Is there any REASON gay marriage is wrong?

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Unesh52

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Wow, this thread got long. And I had no idea there was so much homophobia on this forum.
 

Murray Whitwell

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No.
EVEN IF the main opposition to gay marriage, the Christian church, IS right and God exists meaning homosexuality is in fact a sin, I wouldn't imagine someone who is responsible for creating everything ever (including hmosexuality :/) would really care about what people feel for each other. Comes across as petty to me.
 

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Let me begin by saying that I'm not against gay union but after reading the thread I think people have missed a point.
It is the religions decision it does not matter how bigoted or discriminating you think they are its their choice and their religion. Marriage is a religious ceremony, so theres your reason. You don't have the right to change their religion or beliefs the same as they don't have the right to change yours.
The bigger problem is the lack of rights the civil union instills. If this were to meet the standards of a religious marriage than it would be all good.
As it stands you are put out, yes, but to demand marriage is wrong. People were talking about "the good book" and how you can't listen to all of it. If that is the case and you disagree with that scripture why in the world are you pursuing a union under it.

I don't want flames either this is just how I see it I am neither Christian nor homosexual so I may have missed the point.
 

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Bobbity said:
Because the Bible said so. Well, actually, it doesn't, but you know those bloody Americans :p
It does, it just doesn't use the words "gay" or "homosexual".

Also, it's in Leviticus, and I've already commented on that little tidbit (viz. why the fuck are Christians basing any of their morality on the Old Goddamn Testament? Jesus was always getting down the Pharisees' throats for how hardcore they were on that stuff. Am I seriously the only guy that noticed this?).
 

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RT-Medic-with-shotgun said:
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The best anti-gay movements has is 'it is against gods wishes" thus it is BS because god has no direct ruling over the USA; and separation of church and state blocks that excuse i would think.

I have no problem with it but i do have a problem with religions forcing their beliefs on everyone; and that is EXACTLY what is going on.
Before i play the religion card, id just like to say that i do not hate anyone, i disagree strongly with homosexuality but i don't hate them. Leviticus 18:22 "Do not lie with a man as one does with a woman, to do so is an abomination." Im a conservative republican christian, you cant get much more biased than that.
No one accused you of hating them and you don't have to agree with them. Woodsey has a brilliant post about how it was not a religious institution to begin with; and while it may be a holy union between man and woman for a christian it is not for someone else. Which is the whole thing behind it. Some groups in power; normally of the religious variety do not want it done because they are under the impression that Jesus invented marriage and said no bros getting married.
To retort what the above person has said (before the last one). Im not forcing it down your throat, im offering a different point through a religious viewpoint. Im not telling you to accept it, im saying that is what i beleive. To reply to the last one, thats a great point as well, not everyone on the planet believes the same thing. This is what i believe, that Marriage should be between a man and a woman. End of story.
 

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summerof2010 said:
Wow, this thread got long. And I had no idea there was so much homophobia on this forum.
OMG HETEROSEXUAL PERSECUTION! The radical homosexual agenda won't ever stop. We can't even talk about how gays corrupt children anymore without being called homophobes.
 

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This is pretty much the only explanation I can think of that makes sense:
 

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Contradiction said:
Let me begin by saying that I'm not against gay union but after reading the thread I think people have missed a point.
It is the religions decision it does not matter how bigoted or discriminating you think they are its their choice and their religion. Marriage is a religious ceremony, so theres your reason. You don't have the right to change their religion or beliefs the same as they don't have the right to change yours.
The bigger problem is the lack of rights the civil union instills. If this were to meet the standards of a religious marriage than it would be all good.
As it stands you are put out, yes, but to demand marriage is wrong. People were talking about "the good book" and how you can't listen to all of it. If that is the case and you disagree with that scripture why in the world are you pursuing a union under it.

I don't want flames either this is just how I see it I am neither Christian nor homosexual so I may have missed the point.
GenericPCUser said:
Only counter argument I have heard is that Marriage is supposed to be a religious tradition, and so it is in the religion's control whether or not to allow it...

...but their are so many reason's why that statement is wrong that it would take forever to get in to.

Luckily I have that kind of time.

1. People have been pairing off long before religion, and certainly the religion's practiced today, even existed.

2. Marriage has a big effect on your life outside of religion.

3. Marriages are preformed today between heterosexual couples devoid or apart from religion.

4. Homosexuals getting married wouldn't change society for those not involved at all.


Personally, I am against marriage in general... I don't see the point =/
Too damn bad, you got flames anyway!

