Poll: Asking for a kiss on your birthday.

[renegade7]

Well I there's a high chance this will end in anything but a few seconds of awkward silence, but then again she is your friend and it's not like she'll hate you forever over a poorly thought out joke. For example:

Female friend: "what do you want for your birthday?"
Guy (somewhat sarcastic): "I want you to kiss me."
Girl: "EWWW I HATE YOU FOREVER NOW GO AWAY!"

Doesn't seem realistic does it? Just go for it. She might even like that you had the nerve to ask her.

 

[Smooth Operator]

Haha, asking someone on a date isn't the same as demanding a relationship and declaring undying love.
EDIT: But yes, cause then if they're a creep they can go away

We are past the asking out thing, now I'm just poking fun in your silliness.

You said it's better when a guy is honest with his feelings instead of a subtle approach, that directly translates to professing undying love is better then flirting.
That wouldn't even ring true in Neverland on opposite day with fairy dust on top and three talking donkeys in the mix.

 

[Phasmal]

Haha, asking someone on a date isn't the same as demanding a relationship and declaring undying love.
EDIT: But yes, cause then if they're a creep they can go away

We are past the asking out thing, now I'm just poking fun in your silliness.

You said it's better when a guy is honest with his feelings instead of a subtle approach, that directly translates to professing undying love is better then flirting.
That wouldn't even ring true in Neverland on opposite day with fairy dust on top and three talking donkeys in the mix.

His feelings being that he wants to go out with her. And asking someone for a kiss isnt flirting, really, is it?
And you can keep your poking fun out of my silliness if you dont mind.
Point being- whats wrong with just asking the poor girl out?

 

[teisjm]

I just can't picture this situation in my head, in a way that doesn't end awkwardly, considering she knows you like her, and haven't returned that...

If it had been someone who might have a thing for you, but was too shy or insecure to take the first step, this could work.

But hey, if you try and it works, it might just be your lucky day, so try asking for a blowjob afterwards, then if that works out as well, the true test of your luck would be asking her to make you a sandwich...

 

[Hollock]

I would say no, but saying yes will not hurt anything.

 

[Smooth Operator]

His feelings being that he wants to go out with her. And asking someone for a kiss isnt flirting, really, is it?
And you can keep your poking fun out of my silliness if you dont mind.
Point being- whats wrong with just asking the poor girl out?

Party pooper.
In what universe is asking for a kiss not flirting?
Asking for a date is immediately a demand for a romantic relationship, a big and dangerous step for any friendship, people will usually scare away on the daunting idea alone.

 

[DarthScorpio11]

get really drunk, and move into kiss her. if she freaks about it, the next day, tell her you were drunk, and didn't know what you were doing. If she goes for it then win!!! Worse thing that will happen if you'll have a laughable story. She might say something like, "i remember when you got really drunk and tried to kiss me." Of course, you'll deny remembering this, since you were too drunk to remember lol

 

[6_Qubed]

You gotta' risk it to get the biscuit.

That is the awesomest thing I've read tonight, good sir.

 

[clairedelune]

My birthday is next week and I'm getting old

Anyways, I'm going to be spending time with a female friend that knows I like her. What's between us is complicated and I'm not going to get into it here.

I'll just say that were pretty good friends, and I spent the day with her last week on what some people would call a date, but wasn't really.

I'm thinking about jokingly asking her for a kiss. I'm pretty sure she'll say no, but it's still worth a shot and I can play it off as being innocent yet still flirty.

Good idea, terrible idea?

Anybody done something like it before?

Edit: Added more detail

Bottom line, girls like guys with balls. Every girl. Don't ask us if you are allowed to kiss us, that is not sexy. If you feel chemistry with her, take the initiative and really kiss her. Worst thing that happens is she'll tell you she doesn't think it's a good idea (she's a friend, she probably won't slap you or anything, she has definitely thought about it happening anyways). Best case scenario, she digs the manliness of the action and kisses you back, or more.

 

[clairedelune]

get really drunk, and move into kiss her. if she freaks about it, the next day, tell her you were drunk, and didn't know what you were doing. If she goes for it then win!!! Worse thing that will happen if you'll have a laughable story. She might say something like, "i remember when you got really drunk and tried to kiss me." Of course, you'll deny remembering this, since you were too drunk to remember lol

I disagree, as a girl I think it's pretty confusing when a guy friend pulls something like this. Because, if the case is that the girl likes you back, she may think you were only kissing her because you were drunk (and drunk kisses are always messy, everyone is a better kisser while sober) and thus not get that you had any intention to take it further or that you liked her back.

 

[scythian0528]

Kisses are extremely easy to get and give. If you aren't making out with a girl the first day she opens up to you, you are doing something wrong.

I went to a bar the other day and got kissed by over three people, two girls and a guy. Your request is reasonable as long as you are out of high school.

 

[scythian0528]

On second thought, don't ask for a kiss, that might creep her out. Ask her out you pansy, or at least smooth talk her into giving you a kiss rather than asking directly like some self-diagnosed assburgers patient.