People, what do you think if a girl hangs out with mostly guys?

[ZeroMachine]

I know many girls for which that is the case.

Usually, the girls that I know that are in that position are actually a little bit happier and they care less about interpersonal drama.

But, on rare occasion, they just jump at every opportunity to talk about it/cause it.

(DISCLAIMER: I'm not trying to imply that I don't think guys do the same, as I know many that do. I'm simply implying that, in my experiences, girls tend to do it more.)

But either way, when I see it, my first thought is "..." because I don't really care.

Friends are friends. I would only be concerned if most of her friends were cats

 

[Use_Imagination_here]

Whatever works for you is a great rule to apply in a sitation like this. Who are we to judge someone if they don't have a problem?

Personally I don't have any female friends but I have few friends in general and we mostly talk about games, which for whatever fucking reason no woman I know is into.

 

[L. Declis]

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[zehydra]

No, I think it's cool. Most girls that hang out with mostly guys are awesome and level-headed, in my experience. A girl I'd date.

 

[Clive Howlitzer]

I don't really think anything about it at all. There is nothing wrong with a girl having a lot of male friends.

 

[HouseOfSyn]

It's not necessarily clingy or jealous. It's simply that there is, on some level, an element of attraction. But for some reason, one or the other said no, so they are in a best friend relationship where one of them is one-sidedly fancying the other. Assumption? Yes. But based on personal experience.

Because of this, I'd always feel like he was waiting for me to screw up. Paranoid? Yep. But once more, personal experience.

A guy with mostly female friends? Same as a girl with mostly male friends. I'm consistent with my judgmental nature.

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I was refering to the person she has just met as a potentially clingy or jealous future boyfriend not the current best friend.

If they express that they think it's odd or weird that your best friend is of the opposite sex then I'd see that as glimpse into how they might be as a partner - ie: jealous. If it's just accepted then the opposite. It's obviously not full-proof but like you said, from personal experience.

I've definitely seen a situation where a guy is 'friends' a girl after confessing his feelings. It's quite pathetic to be honest. You can't be a good friend to someone if you're using any situation to get into their pants. Thats not friendship.

 

[Naeras]

Anyone that judges you based on the gender of your friends is an idiot and not worth your time. I've dumped women on the basis that they can't handle the fact that I have several close female friends, and I still think that's entirely justified.

 

[Smooth Operator]

I think they prefer the company they are in, only becomes a problem when people start falling for each other... now that shit is not pretty, I've been through it a few times.

 

[bobmus]

If they're interesting to talk to and act friendly, it doesn't really matter to me what gender they are. I've known both types of people, and haven't really had a problem with either.

 

[Phisi]

There's a lot of reasons for it, so many that assumptions are probably wrong so i don't think anything of it.

 

[Kevlar Eater]

I've always thought that a female having primarily male friends was either a fag hag [http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fag+hag] or a manipulator. In either case, she could unleash her 'dogs' on any male she doesn't fancy, and they would feel as justified for beating said guy up as the woman.

As for males with primarily female friends... the dude's either gay or hanging out with his gf's friends.

 

[Bertylicious]

I'd just assume they have a lot of brothers so that's who they relate to.

 

[Zack Alklazaris]

I had a lot of female friends in college. I thought I was known as the nice guy who generally cares about others, but the more that I think about it the more I think they thought I was gay lol.

It honestly shouldn't matter. If you have a bunch of male friends because you just get along with them better (from what I heard women can be vicious towards each other) thats just as fine as you wanting a bunch of fuck buddies. Its your life, why should I judge?

Just if your the latter I will make it clear I will not be one of your "buddies". We could be friends though.

 

[Vault101]

I've always thought that a female having primarily male friends was either a fag hag [http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fag+hag] or a manipulator. In either case, she could unleash her 'dogs' on any male she doesn't fancy, and they would feel as justified for beating said guy up as the woman.

As for males with primarily female friends... the dude's either gay or hanging out with his gf's friends.

what if she has similar interests?

I mean would YOU want to hang around people that only talk about fashion and "justin motherfucking timberlake" all the time?

not to say all girls do...but yeah

 

[Kevlar Eater]

I've always thought that a female having primarily male friends was either a fag hag [http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fag+hag] or a manipulator. In either case, she could unleash her 'dogs' on any male she doesn't fancy, and they would feel as justified for beating said guy up as the woman.

As for males with primarily female friends... the dude's either gay or hanging out with his gf's friends.

what if she has similar interests?

I mean would YOU want to hang around people that only talk about fashion and "justin motherfucking timberlake" all the time?

not to say all girls do...but yeah

Kind of the same way that I would not like to hang around video game-playing dudes or bronies on a frequent basis. As much as I wanna play a few songs of Rock Band with three buddies (haven't done it yet) or talk about why Rarity is my favorite pony, I honestly don't think I could handle the same two subjects ad nauseum. But to be honest, I'm in no position to talk about friends or acquaintances with similar interests because I have not experienced those aspects of life lol.

 

[Robert Ewing]

I just think they might either be a tomboy, or semi tomboy, or an attention whore. It can go either way, but you can usually tell which is which with just a glance.

Either way, all three of those generalizations are a sure fire way to find a boyfriend. Guys love that shit when women are interested in exactly the same things as them.

 

[Dragonclaw]

I don't see it as a big deal. Most of my friends all the way through high school were girls...and yes, I got teased a lot by guys who thought I was gay, which is funnier because I was regularly sleeping with a couple of the girls and as it turned out some of those guys who teased me for thinking I was gay were regularly sleeping with each other