It sure is a good thing that I only have older siblings.
Also, no offence but your sister sounds like a ditsy *****.
Also, no offence but your sister sounds like a ditsy *****.
Poll: Am I a bad brother?
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No, and give her some time and she'll agree with you, she won't "hate" you forever for not being her thrall. I know because I'm a younger sibling. I used to try this stuff on my older brother, and I resented him when he told me to fuck off. Now that I have the benefit of hindsight, I don't blame him, and in fact I feel ashamed.
Tell her to go and fuck her own face.Lemur_Ninja said:
Seriously, that is mature, pro-social phschology. Sometimes people just need to be told.
Puntch the little *****.Lemur_Ninja said:
(not that I'm endorsing sibling abuse but theoretically if you did punch her the I wouldn't hold it against you)
Tell her no and if she bitches about it say "go cry in a corner"
And if she blackmails you by taking stuff out of your room like you said, say in a calm voice that she is lying, or tell your parents that she does this, and show your parents what you have, so if she does do something like this, it will backfire.
Or you could take her perfume and replace it with sweat squezed from the towels from the local gym. That should show her who's boss.
And if she blackmails you by taking stuff out of your room like you said, say in a calm voice that she is lying, or tell your parents that she does this, and show your parents what you have, so if she does do something like this, it will backfire.
Or you could take her perfume and replace it with sweat squezed from the towels from the local gym. That should show her who's boss.
No your not a bad brother , she is a bad sister. I suggest you start blackmailing her. If she say she doesn't care for what your blackmailing her fuffill your threat (so make your threat believeable) she won't be trying to get you to do stuff and next time she asks you to get something from the shop I suggest you buy it for yourself. If she is accusing you to be a bad brother, I suggest you be a bad brother.
well,since it is too late for sibling violence(you must do it at a very young age to get away with it[sort of]with you sister)so I suggest the old fir-with-fire trick.blackmail her,she is a girl,so imagine what you could stick her with.
if by not hurting her mentally you mean not doing that,then all you can do is let her walk all over you,you must draw a line in the sand.otherwise there is nothing you can do.
if by not hurting her mentally you mean not doing that,then all you can do is let her walk all over you,you must draw a line in the sand.otherwise there is nothing you can do.
Based off of what you wrote here, I can't say that you are, but then this is just one side of the story so what kind of judge would that make me?
At best, she's probably come to rely on you as being a solid pillar of helpfulness to all her little cruxes in life, and is complaining only because you've both finally reached and age where you can't always be there for her anymore. These are just growing pains - a fair balance should probably be struck between what you do and do not find reasonable to do for her.
At best, she's probably come to rely on you as being a solid pillar of helpfulness to all her little cruxes in life, and is complaining only because you've both finally reached and age where you can't always be there for her anymore. These are just growing pains - a fair balance should probably be struck between what you do and do not find reasonable to do for her.
Don't let it bother you. You're standing your ground and trying to be the responsible one. Honestly, good for you.
Just say no. Ever take D.A.R.E.? 
You have no obligation to take her anywhere, and if she steals your stuff, get your parents involved or just take it back. You don't have to hit her, you can just either go into her room and take it back, grab it out of her hand, or take something of hers as collateral.
Tell me, how old are YOU? If you're in a different school than her, then there shouldn't be a problem with her telling rumors. Also, you shouldn't really care what her friends think, as you don't have to have anything to do with them.
I've found, as the youngest child with a (formerly) bitchy older sister, discipline makes you better. Make her pissed off at the very sight of you. Make her hate you. If you do that, she'll be a better person for it. Also, you can become her friend after you're off to college, if you would really like to.
You have no obligation to take her anywhere, and if she steals your stuff, get your parents involved or just take it back. You don't have to hit her, you can just either go into her room and take it back, grab it out of her hand, or take something of hers as collateral.
Tell me, how old are YOU? If you're in a different school than her, then there shouldn't be a problem with her telling rumors. Also, you shouldn't really care what her friends think, as you don't have to have anything to do with them.
I've found, as the youngest child with a (formerly) bitchy older sister, discipline makes you better. Make her pissed off at the very sight of you. Make her hate you. If you do that, she'll be a better person for it. Also, you can become her friend after you're off to college, if you would really like to.
Normally I'd say yes. Because doing something like that isn't that big of a bother.
However, if she is constantly doing this then it's gone beyond 'no bother' to 'takes serious effort' and she is doing it for such silly things. Sure, walking/cycling/taking the bus might not be as fun, but they are there for a reason.
No, you're not a bad brother for not catering to her every whim.
If this keeps up, begin to demand favours back. Asking her to help you wash your car every now and then if she makes you use it so much is more than reasonable.
baed on this her boyfriend is no business of yours, but make her understand that asking you to do things for her so often carries a price. If she's forgetful enough to forget her make-up, her loss. She want's to see her boyfriend, let her take a bus or pay for a taxi...
Helping out your sister when she needs it is one thing, being her personal servant is another. She needs to grow up and catering to her 'requests' constantly is not helping that.
She blackmails you, ignore her entirely. She asks nicely, consider it.
However, if she is constantly doing this then it's gone beyond 'no bother' to 'takes serious effort' and she is doing it for such silly things. Sure, walking/cycling/taking the bus might not be as fun, but they are there for a reason.
No, you're not a bad brother for not catering to her every whim.
If this keeps up, begin to demand favours back. Asking her to help you wash your car every now and then if she makes you use it so much is more than reasonable.
baed on this her boyfriend is no business of yours, but make her understand that asking you to do things for her so often carries a price. If she's forgetful enough to forget her make-up, her loss. She want's to see her boyfriend, let her take a bus or pay for a taxi...
Helping out your sister when she needs it is one thing, being her personal servant is another. She needs to grow up and catering to her 'requests' constantly is not helping that.
She blackmails you, ignore her entirely. She asks nicely, consider it.
I also have a little sibling who desires that I do everything for them. Tell her "tough shit" (in nicer terms, of course). Or you could have her do favors for you instead, which would make things a bit more balanced.
As of now, she is a freshman at my school.Aby_Z said:Just say no. Ever take D.A.R.E.?
You have no obligation to take her anywhere, and if she steals your stuff, get your parents involved or just take it back. You don't have to hit her, you can just either go into her room and take it back, grab it out of her hand, or take something of hers as collateral.
Tell me, how old are YOU? If you're in a different school than her, then there shouldn't be a problem with her telling rumors. Also, you shouldn't really care what her friends think, as you don't have to have anything to do with them.
I've found, as the youngest child with a (formerly) bitchy older sister, discipline makes you better. Make her pissed off at the very sight of you. Make her hate you. If you do that, she'll be a better person for it. Also, you can become her friend after you're off to college, if you would really like to.
Simply don't show that she gets to you when you deny her request. If she takes something of yours, simply calmly and coolly walk into her room and take something of hers. Collateral, if you will.
Seriously, hit the little bugger. Or, if you drive her around, demand petrol money or your car ain't gonna start for her.
Seriously, hit the little bugger. Or, if you drive her around, demand petrol money or your car ain't gonna start for her.