Poll: Do you fake it?

[FamoFunk]

Female - never faked it, never will. I think I'd find it quite hard too as well. Also, if you're crap and cannot satisfy me, you'll know about it, I will not fake to make you feel better about how rubbish you are.

I don't see how a Male could fake it, it would be fairly obvious, wouldn't it?!

That depends do you check the condom after?

I know what you mean, but it's a lot harder to get away with it as a Man and seems kinda stupid.

 

[gazumped]

I've occasionally let my partner believe I have if he says something along the lines of "YES! I GOT YOU!" and I just smile noncommittally because I don't want to disappoint him. (If he asks me straight up I don't lie, though.)

I don't think I could fake it, I don't know how people are able to act while they're having sex. @_@

 

[artanis_neravar]

Female - never faked it, never will. I think I'd find it quite hard too as well. Also, if you're crap and cannot satisfy me, you'll know about it, I will not fake to make you feel better about how rubbish you are.

I don't see how a Male could fake it, it would be fairly obvious, wouldn't it?!

That depends do you check the condom after?

I know what you mean, but it's a lot harder to get away with it as a Man and seems kinda stupid.

Yeah, I've done it only because she was done and I knew I was going to be, stress from other things and what not, so I just told her I did, she bought it

 

[artanis_neravar]

I've occasionally let my partner believe I have if he says something along the lines of "YES! I GOT YOU!" and I just smile noncommittally because I don't want to disappoint him. (If he asks me straight up I don't lie, though.)

I don't think I could fake it, I don't know how people are able to act while they're having sex. @_@

Yeah I feel like you would have to lose all arousal to be of sound mind enough to fake it

 

[Trillovinum]

I had to do that once, not realy proud of it.
but she just kept on moaning and I didn't realy feel much so I felt kind of awkward.

But that's the one and only time.

 

[soren7550]

I wouldn't know how if I wanted to. -_-'

(as you can see, my experence really shows)

 

[AnkaraTheFallen]

Many girls fake it and do a good job at it. Smart girls, even if they fake it to help the guys ego or allow them to move on, will still provide advice on "what would be even better next time".

Never had to fake it, and I know my girlfriend hasn't either.

/chuckles

When you put it that way it pretty much tells me she has faked it.

You can think that, but with the kind of relationship we have I know she'd tell me what she wanted me to do and if she wasn't enjoying it.

 

[smurf_you]

I have had to before.... a couple guys who... just had no clue, and I orgasm pretty easily too, not like it takes me 20 minutes every time....

and to be honest, if the guy felt he had to fake it, well thats his choice *shrugs* haven't had it happen yet

 

[similar.squirrel]

I'm a guy. I can imagine very few scenarios where that could happen. I don't want to imagine them, though.

 

[KhaosElement]

Man...unless you've got some crazy control or live in a wacky romance comedy, it'd be REALLY hard to fake that as a guy.

Also, I'd rather get told what I'm doing wrong so I can actually make her do it for real.

Also also, I wish I got it enough to worry about her faking it.

 

[daftalchemist]

I couldn't fake it if I tried. I'm the person you don't want as a neighbor because even a pillow can barely stifle me.

And I would hate it if my partner ever faked it. I feel terrible if I'm the only one enjoying myself. It makes me feel selfish, or that I didn't try hard enough with foreplay, or any number of reasons/excuses my brain can come up with.

 

[daftalchemist]

Man...unless you've got some crazy control or live in a wacky romance comedy, it'd be REALLY hard to fake that as a guy.

Also, I'd rather get told what I'm doing wrong so I can actually make her do it for real.

Also also, I wish I got it enough to worry about her faking it.

I have a friend who faked it once. He didn't really want to sleep with the girl, but I guess was desperate enough to do so anyway. Then he ended up regretting that desperation and faked it to end it.

 

[Johnny Impact]

Never faked it and I wouldn't want my girlfriend to fake it. It just wouldn't feel right to be dishonest with each other at such an intimate moment.

I mean...

NAW BRO, NEITHER OF US FAKES IT CAUSE I MAKE THE LADIES SCREAM AND SEX ALWAYS FEELS AWESOME AND EMOTIONS ARE FOR PUSSIES DUDE!

Whew, dodged a bullet there...

Ninja'd. But seriously, ladies, don't fake it! If you think you're doing him a favor you're wrong. Lying to him is the wrong way. If you do you'll have to fake it again and again and again because all you're doing is teaching him that what he's doing is working when it really isn't. Any man worth the skin he's printed on wants you to come as badly as he wants to himself. He wants you to enjoy it. Sex without orgasm is like a sundae without the fudge: it's good but the whole time all you're thinking about is what's missing. Teaching your man how to help you get there is a better gift for both of you than faking it could ever be.

 

[Johnny Impact]

Hmm, double post. That's never happened before. Sorry about that, hon. Just, umm, just give me ten minutes, okay?

 

[Luthir Fontaine]

Never faked it...but has my wife...? I dont know in the after glow im not a very good lie detector

 

[loc978]

I don't really identify with this guy, I'm sort of in the majority of this thread. Male, no and no.
-still, hilarious.

 

[Daggedawg]

I don't fake, and I don't want my partner to fake, but if there is something I can do to make her feel better, then I would like her to tell me.

 

[NLS]

I'm waaaaay to early to worry about stuff like that (22, currently about 4.5 months into my first relationship), but...

I really don't know if I'd even have a chance to fake it. Judging from my...er...."alone time" if you want to call it that, I'd probably get there way too fast. Although I don't think I'd fake it. Also, if she had an orgasm on her end, and I'm REALLY not getting there, I'd probably just stop.

I don't think I'd like her to fake it, and if there's something I need to do better (or she just wants to stop), then by all means, she should just say so.

Wait, it sounds to me like you two haven't done it yet? :O

OT: Nope, never done, and I don't think she has. Everything seems fine.

 

[ReservoirAngel]

I'm a guy and my partner's are guys. Unless we hook up some weird invisible device to ourselves that produces fake semen, it's pretty much impossible to fake it without the other person noticing.