You don't get it.This is from the country whose citizens read porn on the train and came up with the words "yaoi" and "yuri" and the entire subculture therein?
No, that isn't even mentioned in what they are discussing. What they are discussing is directly mentioned, and "sexual revenge" (which is a thing discussed more on Fox news than happening in actual reality) isn't it.Actually I think it goes beyond that to be honest. I think it's a direct response towards the whole "sexual revenge" thing you see cropping up as a subculture, especially in Japan.
By your own logic, all men are scum. Why? Well, we sure hear about tons of male scum. By your logic, if you can argue that feminists are "outspoken, hardcore, man-hating, feminazi bitches" based on the evidence of the one feminist fitting that bill (who, fun fact, lived 30 years ago, and who had a certified mental illness due to her father raping her as a child - suddenly a lot less fun to call her man hating, no?), then obviously, men must be complete worthless scum. After all, I can find more scummy men than you can find "hardcore man-hating femionazi feminists". It's not even a contest. If I simply list rapists that were convicted beyond reasonable doubt, I can keep going long after you've stopped listing every feminist that exists.has gotten its current bad name from the outspoken, hardcore, man-hating, feminazi bitches that we keep hearing about.
I'll believe you when stupid "feminist" rant blogs(quotes because I believe they misrepresent the cause they claim to champion) that keep getting linked(and which generally have a reputation of banning anyone who doesn't agree with them). I'm sorry, but they do exist, even if they aren't common. like I said before, I've never personally met one, but there are idiots that take things to extremes in all areas of belief. Then again, it could as likely be a different version of the Internet Warrior. The need to compensate for real life impotence is an equal opportunity flaw.Worgen said:Actually the manhating feminazi bitches tend to mostly be an invention of said rightwing groups as a way to turn the word feminist into a 4 letter one, really your just falling for it, if there is one thing the right is really good at re-defining words.Scars Unseen said:My wife is Japanese, and she hasn't "given" her body to me in quite some time. I call foul.Xiado said:Ugh, another example of why I hate Japanese society. This is yet another facet of the sexist mindset that sex is an activity to be enjoyed by the man only, and that a woman "gives" her body to the man as some selfless sacrifice. No wonder that their society is so sexually repressed, if it refuses to admit that sex is a mutual partnership rather than a one-sided act. It's times like this that make me think that the US isn't really that bad after all.
I can't speak for everyone, but from my perspective, feminism has gotten its current bad name from the outspoken, hardcore, man-hating, feminazi bitches that we keep hearing about. Never run into one myself, so I have a feeling they aren't as common as the internet makes them seem. Classic feminism notion of equality? All for it, as long as it's really equality that they want.Worgen said:Its hardly all of japan that is like that, really most societies have a view of women that is they are beneath a man, hell, even after the sexual revolution women are still struggling to get equal rights and they still regularly earn less then men, feminist is practically a 4 letter word since conservatives have done such a good job of demonizing it. Plus its not reasonable people that get assigned to things like this, its the more conservative and weird elements that get put on things like this.
Nonono, women don't derive enjoyment from sex! Lesbianism is a myth propagated to turn more men gay! Obviously women wouldn't seek out other women to give pleasure sexually to, as neither of them would receive said pleasure!SoetSout said:lol so according to him, all men that plays the lead sexual roll can turn woman into lesbians?...
what an idiot...
Yes...gives you something to aim for - taking the lead from a woman who's equally capable. No fun otherwise.shadowmagus said:Last time I checked, the only thing sexual aggressive women did was turn me on.
But Japan is notorious for (as a whole) being more sexist than most Western countries. Particularly when it comes to things such as getting high-level jobs (especially in the hard sciences), and in gender roles at home. The US/UK/etc are by no means perfect, but if you speak with women who are working on, say, CS PHDs in Japan and then come to the US (or vice-versa), they will definitely tell you stories about working in Japan that wouldn't sound nearly as commonplace in the US.TheBanMan said:As much as I dislike people who only quote someone to say 'This'... well, THIS!David Farnell said:To quote one of dozens of similar comments:
"Why is Japan doing this??"
