i'm not much of a shy guy, but the girl i'm into thinks i'm a bit boring : [dwightsteel said:So if you have questions, or need advice, let me help you.
haha its the old stereotype - In the same league as "women are bad drivers". Personally i dont know how you tolerate it, if there is ANY girl online on XBL the shameless[/I] flirting that goes on is cringeworthy.purplegothchick said:Yes, we are a rare elusive breed of girl and it takes a very special guy to find us. We're like freakin Narnia or something. Specially cos many guys who play are asses who refuse to accept that girls play.Sark said:So does everyone agree that normal girls are boring compared to the illusive gamer-girl?
Depends where in the UK u live. They hold the London Expo twice a year and loads of geeks go there =]Kruxxor said:If I knew where they were, perhaps OP. I don't think places like that exist here in the UK =(dwightsteel said:My advice to him was more about getting around his self esteem issues. Ideally, more confidence will give him the ability to more proactive in finding the girl he's looking for.Kruxxor said:It's all well and good in theory. But what if i'm not looking for just any girl to get with. What if I want to find someone who has the same likes and hobbies as myself? So for example a girl who loves playing Xbox 360, watching Animé and has at least 2 level 80 characters on the Horde side in World of Warcraft?
Surely, while i'm in the park or bar picking up chicks she is at home grinding her new Undead Warlock to level 80 with My Neighbour Totoro playing in the background via her Xbox 360?
How do I get THAT chick, OP?
It's probable that even the girl your looking for will end up in a public place one way or the other. And if not in one of the places I've mentioned, what about gaming and comic conventions? Those are hotspots for geeks finding true love.
Uh oh, I feel an existential crisis coming on...Sark said:I actually meant illusive not elusive. They aren't real and neither are you.purplegothchick said:Lol, nice Hey Arnold ref there :-DQuantum Roberts said:When you start making a shrine out of discarded wads of bubblegum?Ultrajoe said:But if you were genuine, OP, I'll give you a prompt question; At what point does infatuation become obsession?
Yes, we are a rare elusive breed of girl and it takes a very special guy to find us. We're like freakin Narnia or something. Specially cos many guys who play are asses who refuse to accept that girls play.Sark said:So does everyone agree that normal girls are boring compared to the illusive gamer-girl?
OH GOD! I'm not real! It all makes sense!purplegothchick said:Uh oh, I feel an existential crisis coming on...
To a high class girl, Prada is slumming. And as for the dog shows, I wouldn't know. I've never been to one. This is outside advice.LimaBravo said:Hmm the immediate problem with that is many fold. Dog shows for one arent particularly high class. Prada bag ? SO a high class girl going slumming will wear her best gear ? Nah.dwightsteel said:Ok, I had to get some outside help for this one. I've never been big on the rich girls, because you almost always have to lie....a lot. But I have a buddy who is kind of like Sam Axe without the spy background, and he had this to say:LimaBravo said:Where do sugar mommies hang out. I want to be a kept mandwightsteel said:Care to elaborate?LimaBravo said:Where do you find a woman who is looking to keep a man in a manner he could become accustomed to?![]()
"Hmmmm, wine tastings are good. Gourmet cooking stores, high end bars, dog shows. Don't discount dives. A lot of the rich broads looking for a thrill will go to low end pubs. The Prada bag is like a bullseye."
Ill stick with university & short skirts & long jackets
Then why post here?titanium turtle said:There is only one number I'm gonna to call- ghostbusters
I'm fine with my romance life thanks
That unless you're in a legitimate red-light district, with businesses that offer clean girls, I would avoid them. IMO no guy should NEED to go to a hooker for sex. That's a waste of money.-Orgasmatron- said:What do you know about hookers?
Ok, this is tough. No guy should have to change his personality to get with a girl. Statistically speaking, there should be millions of girls in the world who will like you, despite what this girl feels makes you boring.King_Paco said:i'm not much of a shy guy, but the girl i'm into thinks i'm a bit boring : [dwightsteel said:So if you have questions, or need advice, let me help you.
is there anything i can do??
hmm... not sure actually, I was just randomly browsing forums, anyway I'm going to call ghostbusters now, I wish everyone on this forum luck and skill, i will now find something more relevant like a forum on the greatest and worst cheesesdwightsteel said:Then why post here?titanium turtle said:There is only one number I'm gonna to call- ghostbusters
I'm fine with my romance life thanks
I'm sorry but this is bullshit... I am always impressed with a girl who has the guts to come up and chat a guy up, especially if she is funny and charming about it.Kruxxor said:[. Girls should never approach guys, because that's just unnatural (and i'm old fashioned)
This, you see. At least put some incense in there. You're bound to have some of that, right?Sevre90210 said:Now Ultra, the problem you have is probably to do with the smell of those severed heads, hollow them out and use them as candle holders to make yourself a bit more romantic.Ultrajoe said:Why do girls not like my shiny and impenetrable suit of plate mail? I'm a provider, a lover, I don't leave my chain-gun on the mantlepiece, I hang it over my bed-pod next to the severed heads of my foes. Tell me my accredited chum, am I too forward? Should I not bathe her house in the blood of a vanquished nation? Why can't I bring myself to risk friendships? Should I spare the white rhino it's life as a species instead of crafting a mighty horned chariot to show up at her house in?
I'm so confused.
What? Girls should never approach guys? How old-fashioned are you? Women are not helpless, you know. It's not like our lives only begin when a man comes to us.Kruxxor said:Firstly, sorry for the double post.Major_Sam said:Do you help with the other way around? A girl looking for a guy?
According to OP's logic, if you stand in a bar long enough you should have a couple of guys come up to you and say "Hi" then make small talk with you and then leave.
If they don't, just make 'eyes' at the guy you like and as long as he's interested, he should come to you. Girls should never approach guys, because that's just unnatural (and i'm old fashioned)