Poll: Do people actually like kissing?

[LetalisK]

Your female friends probably don't like it probably because they've never been with a guy who knows how to kiss. Seems to be one of those skills men have a hard time mastering on their own and feel too shy or proud to ask for help.

How in the bloody hell is one supposed to master it on his own?

In my mind, that specific part was said dripping with sarcasm. >.>

 

[VladG]

Your female friends probably don't like it probably because they've never been with a guy who knows how to kiss. Seems to be one of those skills men have a hard time mastering on their own and feel too shy or proud to ask for help.

How in the bloody hell is one supposed to master it on his own?

In my mind, that specific part was said dripping with sarcasm. >.>

True, but I find the idea oddly fascinating.

So far I've come up with licking and ashtray and hoping for a smoker.

I want more ideas, this is going somewhere!

 

[JoesshittyOs]

Being a rather awesome kisser myself, I'm gonna have to say no. And no, the three girls I've made out with seemed to like it just as much, if not more than me.

I think I'm gonna go ahead and agree, and put another tally on "they're doing it wrong"

 

[Hosker]

It definitely SEEMS nice.

 

[The Funslinger]

Kissing is awesome, but only if it's done well and the other person hasn't got bad breath from smoking, throwing up, or foul cheese.

Agreed. Kissing is awesome, and if I'm seeing a significant other, I make a point not to drink fizzy drinks. I can't imagine burping in her mouth would be too well received...

 

[Chemical Alia]

I'm a female, 30, and I hate kissing. Whether it's making out with someone or a kiss on the cheek from my grandmother on my birthday, it's just awkward and kind of gross to me.

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

I used to hate it till I met the right person. Now its something that just makes sex better. I guess it really depends on compatibility.

Oh it also gives me warm fuzzies now instead of just "fine, I'll do it because you like it" Its a nice love thing that brings me close to her.

yeah this

compatibility is key just about, (not to brag or sound like a whore) but used to make out all the time randomly as a young teen, just about every girl i did it with was more casual than anything, and i learned through that that people have vastly different ways/preferences to kissing (not to mention speed/tongue usage/saliva usage/lip usage/ bite or no bite/what angle/soft or hard/etc..)

but now a days i prefer to get to know a girl and if we really click in that way, i tend to enjoy the kissing alot more, if i'm just hooking up with a random chick the kissing part is usually a bit of a drag..

when you find that right partner though, i tell you what:


i know sure as hell i've made out for hours without even realizing it cuz we were both enjoying it that much.

 

[GLo Jones]

As a sign of affection, it's fantastic. However, 'make-out' sessions of longer than about 30 seconds or so are boring, monotonous, and usually (due to general positioning) uncomfortable after a while.

It all depends what is meant by 'kissing'.

 

[SckizoBoy]

I'm a girl and I love kissing (and have kissed many girls who also like it!) . Maybe they just kissed someone who kisses like a washing machine ??

Clearly, they have overactive salivary glands... the thought of which is suddenly grossing me out...

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Anyway, I'm surprised no-one has brought up where the kiss takes place (i.e. what the lips contact to make said kissing sound/sensation) and the different levels of pleasure to be had when kissing and when kissed. Won't go into the biochemistry side, because people have already gone on enough about it, so me personally:

1) Guy - (it's rather bizarre, I hate kissing guys in general, but I don't mind kissing them on the lips if they're so inclined) no lip-fuzz please...
2) Girl (lips) - yes, I like... but I don't love it, I'm not the 'get-a-room' level of making out type, and tongues are to be used in moderation (if at all).
3) Girl (rest of head... however weird that sounds) - as a sign/display of affection, I find it wonderful. In a previous relationship, there were times when we could read each other's mood by a kiss, its placement, intensity and length.
4) Girl (body) - foreplay, fucking awesome, go away and imagine something, I won't really care.
5) Me (lips) - I don't mind enthusiasm, but I do mind zeal, so take it easy.
6) Me (rest of head... again, however weird that sounds) - see (3)
7) ... have a guess!

 

[dcdude171]

Yes, but I'm the biggest hopeless romantic ever ...

 

[Jessabi]

Girl here, and I love kissing ^.^ The only downside? Beard rash -.-

 

[Cavan]

I find kissing is no more exciting than general close physical contact for me, I know how it's done and what it is like but I do not feel the need to and it is not a turn on in and of itself.

In the same way some people would say they're not 'hug' people.