Poll: Am I a bad brother?
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if she's not grateful for what you're doing for her, and takes it for granted and the gets psyche'd up when you refuse to do something for her (like mine) i'd say you were in full right to not hold up that farce, you're not a bad brother. Tell her where the boundaries lie, and if she accepts it (which i doubt, she's 14, that's not what they usually do xD ) than you can figure out how to plan such things. Being nice to your sister is not a granted thing, so she should be grateful and nice to you 
You're just a *****. If she asks you for something, and doesn't say please, you smack her. HARD.
(Note, if she does say please, you simply say no, then tell her to get her own ride)
(Note, if she does say please, you simply say no, then tell her to get her own ride)
Normally, I'd say that if you even need to ask, you probably are. But as someone with an equally annoying younger sister (who has convinced my parents that taking her to soccer practice and to other places my parents do not want to go is the reason they had me in the first place), I can tell you that you're not a bad brother in any way, at least from your explanation. Good news is, she'll probably appreciate you a lot more when she's older. At least that's what I'm told...
She apparently sees YOU as a lapdog too. In fact, she probably sees a great many other people as her personal servants.Lemur_Ninja said:
You said you don't want to hurt your sister physically/mentally/emotionally, but she clearly does not grant you the same consideration. One-way predatory relationship are NOT healthy and you are allowing one to continue, even though you are the victim of the relationship. In fact, by allowing her to walk all over you, you are doing her less of a favor than if you snapped her back in line.
You may not want to admit it, but your sister is the typical stuck-up high-maintenance holier-than-thou ***** that most people want nothing to do with. If you don't stand up for yourself she will take advantage of you like she has been.
A wise person once said "You haven't been a good parent if you've never been hated by your children." The same logic applies to older siblings and other mentors. You've coddled her too much and now she sees having people wait on her hand and foot as the status quo. Correct her before the rest of the world does, because I can guarantee you the world will be far harsher on her than you could ever be.
My God your a MONSTER!!
Do you have any idea just how important and crucial it is to have make-up at vollyball?
All I can say is "I'm glad your not my brother, you evil, Evil Hitler wannabe"
Do you have any idea just how important and crucial it is to have make-up at vollyball?
All I can say is "I'm glad your not my brother, you evil, Evil Hitler wannabe"
You're sister needs to learn independance and should be introduced to the joys of public transport. You should not act as her personal courier for items forgotten otherwise she will never learn to remember them. You will get a spine and stand up for yourself. You will go to her aid only in ABSOULTE EMERGENCIES. Otherwise just chill. She'll thank you for the tough love later...Lemur_Ninja said:
Actually she won't but she should.
You forgot the option of asswhupping, didn't you? I'd probably help; I hate most of the whelplings of that age at my school, and I assume location rarely matters.Lemur_Ninja said:
They're so fucking annoying. Note: I don't hate all kids that age, just 90% of them.
And anyway, I can relate. My little brother is a compulsive liar, lazier than most McDonald's employees, and wastes more energy than Ricky Martin's girlfriend.
Hey-oh!
No, your not. She's just an *****.
Tell her that if she wants you to take to places, she has to pay for it, or at least don't make demands to you like you're her slave.
Tell her that if she wants you to take to places, she has to pay for it, or at least don't make demands to you like you're her slave.
