On Women As People and How To Get Their Attention

[Bat Vader]

These kids are looking for an excuse for there issues with girls. Their introverted and creepily passive aggresive, but whatever its confident guys faults that girls aren't interested in them. Not theirs. Idiots. If girls don't like you it's no ones fault but your own.

Someone has a lot of pent up frustration. I am introverted but I am not creepy. I am passive, I see fighting as a last resort instead of a first resort.

Most women I encounter are either very shallow or very superficial. I would rather stay single than date a shallow or superficial woman. My preferences.

actually I have zero pent up aggression fighting is a last resort for me as well(there is a difference between being passive aggressive and going around beating everyone up). and If most of the girls you've dated are shallow and superficial I feel very bad for you. My fiancee is gorgeous and amazingly down to earth. a lot of the girls I've dated have been beautiful and nice too. did you consider maybe i'm not talking about you specifically. and if you read my post later on in this thread you would see a much more thought out idea of what i'm trying to say.

For someone who is introverted you sure are casting stones quickly.

The introvert is highly offended. I have never dated because of the fact most women I meet are shallow or superficial. I was joking about the pent up frustration part.

 

[S4rdonyx]

Hmm... I disagree. Looks are what ropes you in, but personality is what keeps you there. I don't have time for assholes. Intelligence is a really good thing, but not if it's the in-your-face kind.

 

[veloper]

A human is just a kind of weak, hairless chimpansee with a lawyer added to the brain.

Once you understand that, all these "what do X want" questions become really simple to solve.

The solution for most guys aking this shit then becomes really simple: improve yourself.
The next question is for people who truly understand: do you still want to?

 

[antipunt]

Men value appearance above anything else. (on average)
Women value resources (money/attributes) (on average)

Scientifically 'proven' (I put proven in quotes because nothing in science is 'proven' per se).

 

[ryuutchi]

Just like men only want a beautiful woman who will stay silent, cook them their meals, clean up after them and have sex whenever they want.

What the hell year is this, 1954?

You've got a real problem with sexism don't ya. Just thank your lucky stars you weren't born into fundamentalist Muslim state.

I'm tempted to quote the old saw about a feminist being a woman who expresses opinions that differentiate her from a doormat...

I will repeat what I said in another thread: "If you think women are alien beings then you're not trying hard enough."

Actually I have proved through experience the harder you try the more likely a girl will take advantage of you.

Protip: the plural of "anecdote" is not "data".


(For the record, I am neither insulted nor angry. THis is pretty garden variety sexism, man. What else you got?)

 

[ryuutchi]

all men want is a good looking female that can cook and will watch the game with them.


yes, thats for every man out there.

And all gamers want a game with shiny explosions and huge guns.

Oh... wait.

 

[WlknCntrdiction]

I feel girls/women are pretty easy to understand. Hope I'm not being in anyway offensive to any on this forum by saying this but they don't make logical sense. When something happens guys always try to logic out the problem when that's not what they want, they want understanding and comfort from the guy but because he doesn't understand her then more problems will arise.
I'm in the fortunate position where I can understand most women, I can tell when my girl friends have something bugging them, when they don't particularly like someone, and it speaks volumes through their body language amongst other stuff.

I'm one of those guys who used to blame everything on the "bad boy" or someone other than myself(this was 2 yrs ago, I'm now 20)but I studied, I learnt, i developed, both as a person and just as general member of society. Blaming others gets you nowhere, the problem is much closer to home than you think.

 

[Zersy]

To be honest, I'm a little frustrated with the "what do women want" threads. Women are a varied and diverse group of people, same as men. I mean, not all of your male friends want the same thing out of a relationship, right? (Unless you live in a Judd Apatow movie and all you care about is getting laid regularly)

So why on earth do a significant number of men on the forum constantly act as though there is one Woman, who is mysterious, ever-changing, and weirder than an alien?

It's sort of like-- do you expect every gamer to want the same sort of game? Do you think that there is one platonic ideal of The Gamer and get annoyed that real gamers have a bunch of different opinions?

Men only need 2 things in a relation ship

fun and sex

and they will go to great lengths for it,, even asking women......

 

[veloper]

I will repeat what I said in another thread: "If you think women are alien beings then you're not trying hard enough."

Actually I have proved through experience the harder you try the more likely a girl will take advantage of you.

Protip: the plural of "anecdote" is not "data".


(For the record, I am neither insulted nor angry. THis is pretty garden variety sexism, man. What else you got?)

I'm sorry what? Only did High School okay? Little words.

What she means is, your PERONAL experience doesn't prove anything.

 

[Spirit_Of_Fire]

I belive it is because women are really hard to figure out. For example a girl at my college showed every sign of liking me, but when i approached her to wether or not she liked me, she didnt.

 

[Crystal Cuckoo]

What's wrong with your chest?

 

[Bendon]

Women aren't this binary... not all of them want the same things. Just focus on being the person YOU want to be. Otherwise, you're cheating yourself.

Girls also like it when you speak German to them really fast. German is the sexual language.
Also, girls like it when you call dem girls. Also, girls like guys wiff footbal skill.also girls like guys wifflotsofmoney alsogrilsliekguyswhomaketriainsalsogirlslikecatsalsoinodisbecausei watch da view aslo girls like guyswho have sunglasses alsogirlsliek ladyboys also girls like horsesalso girls like guys with raly beig muscules also girls like guys who have high post counts also girls like guys who do karate also girls like guys who will drive them and their babies around while they date taller guys also

 

[Bendon]

also, on sex, girls have a 1 hour minimum requirement for orgasm. It's not uncommon though for a gurl to require 2 or 3 hours, especially if the penis is under 20 inches. Some gurlz dont orgamsm. in dat case u jus get dem fnroijgnontugtrjkhfjh fgfkj gfi. oidido, fjkrlkjg dgofofo? foif, fjrioeirjfoiie (ehfjirghijrijhg). Ultimately though, it's best to use the whole tube to avoid chafing of the forearm.

follow this guide and your woman person will thank you.

 

[uhgungawa]

The best method to get noticed is to run around nakid singing I'm a little tea pot. Not only will the women notice you, so won't the police, who might be female as well.

 

[whaleswiththumbs]

I was actually reading through them (joined shortly after), and I found it really interesting how so many men can wonder about the conundrum of our existence.

Very puzzling indeed....

Maybe it's to let us live better, and not be gay...

It's not our job to improve your quality of life or to bolster your heterosexuality.

That is not at all how i meant that.... I meant for men and women to live better lives, and not be gay... two penis can't make a baby, same with to vags.

 

[Simriel]

More or less. I would say Charisma is what gets it done. If a guy can be decently charismatic he shouldn't have many problems. Being at least a little pretty helps though.

Unfortunately, charisma seems to be a little rare these days.

Oh sorry. I stole it all. Hey wasup? *Fonze pose*

xDD Haha!
At least someone's got moxie.

Plenty around here. Also I'm so damn pretty.