Is there a way to fall OUT of love?

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cplsharp

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I've been through this recently, if you have the chance sort it out by doing a few simple things, if you really like her but you arent sure wether the feeling is mutual then fuck it, try it. HOWEVER, if they are a friend and always have been a friend its best to just talk to them about it, but in a logical way, just explain how you feel, explain you dont want things to change and who knows, she could take it well, but if she takes it wrong then you lose nothing as she obviously isnt a good friend, ive not been able to read this whole thing matey so i dont know what situation your in. IF she has hurt you though, its simple. convince yourself that liking her is nothing but trouble and you know its only gonna make your life worse not better. thus you will eventually see no love and be able to control yourself. Also if your attacking people verbally or physically when they point out flaws then you might wanna reconsider it as obsession because thats not a healthy thing UNLESS you are currently with them in which case its standing up for her honor. i dont know if this will be any help to you mate. but all the best with it. and eventually you will get over it..... you always do :)

besides... it's human nature is it not ? unless your a cold hearted bastard lol
 

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cplsharp said:
I've been through this recently, if you have the chance sort it out by doing a few simple things, if you really like her but you arent sure wether the feeling is mutual then fuck it, try it. HOWEVER, if they are a friend and always have been a friend its best to just talk to them about it, but in a logical way, just explain how you feel, explain you dont want things to change and who knows, she could take it well, but if she takes it wrong then you lose nothing as she obviously isnt a good friend, ive not been able to read this whole thing matey so i dont know what situation your in. IF she has hurt you though, its simple. convince yourself that liking her is nothing but trouble and you know its only gonna make your life worse not better. thus you will eventually see no love and be able to control yourself. Also if your attacking people verbally or physically when they point out flaws then you might wanna reconsider it as obsession because thats not a healthy thing UNLESS you are currently with them in which case its standing up for her honor. i dont know if this will be any help to you mate. but all the best with it. and eventually you will get over it..... you always do :)

besides... it's human nature is it not ? unless your a cold hearted bastard lol
Don't look at my first badge...
 

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Judgement101 said:
cplsharp said:
I've been through this recently, if you have the chance sort it out by doing a few simple things, if you really like her but you arent sure wether the feeling is mutual then fuck it, try it. HOWEVER, if they are a friend and always have been a friend its best to just talk to them about it, but in a logical way, just explain how you feel, explain you dont want things to change and who knows, she could take it well, but if she takes it wrong then you lose nothing as she obviously isnt a good friend, ive not been able to read this whole thing matey so i dont know what situation your in. IF she has hurt you though, its simple. convince yourself that liking her is nothing but trouble and you know its only gonna make your life worse not better. thus you will eventually see no love and be able to control yourself. Also if your attacking people verbally or physically when they point out flaws then you might wanna reconsider it as obsession because thats not a healthy thing UNLESS you are currently with them in which case its standing up for her honor. i dont know if this will be any help to you mate. but all the best with it. and eventually you will get over it..... you always do :)

besides... it's human nature is it not ? unless your a cold hearted bastard lol
Don't look at my first badge...

haha fair point ;)
 

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Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)
hahahahah! nope...

*twich*

THOUGH YOU STILL HAUNT MY DREAMS I DO NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE! *sob*

...

edit: the only reason i am like this is because there was something between us and we could never be together due to certain circumstances... and thats probably why i only like girls that are just like her...
Are you...another version of me? That's literally the exact same thing as me!
it's kinda funny that you brought this up recently...

i just had a really vivid dream of her last night and it ruined my whole day because i could not get her out of my head...

but, yeah. real stuff can't happen when you see someone for only 2 months out of the year and there is a thin pesky language barrier...

doubt yours is the same there though. if i may pry, whats your circumstances?
Are you sure you want to hear my story?
 

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cplsharp said:
Judgement101 said:
cplsharp said:
I've been through this recently, if you have the chance sort it out by doing a few simple things, if you really like her but you arent sure wether the feeling is mutual then fuck it, try it. HOWEVER, if they are a friend and always have been a friend its best to just talk to them about it, but in a logical way, just explain how you feel, explain you dont want things to change and who knows, she could take it well, but if she takes it wrong then you lose nothing as she obviously isnt a good friend, ive not been able to read this whole thing matey so i dont know what situation your in. IF she has hurt you though, its simple. convince yourself that liking her is nothing but trouble and you know its only gonna make your life worse not better. thus you will eventually see no love and be able to control yourself. Also if your attacking people verbally or physically when they point out flaws then you might wanna reconsider it as obsession because thats not a healthy thing UNLESS you are currently with them in which case its standing up for her honor. i dont know if this will be any help to you mate. but all the best with it. and eventually you will get over it..... you always do :)

besides... it's human nature is it not ? unless your a cold hearted bastard lol
Don't look at my first badge...

haha fair point ;)
I'm actually not cold-hearted. I just wanted that badge.
 

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Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)
hahahahah! nope...

