Poll: Asking for a kiss on your birthday.

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Sheppard

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I once jokingly asked for a kiss from a female friend on my birthday and that led to......sexual favours. I'd say go for it.
 

C95J

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GoldenFish said:
Go for it man, you never know what could happen.
I've got nothing really to say in this thread (GO FOR IT!).

What I do want to say though, is that your avatar is awesome :D
 

Ferrious

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While only you can make the decision, as there's clearly history here we aren't privy to, I will point you to the Harbinger of All Knowledge, XKCD:


Think hard on it, and do what seems right.
 

Aprilgold

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6_Qubed said:
You would be amazed the things you can get from a girl if you just ask for them.

In high school, I got a girl to hug me just by saying "I need a hug" and staring purposefully at her. I actually stunned a guy who was seated nearby. He was all like "dude, how did you do that?"

I got hired at Victoria's Secret. I was really just applying as a joke, but well, have you ever had one joke that you took just a little too seriously?

And I met my second girlfriend when she mentioned she didn't have a ride home from somewhere, I say that I thought she already had a boyfriend, she says no, and I reply "Oh. Want one?"

It is worth noting, at this point, that I am shy to the point of physical agony around most women I find attractive. I am, however, learning that CHA may not have been my dump stat this whole time.
Hm, yes, we have the SAME account picture, let us double it.

Yeah, go for it, as long as she doesn't have an automatic weapon. Give it a chance.
 

Seriphina

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I did give a friend a birthday kiss once. We were both pretty smashed tho, sitting on the steps of some flat and he asked "so what about that birthday kiss?" cos he had been making jokes about it all night. You should try tho! All she can say is no.
 

Ulquiorra4sama

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I say go for it. If she knows you like her then i see no harm. If she says no you'll brush it off as a joke and if she sas yes then more power to ya :p
 

FamoFunk

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Fuck it, do it. You either get a kiss (and more?) or sod all happens, what's there to lose?
 

thahat

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Maxtro said:
My birthday is next week and I'm getting old :(

Anyways, I'm going to be spending time with a female friend that knows I like her. What's between us is complicated and I'm not going to get into it here.

I'll just say that were pretty good friends, and I spent the day with her last week on what some people would call a date, but wasn't really.

I'm thinking about jokingly asking her for a kiss. I'm pretty sure she'll say no, but it's still worth a shot and I can play it off as being innocent yet still flirty.

Good idea, terrible idea?

Anybody done something like it before?

Edit: Added more detail
first off i did it before, it landed me a girlfriend, and weve been boyfriend/gf for 2 years straight now. then again i did not ask for a kiss. i asked or well, told 'this day has been great etc.' ( etc. being long story, going into detail why it was so great and why it was also lots because of her )> but they day could maybe be even greater.
she: 'how's that?'
well, i would actually. realy realy like to kiss you'
-silence that felt like it would last a lifetime and swing to no! :(!
...
and then she jumped me and we kissed for absolute hours XD.
 

JokerCrowe

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Do it, if you feel you could get away with it... :p
I don't know if I would, but I don't know your friend or the kind of relationship you guys have. I say do it, you can always add a "just kidding" if she doesn't want to. I think it's all in the WAY you say it.
Try to suppress any "I want to kiss you so bad!" and go with something like "since it's my birthday how 'bout a kiss? ;p" but you can't say it just out of the blue. You also need good timing.
 

ComprehensiveGoo

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Don't see why not, nothing ventured is nothing gained. Heck I was at a birthday shindig once where the birthday boy asked for more than a kiss if you catch me drift.. He was off his tits to put it bluntly. So much so he starting throwing logs at me and my friend Paul proclaiming us to be zombies!
 

DanDanikov

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Give up on the ulterior motives. If something does happen, have it be a pleasant surprise, but I'd say go into it with it entirely meant to be a mildly flirtatious joke. By not having that expectation/desire for more, you won't have to mask any disappointment if it ends up just being a joke.

If you're feeling especially brave, you could use it as a prelude for some serious, well intentioned flirting (it's good to know what you want and to seek it out, especially if you can detect and respect when it isn't wanted), but I don't think that's your forte just yet, so I'd stick to my first suggestion.
 

Moonlight Butterfly

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Wait this is a thing? I have a backlog! BRB!

But seriously it sounds like it's a bit of a one sided relationship and you aren't really sure where you stand. Maybe you should talk to her about it. No point living your life by sitcom logic.
 

AlphaEcho

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If she knows you like her, no harm in asking. Not like it will be a ground shattering thing. If she says yes, good for you, if she says no, continue as normal.
 

Tib088

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Worth a shot but it may make things awkward. My birthday was the Saturday just been. My girl friend stayed the Friday so I got a kiss at midnight the moment I turnd 18.

From personal experince, I wouldn't with a friend. It will just end badly further down the line. Tell her you like her and see if she feels the same way... It's a complicated subject I know but you never know until you try. Just be prepared to not talk to her for a little while if she says no.