I have listened to this debate for some time now and would like to clarify some facts that have gone amiss by members of my species.
When people say "Men aren't objectified" what they really mean is "men aren't objectified sexually".
Elucidation: Who is more objectified? The wind up soldier, or the wind up ballerina? I posit that men are now, have been, and always will be more objectified than females. We are BIOLOGICALLY PROGRAMMED to not see male pain and suffering even when it is in front of our eyes. With admittedly mounting frustration, I must point out that this is a biological imperative brought about by our own necessary but completely obsolete evolution. Throughout history, egalitarian tribes have always been small and backward, and usually overwhelmed the moment they encounter more traditional ones. Women can make strong backs to fight and build. Men are the strong backs who fight and build. A man will never be able to reproduce, women can. And it doesn't matter how mentally or physically competent either party is. Thus, women have always been given priority in almost every circumstance:
*Who gets to eat
*Who gets to go out to fight hostile tribes
*Who sleeps at the mouth of the cave and who sleeps at the back
*Who gets on the raft and who gets an icy fate on a shipwreck
*Who hunts and who stays at home
Women are expected by society and by themselves to take priority EVERY TIME. Men are expected and forced by society to put themselves in last every time. Social ostracism, jail time, and death (in the case of draft dodgers) if they don't comply. It HAD to be that way. If men didn't go out to hunt, fight, build, and take all the risks nature could throw, then civilization couldn't exist. The fact that women are at all being affected by something as trivial as the clothing of fictional game characters (which is still often more tasteful than real life in some areas downtown) can cause the entire game industry gets into a hot debate over it proves that the human biological response to the suffering and discomfort of women is so intrinsic that we don't realize its even there.
By this time the reader could be forgiven for being incredulous. But I point out that even the very title of this episode is laden with sarcasm: "Objectification And... Men?"
As if such a thing is impossible.
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Obviously those soldiers are there not because they're being forced to be under threat of imprisonment and death. Its just a male power fantasy right? All those guns and uniforms are just to make them feel manly right?
Both men and women are objectified. The difference is that MALE OBJECTIFICATION AND SUFFERING IS INVISIBLE. Tell me, during the video, did you even notice the large numbers of people being killed or that they happened to be male? I can almost guarantee the idea that a woman is offended or in distress by the portrayal of another woman is more disturbing than the body count racked up in a less than 10 minute video. Its more disturbing to me deep down and I'm on the other side of the argument! It's just our obsolete biology. The alarms going but there's no fire. There's no barbarians over the hill, there isn't a herd of Mammoths stampeding the village, there isn't an avalanche about to wipe out anyone's family. The women are just fine. Like they've always been.
Who is it that is always exposed to danger? Who is it that is always expected to be killed? Who is it that is always getting shot, stabbed, blown up, tortured, punched, cut to ribbons and blasted to pieces? Yes females being sexualized is prevalent in videogames and could be sending the wrong message, but I argue that spending a few weekends in the clubs here in Miami would make you wonder whether art is following life or vice versa.
So if the sexualization of females is sending the wrong message to girls, what message does the endless parade of males being blown to pieces send to boys? The same message it has always been since the beginning of time: "man up, suck it up, and do your job".
A sarcastic statement: Of course it's that way because men want it that way. It isn't like men have ever been forced to adapt to certain roles imposed on them at gun/spearpoint by those more powerful than them be it nature, or the government. And if it is bad for them, then its obviously their fault and they need to adapt yet again.
Men
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Are
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Disposable
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And they always will be. And if I am going to be objectified, (and I am) I would rather be considered something precious and valuable to be protected and prized rather than something to be used, abused, and thrown away. I understand how serious it is to make a charge of false consciousness, and that arguments like this are won months and years after the fact, but if you read this, do please self-examine to ask whether you really do think of males and females as equal. I leave you with some statistics:
http://rt.com/usa/us-suicides-crisis-cdc-report-761/
"Men were more likely to take their own lives than women. The suicide rate for middle-aged men was 27.3 deaths per 100,000, while for women it was 8.1 deaths per 100,000."
*Most workplace deaths are men.
*Most military deaths are men.
*Most police deaths are men.
*Most victims of violent crimes are men (yet under-report incidents and report feeling less afraid of it).
*Most inmates are men.
*Most homeless are men.
Take a step back and realize that women are doing just fine. They live longer and have always been the most comfortable segment of society, including and especially children.