I understand what people mean by good actions but why do they think those actions pertain t goodness, the only reason for laws and rules are for a functioning society, we do not kill so that people do not fear us and become chaotic, we do not steal because the idea of ownership makes people feel more powerful compared to others, and ambition is what drives societ. I could go on but i think my point is across. Just to summarise my opinion, there is no such thing as light and dark when it comes to morality except when placed in societal/legal instances, you say you have not stood up to defend another but why should you, we consider ourselves better than the animals around us when the only thing which truly defines us is that we believe ourselves to be better, and yet the fact remains that when this charade of civility falls down all our morals and ethics go with it e.g. loot, rape, murder.
OT yes i have stood down out of fear but i acknowledge its source (survival of the fittest) and only act when i cannot deny the nature i have been given by my parents and society or when it benefits me in some way.