Eh, I had to except the fact, along time ago, that just because i really enjoyed playing videogames, that didn't automatically make me GOOD at it. I don't seem to have the natural skills some people do, people like my younger brother who seems to be able to catch on and go right to "insane hard" mode almost right off the bat.
So, once i accepted the fact that i typically "suck" when i start playing a game, my gaming expearince improved. LOL. I start at normal. If the game is just too hard to make any headway i drop it to easy now a days, and play. I typically have fun, assuing it's a fun game to begin with, and as i learn, i can up the difficulity curve, sometimes maxing it out in games i really like. I can beat Mass Effect and Mass Effect 2 on insanity, with any class now. Infact, anything lower then hardcore feels to easy and it's no fun. But that's NOT how i started. LOL.
So yeah. I'll use easy. Frustration isn't fun, and gaming is ment to be fun. And once i get some expearince, i up the diff, and go from there.