Poll: Am I a bad brother?

[NotAPie]

From your explanation, no.
Of course, there may be different points of view on this.

Honestly, she shouldn't even have a boyfriend yet.

How old is she?

She is 14.

Well thats not too bad...
You want bad?
I had my girlfriend at the age of 10.
Now thats bad.
Worst mistake I will ever make.
If you want advice then here is my advice, just ignore her, shes being a spoiled brat.

 

[Crimsane]

I voted yes, just because you're silly enough to care and/or make decisions based on what we random strangers think.

 

[megalomania]

From your explanation, no.
Of course, there may be different points of view on this.

Honestly, she shouldn't even have a boyfriend yet.

How old is she?

She is 14.

Well then you should be glad shes not asking if you have any condoms! I wouldn't say she is too young for a BF particularly. But you should definitely tell her to fuck off next time she tries to blackmail you into to doing stuff! Tell her you are not her chauffeur.

 

[Johnnyallstar]

Yes.

Actually I didn't read it.... lemme see....

Nah, she's acting like a brat, just smack her a good one and she'll be done haha

Just let her know that you have your own life to worry about, and you can't be her personal slave, unless she's willing to return the favor when she's old enough to bring you crap you intentionally forgot.

 

[avelmen1889]

no your not and tell her to shut up

 

[diptochowdhury]

tell her to go get and do her own things. tell her shes fat and needs the exercise. then record the shocked expression and post it on youtube. lol. you aint a bad brother, worse things have happened to my sister becuase of faults of mine. you have nothing to feel guilty about. she sounds like shes just plain spoiled but maybe your view is a bit biased. only celebrities are like that shallow, lazy and corrupted.

 

[Lemur_Ninja]

My younger sister demanding me to bring her to different places. From Starbuck's to her friends' houses to the mall. A few days back she told me I had to bring her her IPod and make-up because she "needed" them for volleyball practice. I told her no and now she says I'm a bad brother for not doing every thing she demands me to do. Am I a bad brother for doing so?

Note: She always tries to blackmail me into bringing her friends as well and to bring her to her boyfriend's place or something. Honestly, she shouldn't even have a boyfriend yet.

What does she blackmail you with?

She may take things from my room and make a story out of them (stealing stuff from Target or somthing), changing the story of what I did, or telling people what I did when I was a little kid that would embarrass me. Trust me she has done it multiple times now.

 

[Conveant0]

Not at all, but as it has been said there are many points of view into this matter, but from your text your being taken for a ride. Tell her to fuck off or counter her advances with reverse blackmail or just show you it doesn't bother you and ignore her. If she uses you as much as you say then she'll realise that she's made a mistake.. or she'll start walking a lot more.

 

[electric_warrior]

just tell her to fuck off, works for me.

 

[bluepilot]

You are a good brother because you obviously care a lot about your little sister and try to do what is best for her.

But at the same time, you should not let her make you feel bad like this.

Just because you say `no`, doesn`t make you a bad person.

Learn to stand up to your sister or you will end up downtrodden.

 

[mikecoulter]

No. Give her what for and be done with her!

Then, make sure she knows your not her *****.

 

[Cowabungaa]

Ofcourse not, she's just acting like a typical spoiled little teenage girl. Let her arrange her own stuff for once.

 

[Johnnyallstar]

My younger sister demanding me to bring her to different places. From Starbuck's to her friends' houses to the mall. A few days back she told me I had to bring her her IPod and make-up because she "needed" them for volleyball practice. I told her no and now she says I'm a bad brother for not doing every thing she demands me to do. Am I a bad brother for doing so?

Note: She always tries to blackmail me into bringing her friends as well and to bring her to her boyfriend's place or something. Honestly, she shouldn't even have a boyfriend yet.

What does she blackmail you with?

She may take things from my room and make a story out of them (stealing stuff from Target or somthing), changing the story of what I did, or telling people what I did when I was a little kid that would embarrass me. Trust me she has done it multiple times now.

I'd hit a bisch. Honestly I would, if she's trying to do something that could get you into that serious of trouble, like involving Johnny Law, I would definitely have a good old fashioned sit down with her and your parents.

 

[historybuff]

No, it sounds like you just let her walk all over you.

 

[ghalkhsdkssakgh]

Its not that she is too young, its that she doesn't see a boyfriend as someone you like/love, she treats them more like a lap dog. She has tried (and done) to get her boyfriends to spread rumors about me, some of which make me feel extremely terrible about myself.

Then she's a *****. Simple as.

 

[bodyklok]

No you're not a bad brother, not that I know a lot about being a brother since I'm an only child, but anyway, you're a bad person if you absolutely need other people to tell you that...

 

[Lemur_Ninja]

I voted yes, just because you're silly enough to care and/or make decisions based on what we random strangers think.

I just wanted to know how others would feel. I don't really care for the outcome, but my curiosity has apparently got the best of me. I'm not making any decisions based on what people say on this site.

 

[Azraellod]

ok...

She has tried (and done) to get her boyfriends to spread rumors about me, some of which make me feel extremely terrible about myself.

that in particular has coloured my opinion of her. people spread lies about me that didn't fade out for about 3 years, and it made me utterly miserable.

i don't have a sister, but if i did and she tried acting like this, then i would have no problems telling her to shut up.

you are a good brother. she is just an awful sister.

 

[Ace of Spades]

As long as you aren't exaggerating, then no. That's just plain unreasonable.
Also,

She has tried (and done) to get her boyfriends to spread rumors about me, some of which make me feel extremely terrible about myself.

if I had a sister was like that, then she would have black eyes quite often.