I just feel so guilty causing anyone pain even if I know it isn't actually hurting them.Rasputin1 said:I used to have a girlfriend that always wanted me to hurt her. I have no problem with hurting myself, but other people.. I can't make myself do it. She also apparently got off on making her boyfriends angry.mimssy said:An ex-boyfriend of mine used to like me to smack him around a bit. I was always really afraid to hurt. I don't enjoy causing pain to other people; however, I do enjoy some pain for pleasure. I like both giving and receiving bites (nothing to draw blood mind you) and some choking. Part of me feels creepy for admitting that, but fuck it.
I thought you were calling self harm for pleasure stupid. Its not really, but you have to know what your doing so you don't injure yourself. Its less about harm and more about the pain involved.Rasputin1 said:Of course it's my fault, I didn't realize I implied otherwise. I used to cut deep, very deep.. And I've gotta live with these permanent scars forever. And how on earth can you self-harm "wrong"?Eldarion said:That may be due to you doing it wrong. If you manged to disfigure your arm isn't that your fault?Rasputin1 said:I'llbe honest, Yes. I used to be addicted to self harming. My left arm is completly disfigured because of it... it's the stupidest idea in the world.
In essence, it is fairly stupid. That's what I think anyway. But what can I say, I like to bleed. not alot of ways to do that without scarring.Eldarion said:I thought you were calling self harm for pleasure stupid. Its not really, but you have to know what your doing so you don't injure yourself. Its less about harm and more about the pain involved.Rasputin1 said:Of course it's my fault, I didn't realize I implied otherwise. I used to cut deep, very deep.. And I've gotta live with these permanent scars forever. And how on earth can you self-harm "wrong"?Eldarion said:That may be due to you doing it wrong. If you manged to disfigure your arm isn't that your fault?Rasputin1 said:I'llbe honest, Yes. I used to be addicted to self harming. My left arm is completly disfigured because of it... it's the stupidest idea in the world.
I don't know much about self inflicted pain, but I had a girlfriend who was very rough on me when we got intimate. But she manged to have her fun without accentually hurting me. Good times.
This response. I like this response. Quite a bit, in fact.Douk said:Pain is uncomfortable, therefore I do not like pain. Simple as that.
I've never been much of a masochist despite some interest in BSM.Disaster Button said:I enjoy sticking cigarettes out on my body, I find it gives me a great rush and puts me on a high for an hour at least. I was wondering if anybody else had similar experiences? I realise this will probably sound a bit weird but we are on the internet so its not like anyone you know (for most of you) will find out. And if not, would you ever consider it, or indulge in letting a romantic partner do it to you?
Bleeding? Are we talking about the same thing? I don't think we are anymore.Rasputin1 said:In essence, it is fairly stupid. That's what I think anyway. But what can I say, I like to bleed. not alot of ways to do that without scarring.Eldarion said:I thought you were calling self harm for pleasure stupid. Its not really, but you have to know what your doing so you don't injure yourself. Its less about harm and more about the pain involved.Rasputin1 said:Of course it's my fault, I didn't realize I implied otherwise. I used to cut deep, very deep.. And I've gotta live with these permanent scars forever. And how on earth can you self-harm "wrong"?Eldarion said:That may be due to you doing it wrong. If you manged to disfigure your arm isn't that your fault?Rasputin1 said:I'llbe honest, Yes. I used to be addicted to self harming. My left arm is completly disfigured because of it... it's the stupidest idea in the world.
I don't know much about self inflicted pain, but I had a girlfriend who was very rough on me when we got intimate. But she manged to have her fun without accentually hurting me. Good times.
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