*twich*

THOUGH YOU STILL HAUNT MY DREAMS I DO NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE! *sob*

...

edit: the only reason i am like this is because there was something between us and we could never be together due to certain circumstances... and thats probably why i only like girls that are just like her...
Are you...another version of me? That's literally the exact same thing as me!
it's kinda funny that you brought this up recently...

i just had a really vivid dream of her last night and it ruined my whole day because i could not get her out of my head...

but, yeah. real stuff can't happen when you see someone for only 2 months out of the year and there is a thin pesky language barrier...

doubt yours is the same there though. if i may pry, whats your circumstances?
Are you sure you want to hear my story?
why not?
Well then, I'll just make it short because the longer story is just...long. Short Story: We broke up, she then dated a guy who cheated on her, she then dated him again, we are still close friends. (The longer story makes WAY more sense.)
 

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Ultratwinkie said:
Judgement101 said:
Percutio said:
Have someone else burst your bubble.

Assuming this girl isn't perfect the easy way would be to have one of your more dickish friends list all her faults. Eventually one will click or your doubts will grow.

Free Thinker said:
Mental conditioning. Just takes willpower. I've done it...more than once.

Also, epic icon for this kind of reply.
If anyone lists any of her faults I just go insane and attack them.
*AHEM*

she collects toenail clippings!
stuff costs more than it used to!
young people use curse words!

*walks off*
What? You just confused me.
 

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Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)
hahahahah! nope...

*twich*

THOUGH YOU STILL HAUNT MY DREAMS I DO NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE! *sob*

...

edit: the only reason i am like this is because there was something between us and we could never be together due to certain circumstances... and thats probably why i only like girls that are just like her...
Are you...another version of me? That's literally the exact same thing as me!
it's kinda funny that you brought this up recently...

i just had a really vivid dream of her last night and it ruined my whole day because i could not get her out of my head...

but, yeah. real stuff can't happen when you see someone for only 2 months out of the year and there is a thin pesky language barrier...

doubt yours is the same there though. if i may pry, whats your circumstances?
Are you sure you want to hear my story?
why not?
Well then, I'll just make it short because the longer story is just...long. Short Story: We broke up, she then dated a guy who cheated on her, she then dated him again, we are still close friends. (The longer story makes WAY more sense.)
: P sounds like a pain in the ass.

so whats wrong with liking her? or do you want her to stop liking him?
I don't want to care about what she does.
 

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I've fallen out of infatuation just by spending too much time with the person. It's like Yahtzee says, after you find out everything, it becomes less fun.
 

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PayneTrayne said:
I've fallen out of infatuation just by spending too much time with the person. It's like Yahtzee says, after you find out everything, it becomes less fun.
Opposite is happening to me....
 

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Get her so pissed off that you two end up hating each other, or just find another girl. I'm just recovering from a bad break up so you shouldn't listen to me.
 

Judgement101

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WorldCritic said:
Get her so pissed off that you two end up hating each other, or just find another girl. I'm just recovering from a bad break up so you shouldn't listen to me.
...?
 

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Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)
hahahahah! nope...

*twich*

THOUGH YOU STILL HAUNT MY DREAMS I DO NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE! *sob*

...

edit: the only reason i am like this is because there was something between us and we could never be together due to certain circumstances... and thats probably why i only like girls that are just like her...
Are you...another version of me? That's literally the exact same thing as me!
it's kinda funny that you brought this up recently...

i just had a really vivid dream of her last night and it ruined my whole day because i could not get her out of my head...

but, yeah. real stuff can't happen when you see someone for only 2 months out of the year and there is a thin pesky language barrier...

doubt yours is the same there though. if i may pry, whats your circumstances?
Are you sure you want to hear my story?
why not?
Well then, I'll just make it short because the longer story is just...long. Short Story: We broke up, she then dated a guy who cheated on her, she then dated him again, we are still close friends. (The longer story makes WAY more sense.)
: P sounds like a pain in the ass.

so whats wrong with liking her? or do you want her to stop liking him?
I don't want to care about what she does.
well, they are not going to stay together forever...

it's not that big of a deal... if you do not mind sloppy seconds. is she is that kind of girl.
What do you mean by "That kind of girl"? (Not good with context clues)
 

Judgement101

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Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Ahlycks said:
Judgement101 said:
Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)
hahahahah! nope...

*twich*

THOUGH YOU STILL HAUNT MY DREAMS I DO NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE! *sob*

...

edit: the only reason i am like this is because there was something between us and we could never be together due to certain circumstances... and thats probably why i only like girls that are just like her...
Are you...another version of me? That's literally the exact same thing as me!
it's kinda funny that you brought this up recently...

i just had a really vivid dream of her last night and it ruined my whole day because i could not get her out of my head...

but, yeah. real stuff can't happen when you see someone for only 2 months out of the year and there is a thin pesky language barrier...

doubt yours is the same there though. if i may pry, whats your circumstances?
Are you sure you want to hear my story?
why not?
Well then, I'll just make it short because the longer story is just...long. Short Story: We broke up, she then dated a guy who cheated on her, she then dated him again, we are still close friends. (The longer story makes WAY more sense.)
: P sounds like a pain in the ass.

so whats wrong with liking her? or do you want her to stop liking him?
I don't want to care about what she does.
well, they are not going to stay together forever...

it's not that big of a deal... if you do not mind sloppy seconds. is she is that kind of girl.
What do you mean by "That kind of girl"? (Not good with context clues)
the kind of girl whose seconds would be sloppy.

get my drift?
Not really...(I'm extrodinarily oblivious)