JAPAN is not doing this. A GUY is doing this. Granted this guy is a product of Japanese culture. But so are 127 million other Japanese people, each of whom is a person with his or her own personality, none of which are precisely identical despite the stereotype.
"JAPAN" is not some monolithic hive-mind. There's one guy in Miyazaki Prefecture (a tiny, mostly rural "state" tucked away in the far south of Japan...the size and population of a couple of American counties) who thinks this way. There are probably a few million others who have similar ridiculous opinions, but most Japanese people would find his views as appalling as most of us do.
And how many millions of Americans think that homosexuality is caused by dominant women? How many Canadians? Dave Sim, the writer of Cerberus, one of the greatest comic books ever, thinks so. Most North Americans who've read his wacky views rightfully think he's a nutcase. Do they say, "Why is Canada doing this??" No. They think, "Why did such a great comic creator turn into such a homophobic, misogynistic creep?"
Why is a Canadian or an American opinion an individual's opinion, but a minor Japanese functionary's opinion is suddenly JAPAN's opinion?
And for the several people who wrote variations on "This is why I hate Japan": Stop being idiots. I could understand such a sentiment if you were, say, Japanese and complaining about your own culture, or if you were Chinese or Korean and your country had been invaded and terribly harmed by Japan, or if you were an 80-year-old Pacific War vet. But even those people should get the hell over it. Americans should remember that Japan is one of America's closest and most loyal allies. It is far from a perfect country, and it has crimes to answer for in its history...but name me a country that is perfect. Name me a country that is free from an ugly past.
A comment in the minutes of a meeting by one individual does not a country/culture make. To think that there is no one of pretty much every other culture that thinks something as assinine as this is just laughable
The funny thing is that those who blog about that sort of thing are in the same boat with you, meaning they dont understand what a feminist really is, they have been fooled by the right wing also.Scars Unseen said:I'll believe you when stupid "feminist" rant blogs(quotes because I believe they misrepresent the cause they claim to champion) that keep getting linked(and which generally have a reputation of banning anyone who doesn't agree with them). I'm sorry, but they do exist, even if they aren't common. like I said before, I've never personally met one, but there are idiots that take things to extremes in all areas of belief. Then again, it could as likely be a different version of the Internet Warrior. The need to compensate for real life impotence is an equal opportunity flaw.Worgen said:Actually the manhating feminazi bitches tend to mostly be an invention of said rightwing groups as a way to turn the word feminist into a 4 letter one, really your just falling for it, if there is one thing the right is really good at re-defining words.Scars Unseen said:My wife is Japanese, and she hasn't "given" her body to me in quite some time. I call foul.Xiado said:Ugh, another example of why I hate Japanese society. This is yet another facet of the sexist mindset that sex is an activity to be enjoyed by the man only, and that a woman "gives" her body to the man as some selfless sacrifice. No wonder that their society is so sexually repressed, if it refuses to admit that sex is a mutual partnership rather than a one-sided act. It's times like this that make me think that the US isn't really that bad after all.
I can't speak for everyone, but from my perspective, feminism has gotten its current bad name from the outspoken, hardcore, man-hating, feminazi bitches that we keep hearing about. Never run into one myself, so I have a feeling they aren't as common as the internet makes them seem. Classic feminism notion of equality? All for it, as long as it's really equality that they want.Worgen said:Its hardly all of japan that is like that, really most societies have a view of women that is they are beneath a man, hell, even after the sexual revolution women are still struggling to get equal rights and they still regularly earn less then men, feminist is practically a 4 letter word since conservatives have done such a good job of demonizing it. Plus its not reasonable people that get assigned to things like this, its the more conservative and weird elements that get put on things like this.