Mother drives 4 kids into river to die

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Mrsoupcup

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Kortney said:
Perhaps, in cases like this, where someone destroys innocent lives - we shouldn't give them any sympathy. After all, this mother was so wrapped up in her own emotional fragility she decided to murder innocent children. Surely this doesn't deserve any sympathy?
Yup. I get she was depressed, but even in death the damage she has done to that boy will likely make him end up just like her. He really is walking dead, which is the most sad part about this story. So here's hoping hell exists, because if it does she is rotting in the 9th circle of the burning pit with a pitch fork up her ass. The part that really gets me though is when she said "if I die your coming with me".

I guess the point I'm making is if you kill yourself to harm others, ESPECIALLY the ones that love you, rather than to escape some kind of pain, you can slowly burn for all eternity.
 

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That ***** should have been killed as soon as she had the last of those kids. Clearly she was mentally unstable.
 

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Ympulse said:
I for one am glad that she took herself and most of her children out of the gene pool. Stupid people shouldn't be breeding.
I hate you. Really.
 
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Some of the comments I'm seeing here sicken me to no end. But, I'm not about to get into a shouting match with anyone. This is nothing but a tragedy. Just the fact the boy wasn't able to save his siblings leaves me feeling terrible. None of them deserved this, not even their mother.
 

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Jumplion said:
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Saviordd1 said:
It just makes you wish we could do more for these people
Like get them away from kids and put them in psycohological therapy?

Call me a cold heartless wretch, but if you can't handle yourself emotionally, then you shouldn't have kids.

It's ok to feel bad, its ok to think about what would happen if you committed suicide, but to commit suicide is a sign of mental weakness and the lack of wish to go on in life. To be frank, its a matter of one not being tough enough to take up with the pressure. To take others with you on that dark road is sickening and wrong.
Some people don't seem to realize that when a person is suicidal, for some people the reason you stated people commit suicide, that they are "weak" and "can't man up", is one of the reasons people commit suicide. They see themselves as "weak", as if they shouldn't deserve to live because someone out there has it worse than them, and through their own twisted logic it can make sense to them.

Is it that hard for some people to realize this? Suicide is not someone who's "too weak" to respond to pressure, but that it's something that builds inside a person to where they think, in their own twisted logic, that they can't respond to that pressure.
Its like the morons who tell someone with clinical depression to "get happy" or "snap out of it" Until you have been at the mental and emotional rock bottom, you cannot relate. And jump are you a psych major? or someone who has dealt with depression before becauase you nailed suicidal ideation on the head. It's not wanting to die its wanting a release or an escape from whatever is making the patient feel trapped.
Yeah, I have had a suicidal period in my life, and that was what went through my mind at the time. Everyone is in a different state when they're in severe depression, but telling them to "man up" or "stop being a pussy" (paraphrasing here) never helps anyone. Not everyone is a big, macho man that can "snap out of it", and it dehumanizes yourself when you sink down to "Oh, freeing up the gene pool!". Save that for the real idiots ;P

This woman obviously had some psychological issues, her fickle mind-changing in the middle of it shows that. What sickens me more than how she killed her own kids is that some people are actually okay with the kids dieing because "the stupid genes might have been passed down!" They may not have said that specifically, but some people in this thread damn well hint at it, and that's absolutely despicable.
exactly mental illness is a disease as much as diabetes. It can be controlled and the symptoms minimized with therapy and medication. No one knows what she was thinking before and during this. I can only imagine because of of a past suicidal episode in my life. When you are that deep in depression trapped by thoughts of hopelessness and helplessness you see your only escape as death. Especially when the thoughts are constant and unending. It takes time to get out of the hole.

The jackasses makes comments in poor taste I have chalked up to the infamous "internet dickwad theory" and/or trolling for attention. But in all seriousness. She was crying for help and no one heard her till it was too late.
 

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these events make me wonder if one should require a lisence to raise children, one of the requirements being mental stability and lack of harmful addictions.

It did remind me of Butters' own episode from southpark. Am I supposed to feel bad about that?
 

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Holy shit, that is just horrible. What kind of person would do that? Force their children to drown with them? Suicide is one thing, taking down others with you because you don't want to die alone, that is evil. The poor boy, he has essentially lost his whole family. At such a young age too.

1 Thing though, the boy escaped through the window, that means the window was open. That means that the pressure from the water acting on the car door would be minimal after not too long. Why did the mother after realising her mistake, not attempt to open the door, force the other children and herself out the window, anything like that. You still have at least 30 seconds, usually more of consciousness after the car goes down.
 

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KingGolem said:
Maybe we're looking at this the wrong way. Maybe suicide is a good thing for the rest of us, eh? Those persons of the temperament and emotional distress sufficient to kill themselves will be removed from our society, and if they take their kids with them then the state doesn't have to worry about what to do with the orphans.
what about the surviving child who has to live with the pain and guilt (trust me he will blame himself) for the rest of his life?
 

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manaman said:
Yes, it sucks, but the only real tragedy here is that she took other lives with her.
I don't encourage suicide, and I never will, but if you are going to do it don't take others with you.
I don't either. I only respond because I wasn't sure if you where quoting me to support that, or talking to me. I just wanted to clear up any misconception that I might be apathetic to a person killing themselves.

I would love to be able to help everyone in need. I just understand that all you can do is let people know you are there to help, you can't watch them 24 hours a day, and the warning signs are usually only apparent afterwards. Everyone get's depressed, or sad, unless they start talking about suicide there really isn't much you can do.

