Is there a way to fall OUT of love?

[brainfreeze215]

Love is more than just emotion. You choose to love someone more than you fall in and out of love. So, if you choose not to love someone anymore, you may still have feelings for them, but you no longer love them.

 

[Judgement101]

Love is more than just emotion. You choose to love someone more than you fall in and out of love. So, if you choose not to love someone anymore, you may still have feelings for them, but you no longer love them.

I don't think it's a choice.

 

[Bruin]

I thought you ended this last night?

 

[Lucifer dern]

im a trained hypnotist and there is its jsut vy unhealthy to do so with any other form then just letting time and life take its toll. There must be a reason you want to fall out of love (e.g. other better options) and over times those things will build up and over power "love" and then love will slowly fade as a result of it not giving you any happyness.

 

[Judgement101]

Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)

hahahahah! nope...

*twich*

THOUGH YOU STILL HAUNT MY DREAMS I DO NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE! *sob*

...

edit: the only reason i am like this is because there was something between us and we could never be together due to certain circumstances... and thats probably why i only like girls that are just like her...

Are you...another version of me? That's literally the exact same thing as me!

it's kinda funny that you brought this up recently...

i just had a really vivid dream of her last night and it ruined my whole day because i could not get her out of my head...

but, yeah. real stuff can't happen when you see someone for only 2 months out of the year and there is a thin pesky language barrier...

doubt yours is the same there though. if i may pry, whats your circumstances?

Are you sure you want to hear my story?

why not?

Well then, I'll just make it short because the longer story is just...long. Short Story: We broke up, she then dated a guy who cheated on her, she then dated him again, we are still close friends. (The longer story makes WAY more sense.)

: P sounds like a pain in the ass.

so whats wrong with liking her? or do you want her to stop liking him?

I don't want to care about what she does.

well, they are not going to stay together forever...

it's not that big of a deal... if you do not mind sloppy seconds. is she is that kind of girl.

What do you mean by "That kind of girl"? (Not good with context clues)

the kind of girl whose seconds would be sloppy.

get my drift?

Not really...(I'm extrodinarily oblivious)

the kind of girl who sets out to get her squish mitten lacerated by woopee sticks

No, she isn't. But I really like how you worded that.

 

[DoomyMcDoom]

well... for me the inabillity to feel that way has caused me to be a lonely emotionally void shell of a bitter individual... but yeah talk to a psychologist who likes to experiment with antidepressants and suppressants in conjunction
you might end up with a chemically burned out emotional center in your brain too...

helps... i at least still can feel sorta happy in some situations... and i can feel anger pretty well... and hate... and lust... just nothing more... refined... only extremes of the basics... and not much more... thought about suing the companies that produce the shit that ruined my emotions... but then i thought... fuck i don't mind it all that much, after all it keeps me from alot of problems in self control, as i have become a much more logical and calculating person without so much emotional interference...

anyhow yeah get all drugged up and you'll totally lose that emotional pain... just need the right sedatives and antidepressants and blockers...

 

[icame]

Watch transformers 2 that should kill enough braincells to block out your memory of her.

 

[Sangtrain]

Go to Seaworld. Punch dolphins in the blowhole. Problem solved! =D



Edit: I completely forgot to add my actual response.


I've found the best way to not feel affections towards people is like said before willpower.
I usually just turn on my PC or a Game Console with a Giant stack of games. or a Giant stack of books. and just keep my mind busy until I eventually forget what the hell it was I was getting away from anyway =D

Though I guess technically that's not willpower.

 

[Judgement101]

Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)

hahahahah! nope...

*twich*

THOUGH YOU STILL HAUNT MY DREAMS I DO NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE! *sob*

...

edit: the only reason i am like this is because there was something between us and we could never be together due to certain circumstances... and thats probably why i only like girls that are just like her...

Are you...another version of me? That's literally the exact same thing as me!

it's kinda funny that you brought this up recently...

i just had a really vivid dream of her last night and it ruined my whole day because i could not get her out of my head...

but, yeah. real stuff can't happen when you see someone for only 2 months out of the year and there is a thin pesky language barrier...

doubt yours is the same there though. if i may pry, whats your circumstances?

Are you sure you want to hear my story?

why not?

Well then, I'll just make it short because the longer story is just...long. Short Story: We broke up, she then dated a guy who cheated on her, she then dated him again, we are still close friends. (The longer story makes WAY more sense.)

: P sounds like a pain in the ass.

so whats wrong with liking her? or do you want her to stop liking him?

