Thank god I don't have a GF. There freaking annoying and they cost money. Well..... most of them anyway. Im not saying that all of them are like that. Just most.
I agree. Girls like that will keep doing it as long as you let them. I hate girls because of that too. Honestly I hate it when good guys get mixed up with fucked up girls. Honestly hun it *almost* sounds like she's using you. I would dump her too. Stay friends if you want but don't date her.Mackheath said:Maybe its because I am mistrustful of females due to my own experiences with them, but I would dump her; not because of the kiss alone, but because of all the little signs that-from what you've said- are beginning to build up.
Lulz. I cannot agree more...General_Potatoes said:Thank god I don't have a GF. There freaking annoying and they cost money. Well..... most of them anyway. Im not saying that all of them are like that. Just most.
LOL I know right?Macgyvercas said:Crap, where the devil is Aylaine when you need her most. She would be the perfect person to ask about this.
As for me, I say give her another chance, as it was just a kiss. If it had gone farther than that, then you might have a real problem (not that you don't already, but you get my point).
Impressive advices.Uriel-238 said:*snip*
Calm down man, the guy's young and need a lot of different point of views. The people on the Escapist are generally polite repliers...I can understand why he asked us (he can chose he's own path afterward...).Booze Zombie said:She feels guilty after kissing someone she probably found attractive (oh my God, you're not the only one!) and valued your relationship enough to to tell you and feel guilty about it. Jesus Christ, oh wow, how amazingly untrustworthy! MASSIVE SARCASM!
Jesus, I hate threads like this!
I like the way you thinkthe spud said:Pop some ritalin and rock back and forth in the fetal position while crying.
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What? That's what I do when something doesn't go well. If you ignore a problem long and vigorously enough, it will eventually go away.
I hate to be cynical, but you have two options:Rem45 said:I found out this morning, from my girlfriend, that last night she let another guy kiss her.
Yeah I know...Only a kiss but she wanted it from another guy and I can't trust her anymore...She was so damn perfect too. We've only been together for 3 months and if this could happen while we are happy what will happen in a year...
What the fuck do I do?
Edit: I called her this morning and she told me. She feels guilty and wishes she could take it back but I have honestly been a great boyfriend. I pay for everything, drive her every where (she lives 40 minutes away from me by car), all her friends like me. I don't get angry, I don't hit her.
I SPOON HER EVERY NIGHT EVEN THOUGH I WAKE UP WITH A NUMB ARM! Like Jesus...
He's a friend of hers from work. He kissed her, she told me she could of stopped it but didn't.
I know it could be worse, I'm not an idiot but the fact that she did do it kind of destroys trust.
Every time she goes to talk to another guy what do I do? Believe in her like I did the first time? Is it possible to be in a happy relationship when every guy you meet is just another guy for her to hurt me with?
Also, I've never been jealous over her ex or male friends.
It was a "I like you kiss". Not old friends, not on the cheek.
She told me specifically that she can't be his friend because she would date him if I wasn't her boyfriend and that she wanted the kiss.
EDIT!:!:!:!:!: Thanks for the replies everyone. I really wish there was some miracle answer for this but as I guessed there isn't.
Its nice to see some people telling me I should get back with her.
I'm going to talk with her tonight. Try and sort it out...Who knows maybe I can get her to agree to a permanent leash?
That was a joke...I need one of those.
I realise there are people with much worse in their lives I just wanted some advice. I know it isn't the end of the world.
TV Tropes, yes. Wikipedia, less so these days. [footnote]In the old days, less-than-perfect additions got polished by style fairies. These days, they just get reverted by the wiki-police.)[/footnote]Drake666 said:Question out of context: Are you a regular wiki poster ?![]()
Gonna have to agree here. And it could be a lot worse next time. If you feel you love her and can trust her.. Then whatever dude its up to you.Greatjusticeman said:Dump that *****.
Even if it was just a kiss, it was a stupid decision. That means she is prone to more.
TRUST ME.
I know, but it seems the problem isn't really his, it's hers and he's focused on himself.Drake666 said:Calm down man, the guy's young and need a lot of different point of views. The people on the Escapist are generally polite repliers...I can understand why he asked us (he can chose he's own path afterward...).
True, but it leaves the Escapist somewhat darker and more dreary.Marik2 said:LOL I know right?Macgyvercas said:Crap, where the devil is Aylaine when you need her most. She would be the perfect person to ask about this.
As for me, I say give her another chance, as it was just a kiss. If it had gone farther than that, then you might have a real problem (not that you don't already, but you get my point).
Shes most likely bringing rainbows and sunshine to the world or something![]()