McNinja said:
Good Lord this is rediculous. If this were my kid, I would send them off to the other parents house and not let the kid back into my house. Why? Because the kid now knows that within the confines of [b/]MY[/b] house, SHE does NOT have to obey [b/]MY[/b] rules because she now knows that I don't have the power to tell her what to do.
You are jumping to conclusions. We don't know she knows that--it's possible she thought her father went too far this one time.
Also, when you have a kid, it stops being
YOUR house. Don't want to share? Don't have kids--it's as simple as that.
Finally, I think it's pretty fucked up the idea that parents get to make rules because they own the house--parents get to make rules because parents are the ones in charge of raising their kids. Whether in a mansion or a refugee camp, parental authority flows from the duty the parent has towards the kid to take care of them.
And Cheeze_Pavillion, kids cost lots and lots of money, and lots and lots of time, and lots and lots of energy. You put a roof over their head, feed them, attempt to raise them well, and they turn around and SUE YOU (which probably cost thousands of dollars in court costs, escpecially with all the appeals) for a simple little discpliary action.
Um, so? Money/time/energy do not necessarily make a good parent.