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Here's a great example. You are unable to see that the problem is the ban, not the smoking or non-smoking and you illustrate that with such... I don't even know.
Banning smoking in places, other than places where it can be very bad like around oxygen tanks, is really the government taking away rights. These clubs, bars, restaurants, etc... should have the choice to allow it or not. I'm sure many, if given the option right now, would not start allowing smoking in their establishment. Some would though. Then, as a human that can make his/her own decisions, you can choose not to go to the places that allow smoking.
Why does everyone want to destroy/ban everything they don't like? Why can't you just stay away from it? Why does anyone, smoker or non-smoker, deserve to have their life interfered with due to someone else's wants? Why do so many non-smokers act so superior?
For me personally it comes down to a concept I call "choice theft." When you light up a cigarette you have just decided for yourself, and anyone within 5 to 10 feet of you. You have chosen to fill their lungs with smoke, make their clothes smell awful and to (in my case) aggitate a chronic health problem. You didn't ASK them if you could smoke, or if they wanted to smoke did you? Smoking is one of the only things that does this, because unlike drinking alchahol it creates a "radius" around it. For me it feels very similar to someone walking up to me without a word, spitting on me, and then punching me in the throat.
Though yes, smoking "clubs" "bars" and "restaurants" should be allowed as long as they are designated as such. Hell, if a place wants to have a glassed off smoking section, let them! No reason not to! But if all clubs, pubs and restaurants were smoking like they used to be you'd be taking my choice away from me, hence your choice to engage in an optional activity has stolen my right to clean air.