Thyunda said:
JMeganSnow said:
Thyunda said:
You do know that few kids actually get adopted, and a lot of them end up being driven mad by the rest of the dysfunctional kids inhabiting the care centre?
Actually, LOTS of children get adopted. I have numerous friends with adopted children. It's annoying as heck to adopt within the U.S. though--the local group that meets has people who adopt from all across the world. The average wait time if you want to adopt within the U.S. is four times as long as adopting from, say, Ethiopia.
It's relative. Lots of children getting adopted doesn't mean that a lot OF the children get adopted. If that makes sense.
That's not what you said. You said "few" not "a small percentage". The greatest obstacle to adoption in the U.S. is legal establishment that the biological parents have forfeited their rights. This can be so hard to establish due to an overwhelming (and stupid) policy whereby the adoptive parents have pretty much no rights no matter what they've done. About 60% of kids in foster care return to their bio parents. Of the 40% who remain, almost all of them either go to permanently live with other relatives or are adopted.
http://www.adoptioninstitute.org/FactOverview/foster.html
Almost all kids who are available to be adopted do, in fact, get adopted. If it were easier to slough off the bio parents, they wouldn't have to wait years in foster care.