Maybe not the right place to ask but..

[VitalSigns]

I find myself in a sort of jam here. There is this girl whom I really like and I've been meaning to ask her out for sometime. Problem is though, my best friend has the same idea. Of late, I have had no fucking phone to contact her or anything, but my friend has. It's late, I'm tired and can't sleep because everytime I close my eyes I see the two together. Humor me for a moment fellow escapists, and help me.

Every time you close your eyes you see them together? That sounds psychotic. She's a girl you want to ask out not your wife of 5 years, take it easy.

 

[Bat Vader]

I respect the fact that you give back to the community and help people. I am an introvert. I can't stand large groups of people which is why I hate working in teams. I dis-trust everyone with the exception of my family.

I have been betrayed before and I wish not to be betrayed again. That is why I am a loner. I like to help people but only by myself. One question though is how would be having a girlfriend help society? I am just curious about that.

I believe we have gotten off on the wrong foot and I wish to apologize for how I acted towards you. Just don't start chastising people until you get their full story.

I do NOT respect your mentality. Who hasn't been betrayed? I WILL chastise you with as little the story you give me, because axiom theory dictates I must. More than that, there are a wealth of medications, of therapy options, of treatments that you can get, sometimes even for free or paid for by the government, to deal with your condition. You choose not to do so. You choose to not get help, and that is just as anti-social as any other option.

I happen to have a condition much like you probably do. I worked at it, I found the time and treatment that worked, and I moved on to become a better person, and contribute as much as I could to the infrastructure I owe my life to. Doing otherwise is simply selfish and results in a loss to the world as a whole.

Do not think I hate you, dislike you, or even look down on you. But I am nothing if not brutally honest, and you call this sort of criticism on yourself.

So you claim you have no free will because Axiom theory dictates it?

Axiom theory has nothing to say on free will.

I don't see how you could make that leap.

You said Axiom theory dictates you must chastise me. If it dictates it that means there is no free will there. Axiom theory is a math theory.

Not everyone wants to help society. I help people when I can but I am not going to throw myself in a R&D team to try and find a cure for things. If that makes me selfish than so be it.

I want to get an education in programming and computer science. That is my goal. I also wish to author a few books as well. I did want to be a teacher and help people learn but when my own teachers told me that I would suck as a teacher you I lost sight of that dream pretty quickly.

You can chastise people all you want but that will not change their minds about things. In most matters they may decide not to help society just to spite you for chastising them.

This will be my last post. If you do reply to this I will not be replying back for I have lost interest in this argument. You can live your life and I will live my life. All there is to it.

 

[Caboose89]

Believe in the lies the world has taught us! Then build your kingdom on the burning graves of your enemies, and freeze the rest to death.

 

[godsmagnum]

what do u mean done this? liked the same girl as someone else? nick the only other person that this has happened to me to is matt. that was 5 years ago and matt never told me that he liked the girl until after she asked me out and i had already said yes.

 

[godsmagnum]

blah

 

[Bat Vader]

This is a decision that should not be made by people over the internet. This should be your own decision. It is your life not our life.

 

[PureBredGentleman]

The strong go for the kill and the weak ones starve. Be strong, go for it.

Well, if anyone still cares, I asked her out in the form of this video. She likes romantic things.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aC9H2cCfHAs

 

[Solytus]

EDIT: My post was no longer of value, I somehow didn't notice that the topic had garnered 6 pages of responses, and only commented on the topic's status on page 1. >.>

 

[Knight of Cydonia]

*sigh* At least your better off than me in your relationships.

 

[Uber Evil]

No excuses! You should have FOUND a phone!

Better yet steal your friends phone.

 

[magnuslion]

Dude you are talented as hell. good video, if she doesn't go for that, she isn't worth your time. if it doesn't work out bro, keep your chin up. the right one will come along.