I was at a wake (I think it's called) 3 years ago, I never would've gone but, the person who had died was the uncle of my girlfriend at the time, so I went as emotional support. During the wake her and her sisters started crying. Seeing any female cry bothers me very very deeply, but it was worse considering one of the women crying was somebody who I was emotionally connected with, and the tears were so filled with grief that I hardly could stand being there hearing it.
I have since vowed never to go to a Funeral/wake.