I don't want to care about what she does.

well, they are not going to stay together forever...

it's not that big of a deal... if you do not mind sloppy seconds. is she is that kind of girl.

What do you mean by "That kind of girl"? (Not good with context clues)

the kind of girl whose seconds would be sloppy.

get my drift?

Not really...(I'm extrodinarily oblivious)

the kind of girl who sets out to get her squish mitten lacerated by woopee sticks

No, she isn't. But I really like how you worded that.

i have a special song just for things like this.
http://www.lyricstop.com/f/foxtrotuniformcharliekilo-bloodhoundgang.html
good song.

*sigh* this thread is super painful. but like i said, you do not need to stop liking her...

unless she is a *****/super ugly/slutty, which i gather she is not. the girl that i would have liked to build a better relationship with is dealing with ex/not ex anymore boyfriend shit. and i got caught in the middle of it ;_;

you still live at least in a 100 mile radius.

I'm currently in the middle of her and her current boyfriend. The thing is, I know it won't work between them so I'll just wait it out. I'm sure things will work out for both of us.

 

[Wylade]

Ask. Her. Out. If she says yes, your fine. you can stop worrying, shes with you, you'll never let anything bad happen to her. If she says no, your half-way there.

 

[Bruin]

Ask. Her. Out. If she says yes, your fine. you can stop worrying, shes with you, you'll never let anything bad happen to her. If she says no, your half-way there.

He'll be...

Living on a prayer...

 

[Judgement101]

Ask. Her. Out. If she says yes, your fine. you can stop worrying, shes with you, you'll never let anything bad happen to her. If she says no, your half-way there.

See everyone says "Direct approach" its way to complicated to do that now.

 

[Judgement101]

Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)

hahahahah! nope...

*twich*

THOUGH YOU STILL HAUNT MY DREAMS I DO NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE! *sob*

...

edit: the only reason i am like this is because there was something between us and we could never be together due to certain circumstances... and thats probably why i only like girls that are just like her...

Are you...another version of me? That's literally the exact same thing as me!

it's kinda funny that you brought this up recently...

i just had a really vivid dream of her last night and it ruined my whole day because i could not get her out of my head...

but, yeah. real stuff can't happen when you see someone for only 2 months out of the year and there is a thin pesky language barrier...

doubt yours is the same there though. if i may pry, whats your circumstances?

Are you sure you want to hear my story?

why not?

Well then, I'll just make it short because the longer story is just...long. Short Story: We broke up, she then dated a guy who cheated on her, she then dated him again, we are still close friends. (The longer story makes WAY more sense.)

: P sounds like a pain in the ass.

so whats wrong with liking her? or do you want her to stop liking him?

I don't want to care about what she does.

well, they are not going to stay together forever...

it's not that big of a deal... if you do not mind sloppy seconds. is she is that kind of girl.

What do you mean by "That kind of girl"? (Not good with context clues)

the kind of girl whose seconds would be sloppy.

get my drift?

Not really...(I'm extrodinarily oblivious)

the kind of girl who sets out to get her squish mitten lacerated by woopee sticks

No, she isn't. But I really like how you worded that.

i have a special song just for things like this.
http://www.lyricstop.com/f/foxtrotuniformcharliekilo-bloodhoundgang.html
good song.

*sigh* this thread is super painful. but like i said, you do not need to stop liking her...

unless she is a *****/super ugly/slutty, which i gather she is not. the girl that i would have liked to build a better relationship with is dealing with ex/not ex anymore boyfriend shit. and i got caught in the middle of it ;_;

you still live at least in a 100 mile radius.

I'm currently in the middle of her and her current boyfriend. The thing is, I know it won't work between them so I'll just wait it out. I'm sure things will work out for both of us.

it's frustrating to think that the tables would have been switched if only i had made that decision back when i was 10...

yes, i made a decision when i was 10 to either take the fun and easy but poor and uneducated path in life or a life of education and work and a horrible life ages 12-40. at 10. guess which one i picked. FUCK.

Again I ask, are you another me?

 

[Shoggoth2588]

Love fades, simple as that. If you can't stand thoughts about her, you probably are already, no longer in love with her.

 

[Judgement101]

Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)

hahahahah! nope...

*twich*

THOUGH YOU STILL HAUNT MY DREAMS I DO NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE! *sob*

...

edit: the only reason i am like this is because there was something between us and we could never be together due to certain circumstances... and thats probably why i only like girls that are just like her...

