A couple of female friends I've been considering asking... as well as one in the past.....
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The main reason I don't date is that I prefer personality and intellect over looks, which tends to make normal dating difficult. It essentially means that I have to get to know someone fairly well before I would even consider asking them out...SecondmateFlint said:
It's pretty much a Catch 22 unless we are introduced through a mutual friend or we work together in school...
It's easier if you can tell the chick likes you, then you ask the chick out. I was dense in high school and asked out two or three chicks and got rejected, while ignoring chicks who were interested in me. In high school, I eventually did ask out a chick who I heard was interested in me, and of course she said yes.Alec Wiese said:I'm 17 and I've been rejected by every girl I've ever asked. But I think that's about to change. For the record I'm one sexy SOB
I'm currently in a long term relationship with a chick who took the first step by striking up some conversation with me.
So, my advice: pay attention to a chick's behavior. It's a no brainer, but I sure as hell didn't get it when I was in high school. Don't confuse friendly with interested though, since some chicks are just friendly... the wierdos.
Not for a lack of trying, but no.
I think it's for a fear of failure, and intimacy, and a general distrust of my fellow man. I've seen plenty of people have shallow, callous, meaningless relationships... and yet they're always surprised when it inevitably ends. Leaving one, or both parties crushed. I hesitantly expose my feelings to other people, that makes me vulnerable, and if I'm vulnerable I'm liable to get hurt. The closer you let people in, the faster they'll be able to kill you.
I think it's for a fear of failure, and intimacy, and a general distrust of my fellow man. I've seen plenty of people have shallow, callous, meaningless relationships... and yet they're always surprised when it inevitably ends. Leaving one, or both parties crushed. I hesitantly expose my feelings to other people, that makes me vulnerable, and if I'm vulnerable I'm liable to get hurt. The closer you let people in, the faster they'll be able to kill you.
No, but I have asked a girl out, and at least two have shown interest in me in the past.
The shame is, one of the girls that liked me probably would've made for a solid relationship...needless to say, she got a boyfriend before I realized my mistake.
And the girl I asked out, I loved her, I mean it. It wasn't a crush it was fully blown love. However I knew I would get a no before I even asked, yet I still wished I could love her somehow. But that's just not possible, so now our link is a strange one- not quite awkward or tense, but just distant, yet occasionally, clear.
The other girl was hot, but a bit of a ***** anyhow. Would've just been some accessory for her.
Now if you excuse me, these kinds of memories almost make me want to start smoking, or resume drinking.
But damn, every second I spent while in love was absolute fucking bliss.
The shame is, one of the girls that liked me probably would've made for a solid relationship...needless to say, she got a boyfriend before I realized my mistake.
And the girl I asked out, I loved her, I mean it. It wasn't a crush it was fully blown love. However I knew I would get a no before I even asked, yet I still wished I could love her somehow. But that's just not possible, so now our link is a strange one- not quite awkward or tense, but just distant, yet occasionally, clear.
The other girl was hot, but a bit of a ***** anyhow. Would've just been some accessory for her.
Now if you excuse me, these kinds of memories almost make me want to start smoking, or resume drinking.
But damn, every second I spent while in love was absolute fucking bliss.
No. As saddened by this, I can't blame anyone for it. I don't even try. I just have this weird fear of talking to... well, anyone.
Well I have the superhuman ability to fall into the friend zone almost immediately. I am not that attractive and am fairly overweight (I'm working on the weight thing) so I'm never really going to be seen as a dating option.
It used to bother me, but them I realized it is not the end of the world not to have one. At this point I think it would be like a dog chasing a car; I wouldn't have any idea what to do if I actually got one, and would ultimately just get bored. How anyone manages to fall in love is beyond me.
It used to bother me, but them I realized it is not the end of the world not to have one. At this point I think it would be like a dog chasing a car; I wouldn't have any idea what to do if I actually got one, and would ultimately just get bored. How anyone manages to fall in love is beyond me.
Oh and I'm 21, and never had a date or kissed a girl, so you guys who are nineteen and complaining I've got you beat
