People, what do you think if a girl hangs out with mostly guys?
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It's neither inherently a good or bad situation- it's just what it is.
That most of your friends are male is interesting, to be sure, but not at all revealing of your character. I find that circumstance is the main factor in forming friendships, with gender having little relevance.
That most of your friends are male is interesting, to be sure, but not at all revealing of your character. I find that circumstance is the main factor in forming friendships, with gender having little relevance.
I have good friends from both genders. I find that I relax more with girls. It has little to do with sexuality and more to do with the fact that the girls I hang out with are awesome.
Shouldn't it work the other way?
Shouldn't it work the other way?
ugh, I don't really want to post this since I'm sure someone will get on my case for it, but this is the trend I've noticed.
If she's ugly: she's probably a tomboy. The guys accept her as such. Maybe one of them is into her.
if she's hot: She's may or may not be a tomboy, but will often claim she's just "one of the guys" when about half to 3/4ths of them want to sleep with her and treat her like a princess because of it (whether she realizes it or not). That's not to say they behave more gentlemanly, they just do more favors and usually go out of their way to accommodate her. She may or may not be manipulating them, but will most likely be inclined to stick around because they usually treat her very well.
I'm just speaking from experience and generalizations here, and personally don't really care.
As for guys. I dunno, about half my friends are girls, to me it's just whatever. I don't really like manly, meathead types, so I'd assume the less overwhelmingly manly guys are more inclined to have female friends. I don't know many other guys with mostly girl friends so I have no other basis of comparison.
If she's ugly: she's probably a tomboy. The guys accept her as such. Maybe one of them is into her.
if she's hot: She's may or may not be a tomboy, but will often claim she's just "one of the guys" when about half to 3/4ths of them want to sleep with her and treat her like a princess because of it (whether she realizes it or not). That's not to say they behave more gentlemanly, they just do more favors and usually go out of their way to accommodate her. She may or may not be manipulating them, but will most likely be inclined to stick around because they usually treat her very well.
I'm just speaking from experience and generalizations here, and personally don't really care.
As for guys. I dunno, about half my friends are girls, to me it's just whatever. I don't really like manly, meathead types, so I'd assume the less overwhelmingly manly guys are more inclined to have female friends. I don't know many other guys with mostly girl friends so I have no other basis of comparison.
I know a few girls who have more guy than girl friends and I don't really care, they are fun to be around withsaoirse13 said:
Although my mother has always thought it weird
Always asking "What about her, is she the only girl there, isn't that boring for her?" But yeah why should it really matter who you hang out with?
I personally dont have a problem with whos friends with who, but when it comes to a girl with nothing but guy friends. It means in my head that the girl doesnt get along with most other girls which can be normal in school and such and making friends with guys is probably alot easier due to the fact that guys like most girls talking to them and the whole sexual attraction thing making things easier as well. But no problem at all but it is always best to make friends based on personality in my opinion rather than something like gender. But being a guy myself I would love to have more female friends then males cause women are hot and tend to be more understanding and caring in my experience.
Well, in the few cases I remember they were either pretty cool or very slutty and stupid.
My group of friends hung out with the dumb slutty one. Don't get me wrong, she was nice enough, but she was pretty sleezy and a little dull.
Honestly, do what floats your boat. I've tended to notice that guys that hung out with a bunch of girls generally tend to have a pretty good mojo after school ended.
My group of friends hung out with the dumb slutty one. Don't get me wrong, she was nice enough, but she was pretty sleezy and a little dull.
Honestly, do what floats your boat. I've tended to notice that guys that hung out with a bunch of girls generally tend to have a pretty good mojo after school ended.
It depends on the girl. If she has the tomboyish sort of personality then I figure she's just more comfortable around guys. If she's more of the barbie doll type I think she's either shunned by other girls and has no choice or is just eye candy for the guys and is super flirty. Generalisations of course.
Well, obviously batman would run downhill, making it harder for the bear to run. Then he would trip the bear causing it to tumble down the hill making it dizzy and not wanting to fight anymore.NightmareLuna said:
OT: Who cares? Really, who cares? A friend is a friend, guy or gal. We got more important things to talk about. Like batman and bears.
I think I have a fairly even balance of guys and girls in my friends group, which is convenient for me because I don't entirely fall in with either group of interests. I'll hang out with the guys when we're talking about games and movies, and then when the conversation moves onto sports I can go talk philosophy or something with one of the girls.
In short, so long as they're good for you to have around, what does it matter what's in their pants (unless you're being friends with them specifically for the purpose of getting into their pants).
In short, so long as they're good for you to have around, what does it matter what's in their pants (unless you're being friends with them specifically for the purpose of getting into their pants).
I see no problem with it, there have been plenty of times wherein the girl-friend/*girl* friend of one of my friends has come along on our stiflingly boyish outings, and looking back they made the time far more memorable. Hell, growing up and before primary school my friends were primarily girls looking back on it.
I hang out mostly with guys (I'm a female myself), not because I seek for them but because most of my close relatives of the same age happen to be male, and the few people outside my family I'm friends with are guys. I used to have female friends, but they moved to the other cities to continue their studies.