That was my point. Help was there for the lady, she just ignored it, willingly or not she ignored it and concealed from others the extent of her true feelings. The people interviewed said the same things you always hear: "She seemed off." "She seemed sad." You just need more then that before you can act on a person's behalf, against their will. So that's why I say it sucks that she killed herself, but it's not a tragedy. The only real tragedy is that she took the lives of innocent children in the process.
 

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Oh, I see. You're one of those guys who thinks it makes them look cool to be completely emotionally cold and callous.

Well guess what, it doesn't. It makes you look like a spoiled loser who doesn't appreciate the value of human life.

It's fucking endemic on these forums. Every time I see a thread about killing or war there's always a huge amount of people who act like this just to look tough. It sickens me. People on here need to learn some human empathy.

I'll probably get moderated for this, but I don't care. You and and everyone else who talks like this disgust me.
Round of applause. I want to copy and paste this and re-post it everytime someone on this forum makes one of those disgusting comments. 'Oh look how cool, edgy and hard-ass I am, I think suicidal people deserve to die cos they're weak LOLZ'

As someone who has had an immediate family member commit suicide as well a friend, I can pretty safely say these ignorant people wouldn't be quite so quick to be so callous had they had experienced it first hand. Let's hope they never have to because I wouldn't wish it on anyone, not even them.
 

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FutureJarhead16 said:
Well, I sure do know what its like to lose someone close to me due to suicide. Yet, my opinion on the subject doesn't change. Just because I don't feel sorry for someone who killed them-self doesn't mean I'm "morally bankrupt". Suicide is something I really just don't give a shit about, nor care for anyone who does it. The bit with the kids in this story is very sad and it shouldn't have happened. I still have no feeling but anger and annoyance toward the mother, and still believe more will benefit from her death than her being alive.
Suicide has far too many causes and reasons to be generalised as 'for the weak'. Your statement was utterly, utterly wrong and misinformed.

I had a brother who had schizophrenia and whose every moment of every day was a waking nightmare of horrific visions, hallucinations, emotional and physical pain, of which no medication helped to relieve. He took his own life after years of living in complete hell. By your reckoning he was 'weak'.

Get educated on topics before you make ignorant blanket statements like that.
 

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KingGolem said:
Socks and Shoes said:
KingGolem said:
Maybe we're looking at this the wrong way. Maybe suicide is a good thing for the rest of us, eh? Those persons of the temperament and emotional distress sufficient to kill themselves will be removed from our society, and if they take their kids with them then the state doesn't have to worry about what to do with the orphans.
That's a very sadistic, cold and fucked-up way of thinking you got there.
While fucked-up and cold are your own opinions, I fail to see how it is sadistic. Isn't that supposed to mean "enjoys inflicting pain on others?" Perhaps you misunderstand me: I do not laugh at human weakness nor do I wish it on others. I am merely saying that maybe we're better off without these kinds of people.
The thing is, right, It's a choice really to live or die. The problem with suicidals is their rationality is completely fucked up, twisted and destroyed from depression/whatever. So, if you clearly decided to commit suicide because of like cancer or whatever, and you gave it rational thought, fine. But their minds are fucked, you can't let them make decisions based on it.

The orphans thing, I'm sorry but that's really fucked up, it's not so bad if children are murdered so the state don't have to deal with placing them in new homes? That's very, very cold. Don't see where sadism came into play, but whatever.
 

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Furburt said:
The fact she had a last minute change of heart only makes the story more depressing.
Doesn't really. It just makes it more disgusting.

You want to take your life? That's fine, I would say that you leaving your kids as orphans is a horrible thing to do, but if you can't take it anymore... well... yeah.

But dragging them to die with you and then pulling an "I am teh sorry"?

Why would you ever feel sorry for the person who does that? In fact, she actually tried to prevent her children from saving themselves.

This person deserves no empathy. This is not me being a cold douche, but a person who values human life and doesn't want to see children hurt because their parents are terrible people.
 

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Poor kid(s). I hope the surviver makes it out relatively okay.


The mother, however, i have no sympathy for. Taking your own life? Yeah, sure, i don´t agree with you, but whatever. But taking OTHERS with you? Just...die. Seriously. Someone who does that has no place in this world.

Also, looking through this thread, i can see some pretty agressive responses to everyone who dares say anything else but "This is horrible!". No, i don´t agree, i feel sorry for the kids, but there´s no need to insult people because of their opinion. Calling them cold and heartless is pointless. It would be like if they called you weak because of your sympathy.
 

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I don't know what to say. I can't imagine how anyone could feel that would make them want to kill not just themselves, but all their kids. People talk about suicide as a cowardly way to get out, and sometimes folks rationalize it by not wanting to "burden" people with their existence. But when you try to kill almost your entire family (and mostly succeed)... How low did you go? Is this some Lovecraftian thing?

I think we throw the term "mental illness" around as a way to explain what we can't understand, or don't want to look at. In my history class yesterday we were looking at paintings by Goya, and I marveled at the terror a person must have held to paint that way, the desperation in the brush strokes. I don't know what to call this.

There's a lot of murder, death and disease in this world. I know that. I know people are massacred and abused and there's all of that.

Even so, this is sick and wrong on some fundamental level, and anyone who laughs at this story is either scared or a worthless human being. Imagine if this was your family, your mother who did this. I can't even process that. I mean, I'm trying to understand, but I can't.