That's the whole point, IS it their choice to make?AbstractStream said:Um...wow. I honestly see it as unnatural, but it's their choice.
This is what I just don't get, why does being dead make a difference to when you were alive? Aren't you still a human being with rights? Or maybe not.jtesauro said:Madara XIII said:snip
He/She'd hardly be the first person to grow up not knowing or even having birth parents. Happens all the time.
Is it ideal? Perhaps not, but life isn't always.
The only part that bothers me vaguely is the lack of consent on behalf of the son, the 'donor' in this case. Though as previously stated, he is dead, so that would give implied consent according to some.
Thats really really fucking weird.Fr said:anc[is]The end result wouldn't be much different than adopting a kid, so if they can find a woman who's not creeped out then why not.
Gxas said:Who is going to raise the child, and, whenhe's older,he's gonna find out about this. I mean, its online.He'll probably be covered in the news. It isn't like they'll be able to hide the fact thathe was conceived after his[her] father's death.
Think of howhe would feel knowing that.
I'm not sure if that is what they are trying to achieve. I think they just want to continue their sons lineage. Which makes sense I suppose.Lucie said:I could imagine that you are devastated and heartbroken, but a grandchild isn't going to bring him back.
In some countries it isn't necessary to give permission yourself, relatives can decide on it, well on the organ part that is. Sperm donating you don't get to decide on. Besides they aren't really donating his sperm, it isn't anonymously to some stranger.The_root_of_all_evil said:Starts and finishes right there. No.If we were entitled to donate the organs of our son...
I doubt they'd put it up for adoption. They want a grandchild and want to stay in contact with it.Zaik said:I don't see what the problem is.
As long as they can find someone willing to birth the baby of a total stranger and then give it up to other total strangers(it happens, lots of money involved though), I don't know why this would even cause an issue.
As long as they have power of attorney, or whatever the relevant counterpart is, I don't really see how anyone has any right to tell them no.
Unless the mother plans to take it on herself and birth some sort of incestuous downs baby, that's obviously not going to fly anywhere.
And therein lies the problem; it depends who you ask.Lucie said:That's the whole point, IS it their choice to make?AbstractStream said:Um...wow. I honestly see it as unnatural, but it's their choice.
This is what I just don't get, why does being dead make a difference to when you were alive? Aren't you still a human being with rights? Or maybe not.jtesauro said:Madara XIII said:snip
He/She'd hardly be the first person to grow up not knowing or even having birth parents. Happens all the time.
Is it ideal? Perhaps not, but life isn't always.
The only part that bothers me vaguely is the lack of consent on behalf of the son, the 'donor' in this case. Though as previously stated, he is dead, so that would give implied consent according to some.
Right, I...never said I thought they'd do that. I don't even know what gave that idea, actually.Lucie said:In some countries it isn't necessary to give permission yourself, relatives can decide on it, well on the organ part that is. Sperm donating you don't get to decide on. Besides they aren't really donating his sperm, it isn't anonymously to some stranger.The_root_of_all_evil said:Starts and finishes right there. No.If we were entitled to donate the organs of our son...
I doubt they'd put it up for adoption. They want a grandchild and want to stay in contact with it.Zaik said:I don't see what the problem is.
As long as they can find someone willing to birth the baby of a total stranger and then give it up to other total strangers(it happens, lots of money involved though), I don't know why this would even cause an issue.
As long as they have power of attorney, or whatever the relevant counterpart is, I don't really see how anyone has any right to tell them no.
Unless the mother plans to take it on herself and birth some sort of incestuous downs baby, that's obviously not going to fly anywhere.