I think it's maybe bit weird if a girl actively seeks only guys as friends, but nothing bad. I think it would be equally weird if they only befriended other women/girls.
I think it's maybe bit weird if a girl actively seeks only guys as friends, but nothing bad. I think it would be equally weird if they only befriended other women/girls.
Probably that she's friends with more guys than she is girls. We certainly have a couple girls like that in the group of friends I hang out with. Its like 5 guys to every girl.
...Damn that's a lot. Although that's probably because most of us don't bring our girlfriends out to the pub with us because they disapprove of the place anyway.
...Damn that's a lot. Although that's probably because most of us don't bring our girlfriends out to the pub with us because they disapprove of the place anyway.
whatever floats your boat. If you feel more comfortable around guys or just happen to get on better with the guys you know, then cool. nobody should be weighed down by considerations of whether it's right or "normal" when socialising.
you should be mindful though that close contact with guys will inevitably lead to some kind of awkwardness if any of them like you.
you should be mindful though that close contact with guys will inevitably lead to some kind of awkwardness if any of them like you.
Well, if they're my friend, then I have no problem with how many friends they have. With the following conditions:
1) If they have a Facebook picture of them in a bikini or nakedness, and have 90% Facebook friends, I'm judging.
2) If I see her stringing them along, I'm judging. Excessive flirting, asking for excessive favours, etc.
But if it's simply "prefers hanging with men than woman", then I don't care either way. It's when men are getting strung along in the hopes of having sex with them. It must be said that if the girl is hot, the chances are the men want to sleep with her. Is it her fault? Not if she doesn't mean to.
That said, if I was trying to go out with said girl? Suddenly, it does matter. If she does flirt with her friends, or spends way too much time hanging out with some guys, or simply has a guy friend she is VERY close to, I probably would simply avoid trying to get with her. The odds are, he wants to sleep with her, and they're emotionally invested in each other, and in regards to him, I wouldn't be allowed an opinion "because I'm jealous".
Shallow and unfair? Probably. But that's my gut feeling.
1) If they have a Facebook picture of them in a bikini or nakedness, and have 90% Facebook friends, I'm judging.
2) If I see her stringing them along, I'm judging. Excessive flirting, asking for excessive favours, etc.
But if it's simply "prefers hanging with men than woman", then I don't care either way. It's when men are getting strung along in the hopes of having sex with them. It must be said that if the girl is hot, the chances are the men want to sleep with her. Is it her fault? Not if she doesn't mean to.
That said, if I was trying to go out with said girl? Suddenly, it does matter. If she does flirt with her friends, or spends way too much time hanging out with some guys, or simply has a guy friend she is VERY close to, I probably would simply avoid trying to get with her. The odds are, he wants to sleep with her, and they're emotionally invested in each other, and in regards to him, I wouldn't be allowed an opinion "because I'm jealous".
Shallow and unfair? Probably. But that's my gut feeling.
I don't often hang out with the girls I know for this reason:
"Oh my gawd, your hair is gorgeous today!"
"Like, thanks girl! Yours is so cute!"
"OMG isn't [character] from Hollyoakes/90210/The Hills fit!?"
"Not as fit as [boyband]!"
"I like the colour purple! eeehehehe!"
"OMG. I'm gonna go shopping and buy a purple top now!"
I've found a few girls who are a bit more like me, and we're good friends. But generally some girls I know are so painfully thick it hurts to be around them sometimes.
Guys are better friends, they don't look down their nose at you for playing video games, they don't give a shit if I turn up at their house with greasy hair and no make-up, we usually share the same crude sense of humour.
I'm a pretty good girl mate because I'm too ugly for anyone to fancy me, so it never gets awkward, and my guy mates are always coming to me for a bit of lurrrrrve advice. :3
So yeah, nothing wrong with it at all.
"Oh my gawd, your hair is gorgeous today!"
"Like, thanks girl! Yours is so cute!"
"OMG isn't [character] from Hollyoakes/90210/The Hills fit!?"
"Not as fit as [boyband]!"
"I like the colour purple! eeehehehe!"
"OMG. I'm gonna go shopping and buy a purple top now!"
I've found a few girls who are a bit more like me, and we're good friends. But generally some girls I know are so painfully thick it hurts to be around them sometimes.
Guys are better friends, they don't look down their nose at you for playing video games, they don't give a shit if I turn up at their house with greasy hair and no make-up, we usually share the same crude sense of humour.
I'm a pretty good girl mate because I'm too ugly for anyone to fancy me, so it never gets awkward, and my guy mates are always coming to me for a bit of lurrrrrve advice. :3
So yeah, nothing wrong with it at all.
Are these people who have a problem potential boyfriends? It sounds like an excellent way to weed out the jealous / clingy types. That certainly isn't a bad thing.saoirse13 said:
Most of my friends are usually male and my best friend is a gay guy but three of my closest friends are female - and also quite attractive - The things some guys say and do when 'flirting' is a real eye opener to say the least.
What about you? How do you feel about a guy with mostly female friends? Would you avoid them?