Are you...another version of me? That's literally the exact same thing as me!

it's kinda funny that you brought this up recently...

i just had a really vivid dream of her last night and it ruined my whole day because i could not get her out of my head...

but, yeah. real stuff can't happen when you see someone for only 2 months out of the year and there is a thin pesky language barrier...

doubt yours is the same there though. if i may pry, whats your circumstances?

Are you sure you want to hear my story?

why not?

Well then, I'll just make it short because the longer story is just...long. Short Story: We broke up, she then dated a guy who cheated on her, she then dated him again, we are still close friends. (The longer story makes WAY more sense.)

: P sounds like a pain in the ass.

so whats wrong with liking her? or do you want her to stop liking him?

I don't want to care about what she does.

well, they are not going to stay together forever...

it's not that big of a deal... if you do not mind sloppy seconds. is she is that kind of girl.

What do you mean by "That kind of girl"? (Not good with context clues)

the kind of girl whose seconds would be sloppy.

get my drift?

Not really...(I'm extrodinarily oblivious)

the kind of girl who sets out to get her squish mitten lacerated by woopee sticks

No, she isn't. But I really like how you worded that.

i have a special song just for things like this.
http://www.lyricstop.com/f/foxtrotuniformcharliekilo-bloodhoundgang.html
good song.

*sigh* this thread is super painful. but like i said, you do not need to stop liking her...

unless she is a *****/super ugly/slutty, which i gather she is not. the girl that i would have liked to build a better relationship with is dealing with ex/not ex anymore boyfriend shit. and i got caught in the middle of it ;_;

you still live at least in a 100 mile radius.

I'm currently in the middle of her and her current boyfriend. The thing is, I know it won't work between them so I'll just wait it out. I'm sure things will work out for both of us.

it's frustrating to think that the tables would have been switched if only i had made that decision back when i was 10...

yes, i made a decision when i was 10 to either take the fun and easy but poor and uneducated path in life or a life of education and work and a horrible life ages 12-40. at 10. guess which one i picked. FUCK.

Again I ask, are you another me?

hahahah! it's uncanny.

i'm guessing you took the hard rode too, huh.

Yeah.

 

[Judgement101]

Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)

hahahahah! nope...

*twich*

THOUGH YOU STILL HAUNT MY DREAMS I DO NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE! *sob*

...

edit: the only reason i am like this is because there was something between us and we could never be together due to certain circumstances... and thats probably why i only like girls that are just like her...

Are you...another version of me? That's literally the exact same thing as me!

it's kinda funny that you brought this up recently...

i just had a really vivid dream of her last night and it ruined my whole day because i could not get her out of my head...

but, yeah. real stuff can't happen when you see someone for only 2 months out of the year and there is a thin pesky language barrier...

doubt yours is the same there though. if i may pry, whats your circumstances?

Are you sure you want to hear my story?

why not?

Well then, I'll just make it short because the longer story is just...long. Short Story: We broke up, she then dated a guy who cheated on her, she then dated him again, we are still close friends. (The longer story makes WAY more sense.)

: P sounds like a pain in the ass.

so whats wrong with liking her? or do you want her to stop liking him?

I don't want to care about what she does.

well, they are not going to stay together forever...

it's not that big of a deal... if you do not mind sloppy seconds. is she is that kind of girl.

What do you mean by "That kind of girl"? (Not good with context clues)

the kind of girl whose seconds would be sloppy.

get my drift?

Not really...(I'm extrodinarily oblivious)

the kind of girl who sets out to get her squish mitten lacerated by woopee sticks

No, she isn't. But I really like how you worded that.

i have a special song just for things like this.
http://www.lyricstop.com/f/foxtrotuniformcharliekilo-bloodhoundgang.html
good song.

*sigh* this thread is super painful. but like i said, you do not need to stop liking her...

unless she is a *****/super ugly/slutty, which i gather she is not. the girl that i would have liked to build a better relationship with is dealing with ex/not ex anymore boyfriend shit. and i got caught in the middle of it ;_;

you still live at least in a 100 mile radius.

I'm currently in the middle of her and her current boyfriend. The thing is, I know it won't work between them so I'll just wait it out. I'm sure things will work out for both of us.

it's frustrating to think that the tables would have been switched if only i had made that decision back when i was 10...

yes, i made a decision when i was 10 to either take the fun and easy but poor and uneducated path in life or a life of education and work and a horrible life ages 12-40. at 10. guess which one i picked. FUCK.

Again I ask, are you another me?

hahahah! it's uncanny.

i'm guessing you took the hard rode too, huh.

Hopefully, the girl you like doesn't use you as a threat to her current boyfriend...(Basically, I'd kill her boyfriend if he upsets her in any way)