Actually, I've seen this argument repeated often and I'm using your post to draw attention to my logic.
 

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There is no objective reason, because "Right" and "Wrong" are subjective themselves. Personally I believe it should be legal by default.

My hands are aching to start a long rant about society's and religion's (though it is society again who is enforcing the religious belief, so I guess it doesn't count) involvement in this, but I'll leave it as it is. Oh and I also want to note that I am against marriage, but even homosexual people aren't above desiring it, I guess.
 

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Dags90 said:
summerof2010 said:
Wow, this thread got long. And I had no idea there was so much homophobia on this forum.
OMG HETEROSEXUAL PERSECUTION! The radical homosexual agenda won't ever stop. We can't even talk about how gays corrupt children anymore without being called homophobes.
I know Poe's pink is tacky, but before I realized I'd seen you around before I thought you were totally serious. I swear there was someone just like that around the end of page 7.
 

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Hmm, this is a question I've been thinking about for a while. I am unable to think of any concrete reasoning but my current theory is this. Marriage is primarily a religious act. As christianity and many other religions teach that it is wrong for two men to have sex with one another, and the fact that many believe marriage before God is not complete until the marriage is consummated through sexual intercourse, therefore it could be said that God doesn't think gay people should be allowed to marry. Now the real problems come when it becomes a legal aspect and when the thought of marriage became an everyday ideal rather then specific to certain religions. Now two atheists can be married legally by the state or even the church in some cases. There are two arguments to this that I infer from my theory:

1. Religion and politics should always be kept seperate and thus marriage in the eyes of God and being legally married should be two different things. That way anyone who wants a legal marriage can have one as really should be anyones right. Keep in mind that this means they would not be married in the eyes of God. However why anyone would wish to be a part of a religion that condemns them for their lifestyle is far beyond me so I'll leave it at that.

2. As marriage was a primarily religious act and as I mentioned there is little reason to conform to a religion that you do not follow. Those who do not believe in these religions shouldn't get married. Unfortunately marriage has become so mainstreamed now that saying that might make me sound like I'm am trying to take away a right that belongs to everyone but realistically what make a married couple so much closer then their counter parts who are non religious and are not married.

I personally would have no issues with never getting married as really to me marriage is only a label accompanied by generally false promises and high expectations. Its all nice and lovey dovey but in the end if I am with the person I love most in the world I'm not going to care whether she is a Mrs or a Miss.
 

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lol Leviticus. That shit stopped being relevant since Hebrews 7:18:
"The former regulation is set aside because it was weak and useless"

There's also Colossians 2:14:
"having canceled the charge of our legal indebtedness, which stood against us and condemned us; he has taken it away, nailing it to the cross."

Leviticus in the New Testament canon is about relevant as the 18th Amendment.
 

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Dags90 said:
OMG HETEROSEXUAL PERSECUTION! The radical homosexual agenda won't ever stop. We can't even talk about how gays corrupt children anymore without being called homophobes.
Um, I am sorry to inform you of this, but the belief that gays corrupt children is as homophobic as it gets.
 

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summerof2010 said:
I know Poe's pink is tacky, but before I realized I'd seen you around before I thought you were totally serious. I swear there was someone just like that around the end of page 7.
I was thinking of putting "if it isn't obvious this is sarcasm I give up" in teeny tiny font at the end, but decided against it. I figured the initial caps and Tyra avatar were enough. That a position like that isn't immediately dismissed as anything but trolling or sarcasm says a lot.
 

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Its a social taboo that's been in place for hundreds of years. You can't destroy it.

Asking this sort of question is like asking "why do people have a problem with [insert minority]"
it'd be fantastic if everyone got along, but they don't and never will.
 

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Actually, marriage was not always religious in nature. In classical Greece, often times the act of marriage is simply a matter of acknowledging someone to be your spouse. That's it. This is very common in plenty of cultures.

As such, that particular line of reasoning falls apart.
 

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Russian_Assassin said:
Dags90 said:
OMG HETEROSEXUAL PERSECUTION! The radical homosexual agenda won't ever stop. We can't even talk about how gays corrupt children anymore without being called homophobes.
Um, I am sorry to inform you of this, but the belief that gays corrupt children is as homophobic as it gets.
Dude, he's not serious.

At least I'm pretty sure he's not.

At least I hope not...