I get what you're saying and I fully empathise, but only partly agree.
I think you're looking at the wrong solution.
Nothing's going to change if we all start taking the bad stuff without complaint. There should be complaints, like this comic, about the way some women are treated. Not because they're women but because they're people. Likewise, there should be complaints about the way you and other men are treated, because we're also people.
If you are judged on your appearance then that's simply wrong and you are completely in your right to complain about it. And decent non-hypocritical people will support you in it. Because whether it's biker men or cos-playing girls it's not right to be judged on your appearance or gender.
We should welcome women to our community. We should also welcome men to our community. We should stand up when women in our community, or even outside of it, are treated badly. We should also stand up when men in our community, or even outside of it, are treated badly.
I think you're looking at the wrong solution.
Nothing's going to change if we all start taking the bad stuff without complaint. There should be complaints, like this comic, about the way some women are treated. Not because they're women but because they're people. Likewise, there should be complaints about the way you and other men are treated, because we're also people.
If you are judged on your appearance then that's simply wrong and you are completely in your right to complain about it. And decent non-hypocritical people will support you in it. Because whether it's biker men or cos-playing girls it's not right to be judged on your appearance or gender.
We should welcome women to our community. We should also welcome men to our community. We should stand up when women in our community, or even outside of it, are treated badly. We should also stand up when men in our community, or even outside of it, are treated badly.