I notice there's a lot of comments about getting hit on being difficult to endure. I was propositioned by a gay guy three weeks ago. I doubt I could become sexually aroused when there is another man's scent in the room so I wasn't interested. However, I guess there was nothing particularly arduous about it, he offered and I said no, nothing beyond that. However, that guy was Chinese and not the sort of grotesque caricatures you so often encounter in the west.
My girlfriend likes gay porn and I've walked in on her with it and watched it with her for a few minutes. It's not really confronting, it just doesn't really cause the same physical reaction that other varieties of pornography give, I mean, she likes the type with androgynous guys and you can sometimes imagine one of them being a chick for a few seconds, but then the camera angle changes and the illusion is shattered.
However, I only have a single openly gay friend because frankly, I can't stand the way that the vast majority of homosexuals behave. When you look at cool gay guys like Sir Ian McKellan and Steven Fry, you will notice that even though they are very open about their homosexuality, they do very little "bitching", "prancing", etc. that the majority of my homosexual acquaintances seem to forge an identity out of. You have the freedom to use whatever speech and mannerisms you want, just don't expect everyone to like it.
Seriously, those guy make me uncomfortable, not the guys who ask me for sex, not the guys in my girlfriend's gay porno, but those bitchy, affected little stereotype guys.
