Lord Azrael said:
GonzoGamer said:
Lord Azrael said:
GonzoGamer said:
A crossdresser doesn't (necessarily) suck dick, and therefore not gay. A bisexual does, and therefore should be considered gay, in a poll like this.
I don't think that quote is valid, it marks him rather more as an ignoramous than as having a valid, balanced opinion. To be blunt - you can enjoy 'sucking dick' as much as 'munching rug'. Why don't you try it? Be more open minded.
I qualify that by saying being open minded is not the same as being mindlessly open.
I know he's ignorant.
That's why I said I don't think he realized how profound that statement is.
My point is that (even if you prefer to munch rug) if you're a man and like to put man-meat in your mouth, that makes you gay. I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with that or that you can't like women too but that is a gay thing to do.
It's like saying you're a non-smoker even if you only occasionally have a cigarette. You may not buy a pack a day but if you still smoke, you're still a smoker.
You do know that one doesn't necessarily have to be gay to be open minded.
I take your point but then would you consider the reverse to be true?
If a 'gay' person decided that lady flesh was occasionally desirable would that make him straight? (or lesbian v.v.)
No criticism of you but you seem to see a world in purely 'black and white' with no grey areas whereas that is the sole domain in which the majority of humanity feels comortable. The need to label people as either 'gay' or 'lesbian' or 'whatever' seems unnecessary, merely an advertisement to like minded people (like KFC or a particular football team) to whom those who are not fans seem to feel some obligation to hate.
For example, assuming you are a 'straight' male, does it really offend you to say "No" to a gay guy in a club any more than it may offend you to say "no" to an 'ugly' girl? ('ugly' being a subjective opinion and presuming you don't chase them for this example)
As a lifelong NYer, I live in a city with many shades of grey; it's language that sometimes (as you pointed out yourself) doesn't allow the gray.
However, as a NYer, I have had to turn down advances from man or two but none of those advances have ever been so obtuse to offend me in any way. Then again, I am very polite.
And yes if a gay person decides they like carpet munching TOO, they're still gay. It's not a matter of black and white, it's a matter of logic: some things are either truth or false: "you either suck dick, or you do not suck dick." it's this (not the word people use) which dictates homosexuality.
Let me put it this way. Lets say you had a hetero' friend who wants to settle down with someone for the long haul, would you even consider setting them up with someone you would consider a bisexual? If I liked to munch the carpet and the column, I could never settle down. Damn, it was hard enough to find a good carpet.
