sorry but for this guy personally I have the scars on my arm (and almost my face) to be a constant reminder that during a fight everyone is equal and you have to do what you need to do to get out of it unscratched.

 

[Deimateos]

I think if you are being legitimately attacked, it's perfectly acceptable to defend yourself. I refuse to have my life threatened just because someone's gonads formed on the inside.

I always find it amusing when people pull the "women are less violent" card, because it's almost always a precursor to excusing them when they do get violent ("Women are less violent, so you must have deserve to get stabbed, you monster!" etc)

Factually women are less physically abusive, but that doesn't mean they aren't abusive:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5W4J6pGkUBo

"Women are nonviolent, but they will shit inside of your heart" ~ Louis CK

 

[Astoria]

Sibling rivalry is normal. If a guy hits his sister most people wont judge him. I think any gentlemen won't hit a girl first. If the girl throws the first punch then a guy has every right to defend himself. I hate it when girls start fights with guys because they think they won't hit back.

 

[mesoforte]

They pull a knife, you pull a gun. He sends one of yours to the hospital, you send one of his to the morgue.

Kidding